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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 18, 2010 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrazyAquarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was talking to my friend and she had her first crush when she was 13. And I was 5! It got me wondering how this could be linked to our signs and our attraction to the opposite....or maybe the same sex.
So how old were were and whats your sign? Hmm Maybe, sun, moon, venus and mars?

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teasel
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posted June 18, 2010 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Five or six, and his name was Robin. He lived down the road, that ours curved out of - into a crescent - and he was in my class at school.

I'm an Aries, Gemini Moon/Venus, Mars in Pisces. (I also sort of had a crush on Adam Ant. I used to love watching him on Top of the Pops - that was when I was five.)

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WinkAway
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posted June 18, 2010 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay mine was when I was around 5.
The boy across the street whom I pretty much grew up with. They used to say that I'd marry him. Then my parents got divorced when I was 9 and we moved away.
The whole while I missed him like crazy. I would show my classmates his pic and tell them he was my bf.
Then when I was 12 we moved back to the same general area. I ached to see him again. Then at his 15th birthday, I was invited. It was like I never left.. he was just older. But same feelings.
Then we dated until I was around 16 or 17 and I broke up with him because I was afraid of the feelings I was having.
Then I tried to get back together with him but it never really happened.
And when I was 19 I moved again to another state....still having those feelings.
And keeping it short, I got pregnant by another man at 21 and we went our seperate ways.
I found him again when I was 26 and we were both married to others.
He has since divorced, I have since divorced.. we keep in contact on FB but I just don't think our paths will ever cross again...

And here I am at 39 still with feelings for him.
They say you never get over your first love.

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posted June 18, 2010 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first kiss at 13 was the one I still have feelings for after all these years.
He is a professional musician . I found a clip of him on U tube.
He looked the same lol.

Ami

PS He was a Sag but must have had Scorpio ASC or Mars cuz he had the Scorpio vibes lol

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Mine was michael jackson and i was 8 years old. Hehe.

I used to be so fascinated by him

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posted June 18, 2010 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol My first "little kid" crush - I was probably 5.. I barely remember him. He threw a snowball in my mouth accidentally - that's all I remember.

My first "real" crush - I was 10 years old.. I don't know his chart but he was a Taurus and a year older. In that year it's very possible he had Aries Venus-Mercury. He was in my life from 10 to 12.. Al I can say is there was huge physical chemistry between us (even though I wasn't all that "aware" at that age).

My first *love* - I was 13 when we met - and we were together on and off for almost a decade. Funnily he reminded me of the Taurus guy. I missed the Taurus guy, because we had moved... and that's why I liked him initially. He's a Pisces (Aries Merc and Venus) - Taurus Mars. This was a bit insane overall. We're both emotional people and when it was good, it was very good.. but when it was bad - it was horrible. I'm glad this chapter is over for me.

My first *kiss* - I was 14 and I didn't even like this guy but he chased a lot (His Sun was Cancer but I don't know the rest.. I think he was born in my year which would give him a Capricorn Mars). My first love was very upset about this actually. It was the root of many problems between us, that he was not my first kiss.

My first really good male friend: Gemini with Taurus Venus (I did his chart a couple of years ago.. but I can't remember the rest). He was just the most supportive person ever. I would've quit high school without him.

:edit: Here are some more firsts:

My first long-term relationship which lasted over 2 years: Libra, Cap Moon, Cap AC - Libra Venus, Virgo Mars.. Scorpio (Mercury, Pluto, Saturn)

My first *real* - adult - love: Leo, Gemini Moon, Scorpio AC, Virgo Venus, Scorpio Mars. This is soooooooooo different to my "first love". I think my first love was more physical + some love. Whereas this just feels genuine and real. There's no falsity involved - no "highschool musical".


So.... There ya go! lol

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-- how old were were and whats your sign? Hmm Maybe, sun, moon, venus and mars? --

Sun - Aries
Moon - Capricorn
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Capricorn

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posted June 18, 2010 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awwwww WinkAway - I also had a boy who lived next door. His parents were friends with mine.. and he is still in my life to this day - on my FB etc lol

ummm In a sense I had a crush on him - but it's difficult to tell when this started since I'd known him my entire life, literally since I was born. It was almost like a background crush that was there.. throughout the years. I got over it entirely - when I met Pisces guy at 13.

We're more like friends or aquaintances now.

His chart is: Leo, Cancer Moon, Leo Venus and Scorpio Mars.

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WinkAway
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posted June 18, 2010 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for WinkAway     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dyn..
This guy was my first time feeling anything and it kind of scared me. He's on my FB and he's moving to WA as I type this. I flirt with him from time to time but I have always loved him and always will. I'd probably get all giddy if I ever saw him in person again lol.

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posted June 18, 2010 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dy-na-mi-tee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wink - What is your synastry like? Anything interesting?

It sounds like a very strong bond. Maybe you guys will still get together at some point.

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posted June 18, 2010 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha... My first crush experience was so different from the rest of you. I was actually traumatized by crushes when I was a kid.

I was a tomboy when I was little, because all boys lived on my street so that's who I had to play with. I'd go play tag and Nintendo with them and then never think a thing of it beyond that.

There was this little boy I was best friends with when I was 7. I was in girl scouts and I went to a girl scout troop sleepover. One of the questions all the girls asked was what boy we had a crush on. I actually felt weird because I DIDN'T have a crush on anyone! I felt so weird in fact, that I told them that I had a crush on my best friend just so that I could feel like I fit in. It backfired on me though, because it went around my second grade class (even though my fellow girl scouts SWORE they wouldn't tell ), and the second he found out that I had a crush on him, he stopped being my friend. I think that may have been part of why I really didn't have a crush on anyone for a LONG time.

So, I had my first "true" crush on a boy when I was 12 and my hormones were waking up, and I had stopped being a tomboy for a couple of years prior to that. He was handsome and popular, and I was a nerd, and that was that. I've always had a hard time with crushes. They never work out for me.

Sun- Virgo
Moon- Aries
Venus- Virgo
Mars- Leo

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teasel
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posted June 18, 2010 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Benedict Moon*
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posted June 18, 2010 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first real crush happened when I was eight and it lasted for two years. The only thing astrological I remember about him was that he was a Pisces. (Oddest thing is that my sister is a Pisces and her first crush was a Cancer. ) I never had the guts to ask this one out...but its now pretty obvious to me that he liked me too. Dammit.

Another crush that ran simultaneously was on an Aries (I know, I was such a Gemini Venus back then! LULZ). We went to school together and he was good friends with that annoying Libra neighbor I whined about in another thread so he was always playing with us on my street. He's still cute, btw, 13-14 years later.


Cancer Sun
Virgo Moon
Gemini Venus
Aries Mars

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posted June 19, 2010 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Age 3, apparently. Keith Richards was the man.

Aries Sun & Venus
Aqua Moon
Taurus Mars

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posted June 19, 2010 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starkiss1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Music teacher at 14. Bad.

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Scorpio Moon/Mars
Libra Venus

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posted June 19, 2010 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was 4 or 5, his name was Eric. We barely ever talked. His friend Zachary was always mean to me because I wanted to play with Eric and he wouldn't allow it lol.

Idk, I was always after boys. I kind of developed what I call an "intellectual crush" (as in, no real feelings but he was "my type") on a kid in 2nd grade. in 3rd grade i had a "boyfriend" and we had mock marriages. 4th and 5th grades I had other boyfriends but my first love was in 6th grade. he broke up with me but then we dated briefly in 7th grade and he dumped me again. it took like 4 years to get over him. we're still friends now, though.

Aqua Sun, Gem Rising, Libra Moon, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Sag.

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posted June 19, 2010 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first big crush was a girl that I met in school when I was in 2nd grade,and she was in 1st grade. She and I were both special education students at the time. I didn't know that she was. She and I met in the cafeteria. She would sit by me. She even disobeyed the lunch monitor after she was told that she had to sit with her class. I was so shy that I didn't ask her name, and I didn't find out until she was called "Ginger" after she went into my classroom when she wasn't supposed to.

I lost touch with her after I moved and went to another school.

She and I met again when I went to a Sunday Church School for the first time. I was in 5th grade,and she was in 5th grade. She happened to be in my class. I recognized her,but I didn't ask until the end of the class. I gave her all the candy out of my basket. I asked for her phone number which she gave me. Of course, I liked going to Sunday School. She and I even received the Holy Ghost on the same day too.

She moved,and I didn't have any contact with her until my senior year and her junior year in high school. My friend gave her my phone number. He went to the same high school as her. I told her all about her. I liked her through the years and thought about her because she was my first big crush. She called me. I ended up seeing her again. She went through some hard times. She told me stuff about being molested by her stepfather. She told me that her father was stuntman that died in a stunt accident when she was a year old, and so she grew up not knowing her biological father like me. She got kicked out of the house,and I lent her money. I thought that I was in love with her, and I even wrote poetry which she really liked. I wasn't her type. She was more into the thuggy types. She had reputation for being promiscuous while I was still a virgin.
She told me that she wanted to be a special education teacher, and I felt a bit unnerved because it reminded me of my own special education past which I was in closet about. I thought to myself " Why would she want to do that. I wouldn't want to be reminded of my past" She and I didn't talk about special education past. I was out of special education since the 3rd grade,and I wanted the past buried out of shame.
She drank a lot too,and she got kicked out of the house for being drunk.

I lost touch with her when I was 19 years old which was the age when I joined the navy,and I never heard from her again.


She was mixed like me, but her mixture was
French,Japanese,Hawaiian,Irish,and Italian. I thought it went well with my Black,Portuguese,English,German,French,Italian,Puerto Rican,and Native American.

I thought the Japanese was really cool because I had half Japanese stepsisters.

She had her father's last name which was Japanese

She had sandy brown hair and eyes that were a mix of green and blue. She looked a lot like her mother, except her eyes were almond shaped,slightly slanted that you can tell that she was part Asian. Her hair was straight.


I still remember her birthdate
August 29, 1972

She had the same birthday as Michael Jackson as well as Temple Grandin who is high functioning autistic and autistic advocate.

She and I were both born on the 29th day of the month which showed ultrasensitivity,high strung,inspiration,much idealism,and great challenges in life but great potential too)

29 is also known as the Number of Job. A number associated with great trials and tribulations as well as the great rewards in result of passing them like the Biblical Job had.

Her Venus in Cancer trine my Venus in Scorpio.
Her Sun in Virgo formed a t-square with my Jupiter in Sagittarius and R Saturn in Gemini.
Her Mercury in Leo square my Mercury in Scorpio.

In Heliocentric Chart (Higher Self) comparison:
My Venus-Jupiter in Sagittarius formed a t-square with her Mars in Virgo square Saturn in Gemini.
My Earth in Taurus oppose her Juno in Scorpio less than 1 degree.
My Mars in Aries form a t-square with her Ceres in Libra square Jupiter in Capricorn.


but yeah

my first big crush shared things in common with me (neurodivergent,in special education after starting kindergarten as a regular student,multiracial,not knowing biological father,abusive/controlling stepfather,being kicked out the house a few times during high school, and we went to the same Sunday school)


I'd say that she fit the anima of my t-square (Moon in Pisces in 6th square the opposition of retrograde Saturn in Gemini in 9th and Jupiter-Neptune in Sagittarius in 3rd) than anybody else ever did.

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posted June 19, 2010 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Peaceangel, great taste!!

my first love was a classmate at age 5 or 6, at 10 i went to a different school and saw less of him after that. last time i saw him was when i was 18 but we are facebook friends now. he is completely outside the box now, as then, raised by circus performers you can imagine...he is a gemini and i still love him tho i don't even desire a "relationship" with this happily married man.

but what i would call my first "crush" was when i was about 13, he was 19 - one look and i was "hooked" - and had not a thought for me until 5 years later ...though we became friends in between...when i "nabbed him" briefly only to discover he was not who i'd thought he was!! (not prince charming at all! sigh)

i am aqua rising, leo sun/pluto/merlin! with moon in pisces, mars in cancer and venus in virgo...

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posted June 19, 2010 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first celebrity crush was when I was 4 years old, it was Jermaine Jackson. I was pretty sure that I was going to marry him. Thank God that never happened.

First crush on a real person was in the first grade, I was 6 years old, his name was Danny. Nothing happened, I just loved him from afar.

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posted June 19, 2010 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't remember any "crushes" per se
but I do remember the first time I was propositioned, I was 12 or 13 and a boy in school, a cute boy named Mathew asked me if he could look down my blouse for 50 cents.

I actually considered it (for a half of second) before I started giggling and turned around and left.

My Venus is in Taurus cha-ching

added: so our knowflakes don't get the wrong idea, at that age I was totally confused as to the motives of men/boys who asked these kinds of questions and as a Sag Ascendant anything uncomfortable makes me laugh.
(I've been thrown out of bed for laughing but that's a different story)

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posted June 19, 2010 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalalinda,

LOOOOOOOOOOL!!! Thrown out of bed 4 laughing. I get you loud and clear.

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posted June 19, 2010 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cardinal Arbiter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I was in kindergarten I was attracted by an Aries of the same sex for just being foolish and fun. Anyway, never really had a crush on anyone besides the very popular, wouldn't really call that a crush. Eventually in 7th grade a girl transferred who's birthday is November 27th, and I had a crush on her, and continued to have a crush on her til gr. 11, when I moved. I was too shy to approach her or be honest, and this sort of hard assed testing of eachother subtly seemed to manifest, and life was just miserable for me, and all I wanted was for her to accept me and that's all it had to be. But still couldn't act on that, so eventually I just moved to the big city to escape interpersonal tension that I've always got a problem with, and now I'm lonely, but not like that's all different.

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posted June 19, 2010 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Linda, you made me laugh out loud.

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posted June 20, 2010 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yay! my Aries sisters "got it"

That's not the worst thing I ever laughed at
When I was in my early 20's my great-grandmother died and my sister, brother, and I traveled from California to Texas for her funeral,
being young potheads we were late for the service so we rushed into the funeral home to view her body but when we got to the casket she looked so bad I kept thinking she must have really suffered, my sister who was behind me started crying because she was thinking the same thing meanwhile my brother had us each by the arm trying to steer us out of there because we were in the wrong room.
We were looking at an old MAN.

Needless to say when we realized this we couldn't stop laughing.

My Mom who was in the right room heard this and almost killed us

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posted June 20, 2010 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for starkiss1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"We were looking at an old MAN."
Lalalinda, you can't put a price tag on this!!

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posted June 20, 2010 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I knew this thread would provide a great laugh when I first read the title.

ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL at lala and the laughing in bed, and funeral. Sorry. Aries poor taste. And Geo, re: Thank God!!!

kat - I knew you'd approve. There's something there about Mr Richards. Eh, I just love Sagittarians in general.

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