posted June 29, 2010 02:51 AM         

I'm not happy unless I am complete in that area of my life. I know aspects between venus and mars might indicate that but I don't have any. This is 4 guys this year that I have broken up with because of this reason and I can't even force myself to hang around..

What aspects would show this in someones chart? I thought Neptune opposing my Venus might mean I have a platonic relationship but "yeah right" I don't see that happening.. I can't like them enough to stick around and I bet if this happened after I got married and the passion died I would cheat on them or leave them.

posted June 29, 2010 03:01 AM         

You said something that stuck out though, you said you get rid of any guy that you don't "think" is sexually compatible with you. I'm not sure if you mean that you are just around them, without actually doing it, and you can tell what they would be like and you base your opinion on that?

Sometimes you can be pleasantly surprised.
A person can really grow on you, and THEN the sparks will come.

But, I know what you mean. This is why I've always had trouble distinguishing between love and lust.
Most times I start with lust that grows into love.

posted June 29, 2010 03:46 AM         

Neptune in my chart is on my IC which is also on the GC in Sag... trine Venus and opposing my Moon. I am as far from reality as you can get.

posted June 29, 2010 03:54 AM         

Sorry your sad. With a smiley face next to it.
I'm sad too, but I'll be sleepy soon, woot woot!

posted June 29, 2010 03:59 AM         

Think I have my aries/venus in 8th, ruler pisces. Aries rules most of house though.
I don't even get to sleeping stage cos I'm really fussing about who I sleep with which might be mars/taurus!

posted June 29, 2010 04:14 AM         

Leo and Virgo = High expectations.

But I still think there might be more to it. I have chiron in 8th as well conjunct Eros and Lust.

posted June 29, 2010 07:28 AM         

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I have really high standards and unless there is passion (and lots of it) I dump them within minutes of being dissapointed..

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Oow yes.. I know exactly what you mean!
I was(am?) always like that.. and most of the times it was done after one two or three times because of that lack of sexual excitement (afterwards).
It's part of the reason that I couldn't commit myself to a guy for 16 years after living together for three years (18-21) with my first love with whom I absolutely didn't share this chemistry. (?)
So, my longing for this excitement has been developed after our break when I discovered and experienced this new level of hotness that two people can share.
I'm now involved with someone with whom I don't share the chemistry (he's the first & only one I can compare with my first love) because I do think now that lust & love (in my world) doesn't go along well and also because there are other factors which make me able to deal with it. Yes, I'm also disappointed about life in general. Can't live on dreams anymore..

To list some recognizable aspects;

Unafflicted Leo-Sun 12th..
Virgo-Ascendant (conj Merc) square Nept/Sat opposition..
Scorp-Moon square Mars..

Venus (29'53 Can.) in very close out-of-sign trine to Neptune (ruler of 8th) in the 4th (within 5* of IC)

posted June 29, 2010 08:04 AM         

I'm incredibly fussy too, I thought it was just me but yeah, I do have incredibly high standards. But I don't have ANY placements in Virgo or in any other sign that's fickle and fussy. Maybe is the Aries Rising and Taurus Venus that has the high standards and need for quality, luxury and the finest of sensual pleasures (rather than sexual ones! Ha!)

My Venus makes crappy aspects, an opp. and a sq. to Jupiter and Saturn. Oh Joy. The hooker/gold digger aspects. Woo. And I got Pluto in the 7th. Relationship HELL.

posted June 29, 2010 08:50 AM         

I remember you saying something similiar a while back. I don't know anyone else with a 10th house sun to compare though. Does anyone have a 10th house sun????

posted June 29, 2010 08:58 AM         

That guy (the bold ugly one) with the midpoint angle synastry.. I told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore today. I started ignoring him after the night we first kissed 2 days ago. I reallllllly liked him. I thought this is what I want from a man and he is perfect. 4 weeks later to date I got rid of him as well.

It is so awful because I get so tempted to say why I don't wanna see them. I had the GREATEST sex life for 10 years. I had as much passion as one can get without much compatibility and that's okay.

He had venus in 10th in Aries.