posted July 11, 2010 07:15 PM         

Are you torn between being the moon ruled caregiver and being the staunch and stern saturn ruled cappy? Do you want to love but cant?

After a relationship ends, are you able to bounce back, or do you stay in the pain, and never been able to love again?

posted July 11, 2010 07:22 PM         

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Are you torn between being the moon ruled caregiver and being the staunch and stern saturn ruled cappy? Do you want to love but cant?

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No. I'm just both. I'm not torn between them. I'm a caregiver to my friends-family and puppy at home. And I'm stern (kind of on the cool side) in my career.
I'm actually different people.

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After a relationship ends, are you able to bounce back, or do you stay in the pain, and never been able to love again?

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Nothing is forgotten - ever.
I remember things in detail - both positive and negative experiences.

posted July 11, 2010 07:35 PM         

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Are you torn between being the moon ruled caregiver and being the staunch and stern saturn ruled cappy? Do you want to love but cant?

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Absolutely. Some people never get past the Capricorn Asc, while others think I have a split personality...LOL. I'm always stern and reserved to most people, being reluctant to share the softer side of my personality.

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After a relationship ends, are you able to bounce back, or do you stay in the pain, and never been able to love again?

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I can bounce back very quickly once I realize things can't be salvaged, and that's courtesy of my gemini venus I think. But I have become jaded/cynical about romance after a number of failed associations. I'm not moping around about lost loves, but I'm not very liberal about who I decide to open up to anymore either. Yeah, I guess you could say I've hardened a bit...but not without reason.

posted July 11, 2010 08:35 PM         

I fall in love all the timeeeeee

posted July 11, 2010 10:30 PM         

Ami

posted July 12, 2010 03:23 AM         

He's the guy that is always off doing everything for everybody.
He'll even help you move, and usually nobody answers the phone when they know you are moving.!

But, that was our trouble. He would not show emotions, I mean, if we were at a funeral or something, he would, but other than that, he was like a brick wall.

I feel bad for him, because I know he FEELS them deeply, he just can't show them, and that has to be so difficult.

Back when we were trying to work things out, I asked him if this was something he thought he could ever change, and he said, without hesitation, "NO!! I will never be able to show my emotions."

posted July 12, 2010 03:43 PM         

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Do you have capricorn and cancer in your sun, moon, and asc?
Any combination is fine, and what is the other sign?

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I am curious why you are asking, can you share? I am a Cancer Sun/Cap Moon, in opposition by aspect. My Asc is in Gemini.

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Are you torn between being the moon ruled caregiver and being the staunch and stern saturn ruled cappy? Do you want to love but cant?

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My Mars and Neptune are also in Capricorn, and I have Saturn trine my Cancer Sun. So Saturn definitely gets the upper hand. I hardly ever relate to my "Cancer" side. I don't much feel inclined towards cooking, home, sentimentality, motherhood, caregiving, children, etc. etc. that are generally associated with Cancer. I don't know what that means for love... I associate that with Venus (which is square Saturn in my chart). Some issues I've dealt with is the necessity of being very prudish and reserved, conservative in my outlook and in love. I don't cry in public, or even to loved ones. Someone perhaps sees me cry once or twice in a year. I don't talk about my feelings, which are very strong but because of my Gem Asc I am good at appearing unphased by most things, airy and intellectual. I can love easily, but it verbalizing it is difficult so I tend to show my love by being of service to those I have feelings for, and being of practical use. As a Cancer sun however, I am sort of "striving" in that Saturn way to be softer and more open-hearted, nuturing instead of "providing".

One thing that the two signs have in common is a concern for tradition, or more basically of having a foundation to build on (for Capricorn) or to nest in (for Cancer). These things harmonize the Capricorn and Cancer opposing forces, I think.

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After a relationship ends, are you able to bounce back, or do you stay in the pain, and never been able to love again?

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So far I bounce back pretty quick. I was in a relationship for 6 months and it took 2 years to get over once though... but that was my first relationship and particularly dysfunctional so... the rule I've heard and tend to stick by is it takes half the amount of time of the duration of a relationship to get over it, while hopefully a very long relationship would not be ending (us Capricorn people and our rules ). I am friends with all my ex-boyfriends, no hard feelings in the end. Mm, Gemini does come in handy I think.

posted July 12, 2010 06:17 PM         

Whats strange is Pluto has not hit his sun, DC, or any other major planets yet and he has already gone majorly self destructive in the last 4 years. Hmmmm.....

posted July 12, 2010 06:25 PM         

I feel comfortable crying in any setting at all, and getting teary eyed. (Maybe it's your Saturn in Cancer changing things)
I seldom cry though, because I just don't have a desire to. I'm not the sort of person to "hold back" tears, if I felt like crying. But I can see the glass as "half full" at the end of the day. (Maybe that's my Aries). So I cheer myself up.

posted July 12, 2010 07:38 PM         

Her venus is in gemini also, but doesnt seem to bounce back well from being hurt.
She is still carrying hurt from my father like it was yesterday, and they divorced in 1980.
its not that she is still in love with him, but its that he hurt her and left us alone. He has since passed away (last year), and its still there.
She also has saturn and pluto and mercury in the 7th house, and her venus in gemini sits in the 5th.along with uranus

posted July 12, 2010 07:58 PM         

It's interesting what you mentioned about your dad. I do remember things like they happened yesterday. But because of my Pisces planets and all the neptune aspects I can forgive easily and see the best in people. I feel like we're all f-ed up in some ways so I would try to put myself in the others shoes and understand why they behaved a certain way. Usually I can get a good grasp of the other person and where they were at emotionaly so I find it easy to forgive.

posted July 12, 2010 09:00 PM         

Yeah, its the same problem here: I don't ever forget an offense against me. Apparently, one of the lessons of my 12th house saturn is to work through the tendency to hold grudges....I don't think I've learned anything so far, LOL. Sometimes its not even about a grudge, sometimes I just don't trust the person enough anymore to go back to the way things were. I have alot of Neptune in my chart as well and I find it only makes me more mistrustful of others because of how easily my reality can get skewed.

I avoid most pictures all together, and I remember not smiling in pictures when I was a younger too. I got scoldings/spankings for that so I stopped frowning in school photos around 2nd grade. Even today, my family members say the way I smile in pictures looks fake or forced.