posted July 21, 2010 04:27 PM
Let`s see if we can identify the central aspects to each connection:
(1) Eddie - long term relationship:
°Saturnian aspects for longevity:
his Sun opposite your Saturn
his Saturn conjunct your MC
your Saturn square his Mars
(those are also irritation - aspects)
°longevity alone is nothing, if you don`t have shared affections (Moon and Venus is the place to look for I guess):
his Sun conjunct your Venus
Your Moon square his Venus
Love planet Venus is aspecting identity planets for both of you, even though in the second case it is not all honey and chocolate
° partnership aspects (for example Sun/Moon, Sun/ASC, Moon/ASC)
you have Sun - Moon - trine
° passion aspects, (Pluto in aspect to Sunm, Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC)
his Sun square your Pluto
your Venus square his Pluto
Pluto aspecting identity planets for both of you; very intense, but probably very complicated, irritating, powerstruggles, yet works as glue, too
Power is balanced though, as both contribute Pluto
° Happiness, friendship, support, encouragement (Jupiter)
Where are the Jupiter-aspects?
If Jupiter is lacking, ther emay also be a lack of growth, and the relationship could stagnate.
(2) Samson - the fling, hot, shortlived.
What do we expect?
URANUS big time, probably in challenging aspect to Venus, Mars, Sun, Moon or ASC. sometimes Mercury works, too, especially if there was verbal-erotic banter
A lack of Saturn
A lack of true partnership aspects; affectionate aspects may be present though, but probably not that frequent.
Your Uranus opposes his Mercury; His Mercury conjunct your Mars - Check for the Uranian thing.
no Saturn
no Venus aspects (no love?)
partnership aspects:
There actually is the strong compatible Sun-Moon-conjunction.
Probably it couldn`t bloom, because it didn`t get any help by Venus or Jupiter or even Saturn.
(3) Arthur, powerful, heartbreaking, unfulfilled, and probably lacking sexually despite existing attraction.
Hmm, this one is actually not that easy.
What do we expect?
Not that strong Saturn, but probably strong Pluto (powerful connection, but lacking Saturn`s stability)
strong sexual aspects (Venus/Mars to Sun, Moon, ASC, or each other or Pluto), BUT with something blocking it; could be a challenging aspect, but even more so Saturn, Uranus or Neptune in challenging aspect could prevent the consummation or satisfaction all around.
affectionate aspects may be present, but not frequent; partnership aspects will probably be lacking.
With these hypnotic, compulsive, magical, erratic, powerful, larger than life and deeply heartbreaking and thus transformative connection I always suspect a STRONG involvement of Uranus, Neptune or Pluto
only a meagre Saturn sextile to his stellium, and a Saturn-Saturn trine - too weak
Regarding the Pluto aspects, they are not frequent, but Pluto on the ASC- this one suffices to turn your world upside down, espeically since it is aspecting your Moon (by trine - luckily by trine)
Sexual attraction is strong due to your Mars squaring his Venus and Mars, but because of the square and the Uranus-involvement the satisfaction of actual sexual relations may be limited, or everchanging (Uranus can give you real orgastic highs just to leave you pretty unsatisfied the next time).
affectionate and partnership aspects:
His Sun on your ASC
his Sun trine your Moon
His Venus trine your Venus and Moon
AFfections were there, and compatibility could have been possible, if it weren`t for the very powerful "disturbing factors"
Trines are probably just too soft.
for the powerful hypnotic Transneptunian, you have more than enough:
His Uranus on your ASC and trine your Moon
his Pluto on your ASC and trine your Moon
your Neptune squares his Sun and Mercury
your Uranus squares his Venus and Mars
There is so much Uranus; I guess a very quick, suddden, disruptive, shocking, electric "growth / learning" was almost forced on you.
Alsmot like you have been both catalysts for each other, catapulting each other into a completely new realm, at least for the time being. And maybe that is all Uranus wants to do, open people up for completely new experiences.
(4) Marvin - the persistent flirtation
What do we expect?
Lack of Saturn aspects
Maybe lack of true partnership aspects
affectionate aspects, especially with Venus, may be there; Moon may be lacking a bit
Definitely Venus, Mars, Mercury and Uranus involvement with each other
there is not really a lack of Saturn aspects (maybe that is the PERSISTENT-part?), but an oposition to Venus could have very restrictive, obstricting influence on the development of romance
Interestingly it is you who rejects him. Hmm.
no real partnership aspects
his Venus trine your Moon is affectionate though; him being more romantically interested
Mars conjunct Mars,opposing Uranus - could be a flirtative aspect, even though it seems to imply more of a sexual overtone than just a mere "mind-game" as flirts can also be.