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lechien
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posted June 27, 2010 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
could someone kind help me interpret my partner's current crisis? the major thing being the disastrous financial crisis, then beside that health, living condition, career, well actually everything imaginable. it's almost a miracle that he stays alive. actually i'm a little afraid. it's REALLY, REALLY hard. i would never abandon him, but i honestly don't know how much longer i can take it. what's going to happen? when will it get better? how to manage and get through?

here's his natal with transits, and his progressed chart and solar return... please let me know if i should post any additional charts. any help appreciated. it's a very trying time. thank you!

Natal + transit

Progressed

Solar return 2009-10

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lechien
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posted June 27, 2010 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
i think the upcoming T-square will be challenging, as if anything more can challenge him in any way. Pluto is nearing his AC an Saturn will be conjunct his Mercury, which is the ruler of his Stellium Sun sign.

i want a positive aspect of things in store too...

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raspberri
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posted June 27, 2010 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
Looks like Saturn in Virgo is doing a number on him. Tell him it will pass soon.

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Benedict Moon*
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posted June 27, 2010 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, that Saturn-Uranus opposition was hitting his stellium. Its almost over for him though.

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lechien
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posted June 27, 2010 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
sorry, maybe Solar return on Natal is better...

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lechien
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posted June 27, 2010 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
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lechien
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posted June 27, 2010 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
really, that'll be a relief!

yea i saw the Saturn beating him up all this time... never ending problems added to his dad's death and mothers psychological problems and cancer, incredible!

but the financial crisis at the moment feels tough to crack at the moment, because there has to be a way to come up with A LOT of money. will this pass too?

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Geocosmic* Valentine
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posted June 27, 2010 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Saturn is moving out of Virgo leaving behind all those hits planets. When Saturn crosses over his Mercury this time, since it will be the 3rd and final time, it does not have to mean depression, he should that energy as ORGANIZING THOUGHTS which also translates as MAKING PLANS. He has probably already been through a kind of depression over the situation so the energy can translate as making plans now.

I like that Jupiter will go retrograde in July and it will travel back over his Mercury hopefully lightening his mood and giving him some genius thoughts, answers and smart-speech in order to help come up with solutions to the present issues. Jupiter will further retrograde to Venus which should also offer a little bit of relief.

It's pretty standard that when transiting Pluto reaches the ASC, there will be some kind of geographic relocation. If he's feeling that pressure now, he will feel it more strongly as Pluto approaches the ASC. This is the ultimate change. He shouldn't try to go through any of these changes alone, he should garner plenty of support because transiting Pluto over the ASC is a very strong and pressure filled change, but IT IS MANAGEABLE!

I wish both of you a lot of look and keep your eye on Jupiter, even the most minor of aspects may just be a good way to boost your mood when the days seem too difficult.

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popcorn
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posted June 28, 2010 04:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message
Progress mars in sag square his uranus and moon in virgo. I will think he in many year must live with mars in square to all of that he have in virgo. But the time it's not far away to he get transit pluto in trine to all of that he have in the beginnig of virgo. His venus and merk are just now hard afflicted from saturn,uran,jupit, pluto.

He are strong. He have his mars in scorpio and all of that he have in virgo increase his strenght and make him to a winner.

I've merk/uran/pluto in conj in virgo and I blow up everything and analyse everything. I must look at every detail and talk about it so I trigg everyone who I've around me.

When there is any new events in my life all my friends are so tired of me because I talk and talk and never stop talking but after that I'm finished and go on. I think it's typical virgo to be afraid of change in the life. I'm afraid of change and don't trust on that the life will make it to the best for me as it always did. I feel it in my stomach everytime something new be approaching. I'm sure he also do ....

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lechien
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posted June 28, 2010 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
thanks so much, guys!!

Geocosmic* Valentine, i'm glad that this is the right moment for making plans. he's tried to get out of the rut and planned many things, but one thing after another he got beaten up and did not manage. but sounds like this time he can give it a go without resistance, finally…

and you're right on with his urge to move… he's been talking about it a few years but with all this trouble he is realistically thinking about re-locating. at least temporarily. at this point in time it means we'll be separated, but i'll think about that later.

i'll pay attention to Jupiter closely as you suggest. it's also my chart ruler. now i feel hopeful about July's retrograde. we both have Jupiter retro Natal, so normally it amplifies the effect in an easy-going way. i'll just have to pay attention to his extreme autonomy though. he does not like getting help. so your suggestion to get support from others may not be the thing he wants to do. but at least he has my support.

popcorn, thanks for your insight, he is indeed a very strong person! he's what you'd call a survivor. i trust he'll survive this one too. it's good to see the load will lessen for him...

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actually, naturally all this is making our relationship extremely difficult. i feel very lonely and also his mood exhausts me. we live together but i miss him so much. there is no affectionate gestures for months. i cannot help in any way but to be there. i did tell him all the troubles will be all over soon but it's all empty affirmation to him and he doesn't want to hear it.

it would be easier if he at least showed that he needed me emotionally... instead he started hanging out with the guy who was an a**hole to me and who we cut contact last summer, saying he can get drunk and care about nothing with this guy. i don't feel good about this. he gets drunk and become self-destructive. and just a few days ago broke his ribs. i feel like a widow with husband's ghost haunting...

i see in his Solar return chart that money and relationship issues are a bit highlighted. could anyone see what's going on and when we may go back to being normal again...?

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