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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 23 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 03:58 PM
Finally I was able to login I really need your help. I am so desperate and lost. I can not even explain. I can not sleep I can not eat, I am crying all the time. WellˇK. I am pregnant. I am 23 weeks. And I can not wait to meet my baby girl. It is very difficult road: I have high risk pregnancy. I am in and out of hospital a lot. But my baby is feeling good and I am so happy but.. My nightmare started on May24th.I decided to part my way with my ex boyfriend (father of my unborn daughter) Why? Well He started to accuse me of cheating and lying. Before May24 we spoke numerous times and we cleared the things out (or I thought so). The whole ordeal took a lot of out me. I even ended up in a hospital with a bleeding (and I received diagnose ˇ§Threatened miscarriage) (May 14) When I saw my ER doctors and my OBYGN they told me --You are high risk No more stress otherwise you can loose your pregnancy I and my ex talked about it. He apologized that he inflicted unnecessary stress and we made up. Well in 2 days he started again calling me names (crazy, lyer, sick) And this is the saddest part no matter what I say no matter what I do He did not believe me. So I decided hell with it my baby is my priority. So May24th I told him We are no longer a couple, I do not want to talk to him or see him before the baby is born because of all the drama he brings in my life. Well the last 2 months were hellˇK. In the beginning he sends txt messages accusing me of all possible sins. Then when I blocked my number, he started contacting me via FB page when I blocked FB page he started to contact via email so on so forth. When I blocked EVERY means of communications He started to send txt messages and emails to my mom and my brother. He send my mom 10-12 txt messages with threat --If you(mother) or Still Hopeful will not see me I will bring you to court, --Why are you playing games with me, I want to see my child Mind you I am 5.5 months pregnant The child is not born yet. She should be born November 23rd. My brother took a hit too. My ex contacted him numerous times asking all strange questions regarding my previous marriage, miscarriages. Then he started to talk about that I am suicidal and I am drug user. I have never used drugs. I have never been suicidal He distorted every possible word, he screamed at my mom and my brother. When I had enough I emailed him and I asked him politely Please stop badgering me and my family if you continue to do so I will contact authorities , After the child is born we can talk about but Now I need to carry my pregnancyˇ¨ Well my dear friends **** hit the fan. He started threaten me going to court, and taking away the child. Well how can we take her away if she is not born yet? Again calling me sick, stupid. I told him so many times Please stop: I am pregnant, I am high risk do you have any idea : No... So immature. I just want him to leave me alone. Forever, I do not want anything from him, I do not need his love, his child support, I just want to be left alone. I am dreading the idea going to court (so much money, so much energy, so much negative emotions) Can you help me to look at our and my charts? Astro.com is down I will post charts shortly Ok: This chart is synastry http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/Paul%20and%20I/Synastry.gif
I am inside This chart is degrees and aspects: http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/Paul%20and%20I/degree.gif This chart is My natal and transits http://s868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/Paul%20and%20I/?action=view¤t =nataltransits.gif Please click to see bigger image
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starkiss1 Knowflake Posts: 1120 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 04:51 PM
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crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 06:08 PM
Does it matter what the charts say, dear? This man's behavior is despicable. You are pregnant and he is hounding you with accusations you believe to be baseless. You wanna know what I suspect? I suspect he freaked out, got cold feet about you or about you and a baby, and he decided he's gonna get himself out of having to pay child support. He knows you'll cave if he harasses you and your family and threatens to tell the authorities you're unfit so they'll take the baby away from you. I think that's the game he's playing. I've been wrong before, it's just a hunch. IP: Logged |
electricmind Knowflake Posts: 337 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 06:18 PM
sorry to hear about this.i didn't look at the chart. but you should file a police report against him so that you will have legal documentation of stalking and verbal abuse. that way, if he ever does decide to take you to court, you have evidence of his behavior. get a restraining order. and call the police whenever he tries to contact you or your family. just my 2 cents. many prayers of peace and healing to you, your child and your family. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2338 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 06:29 PM
I am so sorry. I know how it feels to feel horrible and utterly hopeless. I wish I could offer some help beyond words on a computer. God has helped me through the most horrible of times and given me comfort beyond this world.
Ami
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Nephthys Moderator Posts: 322 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 26, 2010 06:55 PM
I agree with this ----------> quote: Does it matter what the charts say, dear?
and this ---------> quote: get a restraining order
You have plenty of documentation - save the messages and e-mails as proof. Pray to Angels and take care of YOU IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 23 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted July 27, 2010 09:34 AM
I am working on a restraining order I Spoke to Social Worker and in a process of getting a lawyer (just in case) I will fight and I will fight hard . I just never met such a people before and honestly I am baffled by all his accusations, claims. I had my share of unplesant experience but not to such degree. May be I was lucky. Well.. talking about a "heavy sky constalation" at the moment, ahh I am not sure why I posted synastry but can you look at my transits? Transits as of yestoday.IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 23 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted July 27, 2010 09:37 AM
and GUYS Thank you very much for your support. Monday I was a mess I cried so much and felt helpless and very vulnerable. I am on hormonal overdrive. Today I am usual self THANK you for all your advices and good wishes IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 272 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 27, 2010 09:50 AM
I am sending you love and comfort vibes. And some advice.... Please don't let your baby grow for the last few months in a stressful environment. Our stress may affect our growing babies. You need to try to put yourself in a state of Zen, despite the storm he created in your life. Perhaps easier said than done. But still, worth the effort, IMHO. I am so sorry women go through this kind of thing when they're expecting.
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