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Topic: i'm a bit terrified!
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 341
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 01, 2010 09:32 PM
 
as i posted a few days ago, my BF's going through the tough time of the century. some of you guys kindly pointed out that all the hardship will soon be over for him. but though, now this eclipse on the 11th caught my attention and i'm starting to get paranoid! it'll conjunct his NN, while tr. Saturn is doing the last bit of beating him up with the conjunct to his last Stellium planet Mercury.
 Eclipse will fall near my Vertex at 24.19 Cancer squaring my Pluto at 16.25 Libra. tr. Venus is conjunct my Saturn, and transiting retro Neptune/retro Chiron/Lilith pack is opposing it. also the infamous Saturn/Uranus/Pluto T-square is locking up with my Mercury and Jupiter, which is my DC/AC rulers, respectively.
 in our composite chart, the eclipse will be in the 7th house but does not conjunct anything. it'll trine our composite stellium 11th house. but we have the Saturn (the Saturn that's been torturing him! raaagh) conjunct our composite Pluto right now. it's been a rough ride. Transiting Mars is almost conjunct our composite Mars too. tr. Venus is cj. our composite NN, but transiting retro Neptune/retro Chiron/Lilith pack is conjunct our South Node. tr. Mercury is on the 8th house cusp.
 i see lots of dramatic aspects. it makes me nervous. i fear for his safety. am i just freaking out? i think i cannot detach enough to see these aspects with more positive eyes. what does everyone think? please just call me paranoid!!  IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 624
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2010 09:46 PM
 You need to put the charts down, Lechien. Yes, the eclipse will happen, the events will occur as the charts you've posted already suggest. Now that you already have this information, put the charts down and assess how your glass is half full and how your friend's glass is half full, because our glasses are always half full no matter what's going on in the chart. What can you do to ease the situation or fight in the middle of the situation? What resources do you have? What support system does your friend have in place? This is what needs to happen now, PLANNING! All of these difficult aspects don't just spell doom and gloom. These aspects also suggest hard work and lots of the time difficult aspects give you the kind of energy needed to accomplish some of the most difficult tasks and to get the most difficult work done. I understand that Saturn is approaching his Mercury. Please understand that Saturn is a tool. It is not there just to beat him up, it is there to give boundary, structure, organization to his thoughts. It might not feel great, but it's a tool, it's a hammer and chisel. Saturn is his to use. Please put the charts down now, they aren't going to change over night. IP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 1679
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 02, 2010 12:38 AM
Very well said Geocosmic. Lechien, this is a great time to focus more on meditative processes, relaxations, positive visualizations and "letting go" of fear than worrying too much about the charts. We are all immortals, if things dont go well for him this year, there are a few billion years with millions of lifelines to set things right  IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 341
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 02, 2010 06:47 AM
thank you so much guys...!that's right, i got to pull myself together. i normally just refer to astrology as a reference tool and generally don't take what seems "negative" as if it's going to doom me. but with everything going on and i was really getting lost...! but you're right. it's me who is in control of myself and my immediate environment. i've been doing meditations and stuff to keep myself centred. i just have to trust in my own strength. thank you for the push to the right direction... that was what i really needed. very good.  IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 341
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 02, 2010 06:48 AM
and i have to trust HIM too. that's the most important thing in this situation.IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 624
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 02, 2010 09:14 PM
I'm so glad to hear you taking care of yourself. One last thing I want to remind you is that you both have a benevolent Higher Power to lean on. That Higher Power is your biggest resource. Tell your Higher Power your problems, feelings and attitudes. You will be heard and assisted.One of my favorite quotes that I heard from a book written about Creative Visualization in a book about Edgar Cayce's methods is this: "God is active and responsive." IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 341
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 02, 2010 09:44 PM
that is wonderful to be able to hold myself in that confidence of being heard. fear would only block me. i just have to relax and trust in it. thank you for the great advice!!IP: Logged |
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