posted June 27, 2010 10:24 PM         

here's his natal with transits, and his progressed chart and solar return... please let me know if i should post any additional charts. any help appreciated. it's a very trying time. thank you!

Natal + transit

Progressed

posted June 27, 2010 10:46 PM         

yea i saw the Saturn beating him up all this time... never ending problems added to his dad's death and mothers psychological problems and cancer, incredible!

posted June 27, 2010 11:10 PM         

I like that Jupiter will go retrograde in July and it will travel back over his Mercury hopefully lightening his mood and giving him some genius thoughts, answers and smart-speech in order to help come up with solutions to the present issues. Jupiter will further retrograde to Venus which should also offer a little bit of relief.

It's pretty standard that when transiting Pluto reaches the ASC, there will be some kind of geographic relocation. If he's feeling that pressure now, he will feel it more strongly as Pluto approaches the ASC. This is the ultimate change. He shouldn't try to go through any of these changes alone, he should garner plenty of support because transiting Pluto over the ASC is a very strong and pressure filled change, but IT IS MANAGEABLE!

posted June 28, 2010 04:06 AM         

He are strong. He have his mars in scorpio and all of that he have in virgo increase his strenght and make him to a winner.

I've merk/uran/pluto in conj in virgo and I blow up everything and analyse everything. I must look at every detail and talk about it so I trigg everyone who I've around me.

posted June 28, 2010 04:08 PM         

Geocosmic* Valentine, i'm glad that this is the right moment for making plans. he's tried to get out of the rut and planned many things, but one thing after another he got beaten up and did not manage. but sounds like this time he can give it a go without resistance, finally…

and you're right on with his urge to move… he's been talking about it a few years but with all this trouble he is realistically thinking about re-locating. at least temporarily. at this point in time it means we'll be separated, but i'll think about that later.

i'll pay attention to Jupiter closely as you suggest. it's also my chart ruler. now i feel hopeful about July's retrograde. we both have Jupiter retro Natal, so normally it amplifies the effect in an easy-going way. i'll just have to pay attention to his extreme autonomy though. he does not like getting help. so your suggestion to get support from others may not be the thing he wants to do. but at least he has my support.

popcorn, thanks for your insight, he is indeed a very strong person! he's what you'd call a survivor. i trust he'll survive this one too. it's good to see the load will lessen for him...

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actually, naturally all this is making our relationship extremely difficult. i feel very lonely and also his mood exhausts me. we live together but i miss him so much. there is no affectionate gestures for months. i cannot help in any way but to be there. i did tell him all the troubles will be all over soon but it's all empty affirmation to him and he doesn't want to hear it.

it would be easier if he at least showed that he needed me emotionally... instead he started hanging out with the guy who was an a**hole to me and who we cut contact last summer, saying he can get drunk and care about nothing with this guy. i don't feel good about this. he gets drunk and become self-destructive. and just a few days ago broke his ribs. i feel like a widow with husband's ghost haunting...