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Topic: Moon-Mars Synastry
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Dy-na-mi-tee Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted June 17, 2010 08:49 PM
If I was in your shoes right now, I'd tread carefully with this man. Obviously I don't know the situation or the way he is behaving towards you.But if his behavior is not aggressive (or passive-aggressive) and he is not harassing you or harming you.. He should be treated with respect and *let down* tactfully. The Moon is a fragile emotional spot in anyone's chart - and his Moon is being hit by your Mars-Pluto-Uranus (together).. It's easy for you to harm this person through your self-centered attitude (Mars), not giving a damn, because "he can take care of himself" (Pluto) - and general detachment (Uranus). Since you are interested in astrology and you are aware of this now.. I would think you'd want to behave in such a way so as to *end* this situation with minimal emotional *harm*. There are ways and ways to reject a person.. I just think you should do it in the most caring way possible (you know him better than I do).. If you act as though he disgusts you and you cannot stand him and push him away in a cruel manner -- this can cause damage for him long term (because as I said the Moon is sensitive) --- and it can cause damage for you karmicaly (if you believe in that - I do..) Just my two cents.. IP: Logged |
Dolphin07 Knowflake Posts: 246 From: United States Registered: May 2009
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posted June 17, 2010 09:28 PM
Great advice Dy-na-mi-tee. I absolutely agree. I think deep down he is sensitive and it is not my intention to hurt him, however I am not interested in a romantic relationship. Only a co-worker relationship. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 12:00 AM
so how did relationship ended? did u ever date?IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 31, 2011 12:59 AM
anyone with more experience in this?IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 01, 2012 07:16 PM
or maybe someone else can share more insight!IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 335 From: Someday in London... Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 31, 2012 11:36 AM
Moon conjunct Mars. Hmm... I have this aspect with an ex best friend (male of course) but its not both ways so he was the one attracted. His Moon was only in trine with my Mars. I had 0 sexual interes in him. He was OBSESSED with mr, often telling me how he would rip off my clothes and make rough sex with me. Didnt like it. I like his personality but I don't find him physically attractive and things don't work that way for me. No half things for me.PS: I was the Moon, he was the Mars. No I share again the same aspect with someone but in both ways. Honestly I don't know what to say. IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 894 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 31, 2012 12:55 PM
Haha too funny, right now my cappy moon makes a t square with my mans mars in aries pluto in libra opposition. It is extremely hot on both sides, he literally likes to rip off my clothes and have rough sex, which I like so its cool. But I thought that was funny how she just mentioned that guy talking about ripping her clothes off too, lol.IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 02, 2012 04:10 AM
oooooo hot oneIP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 894 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 02, 2012 08:36 PM
Your telling me babe...Anyone else got some moon-mars syanstry stories?IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4402 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 02, 2012 09:08 PM
I have this with fishy.. (yes we have just about everything..sighhh) Its also both way My mars sq his Moon His mars opps my Sun,Moon,Merc.. But its a little wide.. 7/8 orbs. But considering the planets I think it counts... Well we talk every single day.. At some point, I think one of us hurts the others feelings in some way... But its so small that we dont make a big deal out of it.. Its the smallest little things that seem to bother us... Deep down (at least me) I know that he didnt mean it that way.. But it still hurt my feelings. But we also have a both way Jupiter/Sun sextile/trine.. So I think that just helps to let things go.. We discuss it, and move past it.
Example last week he called me. I didnt answer my phone. He called me 3x.. Then texted me GOODNIGHT!!!!! The next day I texted him,said sorry I couldnt get to my phone. He called me and said ahh its cool.. No worries 2 Days later, he's telling me.. You have NEVER done that to me! I dont know what to think. I was wondering why.. Whats going on.. He was really upset cuz I didnt answer my phone.. I explained and he let it go.. Saying ok babe. Then he dropped it. Today.. He said if he can come to my house. I said no.. I dont let people come to my house. He said so Im just some "body" why are you acting all manly!!! MANLY??? I have kids, I dont have male visitors to my house. HE said ok ok.. Im just joking... Manly can you believe that! But I let it go, and we continued to talk.. LOL.. The other day I texted him, if he was busy.. He said yeah. I said Ok then I will just talk with you later. He said.. I dislike when you do that! Whats up?? It bothered me, cuz I thought I was being courteous. But he told me he didnt like that, so then I now know it bothers him... Geezzzz... This is pretty much everyday.. But I guess we are both learning how the others see's it. We do make an effort to not hurt the persons feelings... But it still happens.. What can I say.
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 894 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted April 03, 2012 12:05 AM
Girl, have u slept with this guy? No Offense im a girl too, im just wondering maybe u should try him out?? Lol. It seems like a Hot interaction u cant seem to pass by....r there karmic indicators here in synastry/composite??IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4402 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 03, 2012 12:13 AM
LOL.. Well we did a few years ago.. But that was just right from the start.. Then we became friends, and then we didnt do anything. Or HAVENT done anything.... No Im not giving it up... Not that we dont talk about it ALOT.. But IDK.. I cant cross that line, just yet... I need to know how he feels.. Pluto is taking over.. All of nothing baby! lolYes we have some karma karma karma.. We have everything going on.. Its a mess... But that moon/pluto kicks my butt... IP: Logged |
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 183 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 10, 2012 09:10 AM
His sun conjunct your ascendant is his draw. But this is an aspect that draws with no regards to sexual attractions. The sexual attraction is the Mars Conjuct Moon but the Mars (is the potential aggressor) when conjuct Moon. If he reals you in, the tables might change. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 10, 2012 09:19 PM
Slowpoke, what do you mean by mars being the aggressor. how does mars do it, especially if it is in the fire sign?IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 938 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted April 10, 2012 11:05 PM
quote: ...what do you mean by mars being the aggressor. how does mars do it, especially if it is in the fire sign?
speaking of the conjunction, Mars in Sagittarius, the ones who were interested, made in clear from the beginning they wanted something physical. An Aqua-Cancer colleague kinda avoided me though. After they'd left the company paid me an astral visit. It was good, but I cut it short. Things were moving too fast. I didn't know who it was. And, I generally steer clear of Astral sex - it could be anyone. How I knew it was Aqua-Cancer is because the very next day they visited the job, made intense Scorpio-like eye contact with me, and was smiling. Had a similar experience with a Saggi-Libra. It was May 19th. I'd seen them around before but for whatever reason on this day couldn't place 'em. I kept staring and asking myself, 'who is this?' Wasn't until Mommie Dearest entered the frame that it dawned on me. On May 22nd, I had a dream, or maybe it was an astral visit. In the dream there was a naked somebody sitting next to me in the crowded room. After everyone left the person remained and was very friendly. On May 25, we met in a group of mutual friends. There was discreet flirting & innuendo. An Aries among our group thought I was interested - sigh* me and my complicated love triangles. On May 27th, we met one-on-one. It was obvious we were going to have sex. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 411 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 11, 2012 12:50 AM
oh wow!IP: Logged |