posted July 20, 2010 04:40 PM         

4 1/2 years ago, we met each other briefly. she moved into my BF's flat in the US as she came to study from Europe, and i was leaving to stay in Asia. a few days after her arrival i left the US, and my BF cheated on me with her in my absence, without telling her that he was still with me.

eventually we both dumped him and i moved to Europe, and she moved back to Europe when her study in the States was done, but we were in different countries and never in contact. after a while, again i had to leave Europe to live somewhere else, and when i came back, i discovered she had moved to my city too! so a bit over 1 year ago, we met up and we became close friends. it's a small world! and recently we discovered that next year on the 11th of January, it'll be our anniversary of knowing each other for 5 years, and it's 1/11/11 = 5! funny.

now we are planning to move in together, and i think it'll be great to live with her. but i also have my fears. with the transit Uranus hovering around my IC, my living situation has been literal HELL, or otherwise a lot of restless moving. i moved around countries, cities and rooms to rooms, SO MANY TIMES, starting from the last few years. and since it hit my IC last year i just had simply miserable flat situations. also although it feels pretty unlikely, there are many cases of best friends moving in together and end up never speaking to each other again out there! lol…

i would like to ask opinions about our synastry… i think we have a really great synastry. some really strong aspects and a good balance with the hard aspects. i think if there was attraction we'd make really nice lovers! her Mars/Saturn in Virgo square my Venus/Neptune in Sagittarius points to the possibility she may get sick of my laziness…

one thing i see is that i don't aspect the ruler of her Sun sign, Moon in her 8th house. how should i interpret it? aside it's her Sun sign ruler, i kind of came up with this interpretation that this makes us not involved to each other sexually. my 8th house Mars in Leo is not aspected either. also my Moon, that is the ruler of my 8th house. we are both very sexual people, and it often crosses my mind why we don't seem to "go there". we are all the time talking about sex and boys though.

anyone see things we may have to be careful with? i would really like to make this a long-lasting friendship, for it is rare for me to have close girlfriends! thank you in advance.