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Topic: Pleazzze help me with this man! Grrrr
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Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 19, 2010 12:13 PM
 
I had a fling with this Pisces man 8 months ago. It was very intense and I for sure had the obessive thing going on with him.. But I am over it all now.. What I dont understand is why is it so important to him that we remain friends?? He is NOT the type of guy that remains friends with a girl, once its over.. Its over done deal move on....
But for what ever reason. He tells me I really really want to be friends with you. I dont want to stop being your friend.. I just dont want to to mess up the friendship, and being together would mess it up.. We got into a HUGE argument right around the time of the Solar Eclipse, about us being friends. HE wants me to be his friend but he doesnt act like he wants me to be his friend... He said what r u talking about, when you text me I reply.. He said believe me I dont reply to just anyone. WTF.. oo ok wow friendship proven.. done deal!!! (I rarely text him) SO we totally stopped talking. Even when we saw each other we ignored each other.. Then on the day of the lunar eclipse he was back.. Like nothing... What up girl! How u doin??? We talked about nothing specific. Just Bs... Why is it so important for me to be his friend??
Plus he expects me to just "know" everything about him. He WONT explain anything, as a matter of fact he gets annoyed when anyone asks him why type of questions...
We have alot of misunderstandings, when I try to clear it up..he flatly refuses stating well I guess you dont know me like I thought you knew me. WHAT!!!! ooo my god how can I know you if you want explain anything!! He expects me to just KNOW everything. and when I misunderstand, he gets ****** !! So again, why is my friendship so important, is his coming and going just the typical Pisces thing, or what??? Why doesnt he just walk away from me, like he does with every other girl... 
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Geocosmic* Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 12:28 PM
Lioness,Who is inside and who is outside? Clarity is SOOOO important with astrology. Please identify who's chart is who's. Thank you. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 350
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 19, 2010 12:29 PM
Sorry I am on the inside. He is on the outside. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 12:31 PM
Actually, the title should have given it away to me. However, with this chart it looks like he's an Aquarius. Gotta tell ya, (and everyone else I guess) I really wish Astro.com would put degree numbers around the planets in synastry charts. I suspect his Sun is 0 or 1 degree Pisces.OK, I'm looking... IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 350
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 19, 2010 12:36 PM
yes he's a Pisces. Born on the Cusp his sun is 0Pis07 lol.. Just looks that way because of room I guess... IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: New York, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 19, 2010 12:37 PM
Well, after looking for a while, the one thing that stands out is that your Jupiter is in his 1st House and this usually feels very good and happy to the 1st House person. Also, the Jupiter person tends to be very generous to the 1st House person.However, now that the attraction has worn off (probably the Venus-Uranus connection which usually only lasts for awhile) he's going to pi$$ you off more and more and MORE because his Moon-Uranus conjunction squares your Mars. It's bad enough just having Moon square Mars (it's very sexual but when the sex is over you just argue), but having Uranus square Mars is even angrier. Remember, you have a choice of what you want. You will probably choose to end the friendship because he will continue to make you angry and upset. Remember that you have the right to choose to end the friendship and it's probably for the best. Just observe and you'll see what I mean. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 19, 2010 12:54 PM
SO he wants to reamin friends because my Jupiter is in his 1st house, so I make him feel good? I have ended the friendship, 2x... LOL.. but we keep connecting again all over again. over and over... It's very frustrating... Its true I would rather him just be... It's just easier.. That argument back in June was the first one we ever had... He was fighting with me... LOL... I just listened to him get all upset over it... I knew it was a misunderstanding, but he didnt want to hear it, so I just let him go on and on... Geo thanks for taking the time to look at it, it's greatly appreicated!!!! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 19, 2010 09:46 PM
I know the moon in the 8th house is bonding.. His moon is in my 8th.. Would that also be bonding for him, or just me??? IDK why he insist on being friends.. It seems odd... He's the type of guy that walks away and never looks back. He even told me that in the beginning. Even though he's a Pisces he very direct. (for the most part) When we werent talking, he walked past me I didnt look at him and he didnt look at me.. Then he walked past me again, and I turned and looked at him with the corner of my eye and at the same time, he turned and looked at me with the corner of his eye.... LMAO.. Ok this was funny because we both busted the other looking... hahahah! IP: Logged |
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