posted July 18, 2010 07:39 PM         

According to the astro.com link Node posted - - 'Pluto Transits can last into many months, depending on the choices made.' I must be making the wrong decisions then!

The Pluto article states that - 'to give up is that which you hold most dear, the thing you're convinced you can't live without.' I believe I am being tested to leave behind my Pisces Sun/Venus friend, or even more seriously a slowly deteriorating marriage. I feel like I am lost and/or dieing inside. Again the page says, 'Pluto doesn't engineer our suffering; our own confusion does that.' 'Our resistance to the transit that creates the pain.' We need to figure out "that which we hold most dear" so we know what to relinquish. 'Pluto and his transits aims to leave us better off than when he found us.'

posted July 18, 2010 08:16 PM         

Eight months ago I had Saturn conjunct my natal Uranus, for the time it lasted I can tell you I felt very sad. My relationship was tested and failed, and also some friendships (some failed, some not).

What I decided to do was: nothing. I tried to put the less possible energy into the Universe, so things would settle as they had to. I didn't make the decisions, neither tried to confront about them, just accepted them and pampered myself.

When Saturn went retrograde, I could see more clear and realized that, it was hard, but it was best for what I needed to learn.
The conjuction will be back in a few days.

posted July 18, 2010 10:37 PM         

It sounds like you know exactly what's going on. There seems to be a "friend" that you don't want to let go. If I may be so bold it seems that your "friend" may be of a secret romantic nature and that relationship may be coming to an end.

You also talk about a "slowly deteriorating marriage". Well, things that are deteriorating usually fall apart or disintigrate entirely. It seems that the time has come.

Pluto provides the strongest pressure possible to make changes in your life whether positive or negative, whether the changes feel good or not. The very best thing you can do during these very difficult transits is to MAKE PLANS! You hope for the absolute best but you better make plans for the absolute worse. In a very serious vein, it's time to accept situations before they destroy you.

You have my sincere sympathy and compassion dealing with this transit. Just make sure that you step up to the plate when it's time to make difficult decisions and choices.

I'm dead serious. Make the necessary plans. Do it YESTERDAY, do not wait.