posted July 24, 2010 01:12 AM         

Now we talk daily. He told me about himself that he has been a "player" all this while. And darn it! I am still a virgin! he has the USP of his looks and career. So girls fall for him even before he targets them. I believe it because they way he approached me...I dont know but I am still not able to believe the fact that "IM HOOKED". I asked him why does he wanna invest his time on me...Im oceans away from him. To which he replied, "Well, u r hot! On a serious note, wen u said yes to me...I was amazed at the fact that u not materialistic like all other females. U could have said NO considering it a long-distance waste of time. U have been sweet to me inspite of knowing what I am...and I am overwhelmed"

I am not sure if I can trust him. Im apprehensive about this whole thing. Of course, how can I be serious about it! What I am afraid of is that I dont want to be left "heart-broken". He doesnt take me seriously, I can make that out but he doesnt want to call this "long-distance relationship" off. he says, "Let's have fun first..we can worry about the rest later."

You might want to ask me that why on earth am I even considering this stupid infatuation. But honestly, Im hypnotized! I so want him...

posted July 24, 2010 08:19 AM         

Well,you are right. I do not have a natal chart for myself. However, here is some information about me -
Birtdate: 4th Dec, 1983
Time: 01:07 PM
Place of birth: Calcutta (now Kolkata), West Bengal, India.

posted July 24, 2010 12:49 PM         

Also no earth. Wow. Like it.

Pluto in Scorpio conjunct Venus in Libra is found in highly attractive individuals.
Also note the applying New Moon. Very potent. (conjunct my NN exact too)

posted July 24, 2010 01:05 PM         

Well, thanks for all your effort! I know he is not RIGHT. The problem with life is Ms.Right always gets stuck with Mr.Wrong...

posted July 24, 2010 01:13 PM         

I'm here now..

posted July 24, 2010 01:51 PM         

I'm gonna spank you good!! That's NOT the Eastern Hemisphere of the chart, it's the Western Hemisphere. Not only that, in astrology the top part of the chart IS THE SOUTHERN HEMISPHERE!! You are pushing her around because you know you can, simply based on that fact.

Attention Cutenadorablesagi,

Your chart is not necessary after your explaination, only common sense. Enjoy your internet flirtation, but at 26 years old you should be smart enough to understand that this internet hoochie-boy is JUST THAT! An Internet Hoochie Boy. Please use your brain, it's not illegal to do that. You really don't need other people to tell you what this is. Stop being so friggin' "cute and adorable" and start being as "smart and intelligent" as your chart suggests.

posted July 24, 2010 01:59 PM         

I was getting all the more confused by reading the above posts.

I agree with you. One needs to apply brain. But you know what...all my life I did the same - "Apply Brains" and I let those go who could have actually been bright prospects for me in future. For some reason, I readily agreed to have fun here because its not harming me (read long distance). But now I think, it would when the time would come to take major decisions in life.

posted July 24, 2010 02:18 PM         

All that you have discussed here is the word "fun" and probably all that it entails, but that's not even half of what relationships are all about. When people hook up via the internet, it creates a false sense of intimacy. As long as you are remain on the internet with your flirtation then things will be fine until he meets another attractive young woman, but you'll never know if this is serious until you are within each other's proximity to date, see each other face to face, meet each other's friends, see how each of you behaves in public, in social situations including with family. What are his values? What are yours?

posted July 24, 2010 06:26 PM         

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I'm gonna spank you good!! That's NOT the Eastern Hemisphere of the chart, it's the Western Hemisphere. Not only that, in astrology the top part of the chart IS THE SOUTHERN HEMISPHERE!! You are pushing her around because you know you can, simply based on that fact.

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posted July 24, 2010 06:37 PM         

Well said...Whatever happens, I need to act smart and be rooted in reality!

And "predominantlyfire"...is Predominantly Optimistic about God knows what!!

posted July 24, 2010 07:14 PM         

Since you invited us to be rough with you I'm going to do just that!! First of all, you've got to stop calling it "Sagi". Sagittarius is a beautifully built latin word that deserves to be spelled out completely. Just look at it:

SAGITTARIUS! It's gorgeous. It's the sign of Higher Education! The higher mind! Nothing useless about it. Long distance travel, publishing, religion, law, politics, foreign culture. Why are you blocking all of that in your life? You've been blessed to have most of your planets in a place where your brain can take over. As a matter of fact, you should change your name from that cutsie moniker you use and call yourself "ThebrainlookingforPinky" or something like that.

Sorry to beat you up like this, but it's kind of a good learning opportunity for people do see when a minor aspect like a Semi-Square becomes more like a Major Aspect.

Take a look at her chart and see that she only has on square and 2 tight conjunctions in Sagittarius! Those are the only tense aspects in her chart. What could be blocking her Sagittarius nature of loving the use of using her brain? Well, look at how Saturn semi-squares Jupiter - JUPITER RULES SAGITTARIUS!! JUPITER RULES HER 9TH HOUSE!!

This Semi-Square is STRONGLY affecting Sagittarian energies in her life. Even though Sagittarius is packed with planets in her chart, that Semi-Square is SCREAMING LOUDLY!!

Someone with Moon in Sagittarius needs to be opinionated and they NEED to have their opinions respected. Notice how she just HAAAAD to leave us with a last thought and it was a negative thought about the sign that pretty much defines her in sooooo many ways. Not only that, her Moon is INTENSIFIED by Uranus.

Can you tell me, Cutsie, was your mother very eccentric or even crazy? I suspect that there was no stability in your home somehow. Were you a military baby or something, traveling all the time, never having a chance to really settle down or something?

I think that in your last comment you were really telling us how you think about yourself and painting all Sagittarians with that brush. I have a suggestion and I'm not going to be mean here anymore, instead of allowing Saturn to deplete your enthusiasm about Sagittarian themes and traits in your life, why don't you allow Saturn to be a mentor to you. Saturn organizes, structures and designs. Allow Saturn to create a straight and narrow path toward all things Sagittarian for you, first and foremost, let it teach you that you have every right to use your brain, there's no reason for you to ask anyone's permission to do that. Sagittarius offers you so many opportunities to send positive thoughts and useful truths and philosophies out into the world, making it a better place for everyone.

That's what Sagittarius is all about, Charlie Brown. Don't let Saturn dry up your Jupiterian enthusiasm, it's time for you to realize that Saturn is a TOOL for you to use. USE IT WELL!! You have a great chart, don't let it go to waste.

posted July 24, 2010 07:19 PM         

I'm still gonna spank you, naughty!!!

As for websites that can help you out with that, no, sorry. People are gonna be so mad at me, but I don't recommend websites, I recommend books that you find on your own by using Google, Yahoo!, Safari, Firefox and Bing! (although I don't like Bing because they don't want you to use your brain, they want to make decisions for you. Don't ever let anyone make decisions for you when it's not necessary).

Wait, I'm about to contradict myself.

Whatever kind of astrology skill you're interested in search for it at www.Llewellyn.com which is a New Age book publisher or www.amazon.com

Unfortunately, I've got some earth in me, PDF, but I need it, that's why I have a state of the art Bullsh!t Detector by Ronco. But I love your statement at the end of your posts.

posted July 24, 2010 10:59 PM         

Ahhhhh....now just let me be my real self. I think I have been behaving like a kid all this while. Personally, I have been a career oriented girl...only beloved child of my parents...fav of everyone...loved by everyone...Im not sure if you believe this one (perhaps my chart can tell you this) but I feel God's presence beside me. I have never wished for anything in life...I never got a chance...perhaps, I got everything in life whatever was right for me. What I didn't get, I always thought it as not-so-right for me!

GEO - I like people who are straight forward and honest...like you! I really appreciate all your suggestions. As far as stability is concerned...it is not at all related to my family because my father (a Doctor...can he be ever unstable?) and mother (a fashion designer...always knows what she wants) have been the most perfect couple I have ever seen in my life. So perfect...that sometimes I dont believe it! THATS IT...thats my problem...I dont believe perfectionism exists.

I am very fickle minded...I get bored easily. Nothing interests me for a long time. I know I have the power instilled in me that if I decide to write a book right now...I can do it without a second thought! I have got long-termed friends...my parents swear on me...my bosses adore me...my professors admire me!

I thank God for all this. But LOVE has never happened to me and this depresses me. It takes toll over me and makes me think I am not among the blessed ones Why isnt it happening to me? Who is that one person? Though I have never tried looking for him but my heart aches for it! This one thing that has been missing all my life makes me feel very depressed.

Its not that im not good-looking. Don't want to give a wrong impression...but you will love me at the very first sight...doesnt matter whether you are a girl or a boy...I can charm you!

posted July 25, 2010 01:13 AM         

And don't think you will never find love, because you are basing your definition of love on those around you, or in movies and such.
Love is different for Sagittarius people, hell, love is different for everybody...

There will come a time when you feel intensely passionate about someone, but while your doing that, you will still be wandering about in that inquisitive mind of yours, and months or maybe years LATER, you'll look back and see that you WERE in love the whole time.

posted July 25, 2010 01:52 AM         

I was going to say that for Sags it seems like life is always wandering. There is no ONE love. There are lots. Like you said; you are bored easily, and nothing interests you for a long time.