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posted July 26, 2010 07:39 PM         

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Long time friend of mine and I are now an item. But seems like he has more feelings on the relationship than I do? Input?

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posted July 27, 2010 12:40 AM         

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maybe because he has Venus conjucnt your Sun, I noticed a couple of cases where those with their Venus conj synastry Sun feel more

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posted July 27, 2010 01:21 AM         

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In my personal experiences, I always felt it way more when their Moon was conjunct my IC/in my 4th house.

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posted July 27, 2010 07:49 AM         

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Do you think Venus feels things more--in synastry--than the other person's planets?

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posted July 27, 2010 08:00 AM         

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I don't know if this is always true Ami, but this is something I noticed in a couple of cases when the Venus person was more in love or cared more than the Sun person.

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posted July 27, 2010 08:10 AM         

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I feel or get irritated very easily if too much planets fall on or are in the same sign as my SN.
My NN squares my Moon (as yours conjunct it) so all that planets on or near it simply doesn't feel very well on an emotional level.
Also in common that my Sun is in the same sign as my SN (orb 7).

And with that.. my Moon in synastry HAS to be touched in a positive way to personal planets, in your case it's only to Saturn, hm.. is that enough?

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posted July 27, 2010 08:12 AM         

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This is quite interesting ...unrequited love lol is it just the venus sun conjunction that makes the difference or is it another aspect??

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posted July 27, 2010 08:27 AM         

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angel, of course there are more indicators of unrequitted love than just Sun conj synastry Venus.

In one case of Sun conj synastry Venus, both were in love but the Venus person was more in love.

In the second case, the feelings were unrequitted, the Sun person saw the Venus person as a friend only.

In the case of Sun conj Venus double whammy, both were in love.

I noticed that most guys that are attraced to me when I am not, have stressful aspects from my planets, especially slow planets, to their Venus or Moon.

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posted July 27, 2010 08:38 AM         

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Could you clarify your last sentence. Peri? Also, could you use examples.
Thanks so much
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posted July 27, 2010 09:59 AM         

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Say if the womans sun was widely conjunct the males venus and his sun was sextile her venus..would this indicate a mutual affection??

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posted July 27, 2010 11:16 AM         

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I think so, angel.

Ami, I meant men that had unrequitted feelings for me usually had stressful synastry aspects to their Venus or Moon from my planets.

e.g. #1 had his Mars conj Venus conj my Uranus square Saturn opp Mercury and Sun

#2 had his Venus square my Sun, Moon conj Uranus, square Saturn, opp Mercury and Sun

#3 had his Venus opp my Sun, square Saturn

hmm, I cannot think of any other examples right now.

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posted July 27, 2010 11:38 AM         

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Thank you, Peri.That clarifies it well.
What have you found with Pluto and other planets since you are such a wealth of information

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posted July 27, 2010 11:49 AM         

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The love of my life has Venus conj Pluto natally conj my Pluto opp my Venus/Mars.

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posted July 27, 2010 11:54 AM         

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Could you tell me about the relationship, Peri.
Whatever( and as much as you want to share)

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posted July 27, 2010 12:31 PM         

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It was real LOVE on both sides, passion was too uncontrollable to enjoy it, lots of insecurities, fears and manipulation, it took us several years to break up finally. This love transformed me on a very deep level, it was extremely painful but nevertheless I am happy it happened. I doubt I will ever forget him. I don't think I am in love with him anymore but sometimes out of nowhere I have very emotionally intense dreams about him, I wake up bewildered feeling as in love as I was years ago... it usually takes me about 3-4 days to get back to normal and forget about him again, it's really strange. He was the reason I joined LL 7 years ago. I came here like many newbies to ask for a relationship reading, lol.

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posted July 27, 2010 12:34 PM         

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Peri

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posted July 27, 2010 12:39 PM         

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thanks Ami xoxo

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posted July 27, 2010 01:10 PM         

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Hmm.. from personal experience of being the Venus person, I wasn't more in love, but rather just liked the way they are, their personality. A handful of my friends have their Sun conj my Venus and I feel lots of 'platonic' love towards them. I don't think I've ever been sexually or romantically attracted to someone's Sun conjuncting my Venus, but of course there could be other factors for that as well. I read on cafeastrology, that if one person's planets/points aspects the composite well, that they are more attached to the relationship than say the other whose planets might square/oppose it. My current bf's Sun/Moon mp conjuncts our composite Moon and my Sun/Moon mp conjuncts our composite Sun. He seems more attracted and emotional than I am in our relationship, which I am glad lol, I hate being more emotional. Yeah amowls, me too I get more attached. When anyone's Moon conjs my 4th, it makes me feel sooo vulnerable and at times emotional, I have a love/hate type of feeling when that happens to me in synastry. Your Moon conjs his 4th, that's probably one reason why he's more attracted Savanna, can you tell me about his Jupiter and Saturn in your 12th? Is that uncomfortable for you? I would like to know more about that, if it's cool with ya'.

mir, I'm like that too, I do not like it one-bit when someone's planets harshly aspects my Moon. Anything else but the Moon is fine!

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posted July 27, 2010 01:13 PM         

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I have a double whammy Venus trine Sun with a person I completely adore, always kept up with each other over 10 yrs even if we were on different continents and if we ever got into a serious argument and declared the friendship was over... it would only last for a couple months... we would end up working thru the issue and have a stronger bond...

is this from the Venus/Sun DW? I always wondered if he felt the same about me... LOL

EDIT: with all the charts I have compared mine with... this is the only person I have a Venus DW with...

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posted July 27, 2010 01:16 PM         

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Oh... isn't Jupiter comfortable in the other person's 12th... I have always read it to be a blessing...

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posted July 27, 2010 01:17 PM         

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This is a REALLY interesting thread about who feels more.

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posted July 27, 2010 01:59 PM         

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Thanks everyone, wow this thread has really expanded.

Not sure what to say about Saturn or Jupiter in the 12th? Is there something specific? It's definitely a spiritual connection for sure!

We're keeping this relationship on the D.L. in both our parts. But I don't want it to be kept secret for long. Just ended one that was like that.

But, he's definitely very mature, at times find him intimidating. I'm not as sexually attracted to him as I have with other guys. It's like, I find him sexy, handsome, but somehow, I feel like my 8th house is not veyr much activated. =?

You know, like when you have a guy friend, but have a hard time looking at him like you want him. LOL. Like that.

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posted July 27, 2010 08:50 PM         

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Wow soulful.. then your Moon must be conjunct his Sun in synastry! (just a mathematical effect )

We share the TRINE (ofcourse MY moon/his sun) in synastry and the effect is my S/M midpoint trine the Composite Sun and his S/M midpoint trine Composite Moon.

And euh.. my Moon in his 4th, hmmm .. that sounds promising

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posted July 28, 2010 10:59 AM         

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Yeah mir, our Sun's trine too.

Moon in 4th is nice! Mines fall in his 10th, and his in my 6th. Sometimes our conversations revolve around stuff that are so boring blahh hahah.

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We're keeping this relationship on the D.L. in both our parts. But I don't want it to be kept secret for long. Just ended one that was like that.

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We were like that too in the beginning, many of our friends found out we were together by themselves, when we walked into a room, they knew. We never told them about our relationship, not that we were hiding. We have several Neptune aspects in synastry and composite and some planets falling in 12th house in both.

I was wondering about the Saturn in the 12th because I have that with a friend, we aren't 'close', but can't seem to break away from the relationship. When I'm around her a lot I feel drained for some reason. I wonder if she felt it too. I dunno though, it might be something else! I'll have to check the charts again, it's been awhile since I looked and I don't always know what the heck I'm looking at LOL.

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posted July 28, 2010 01:00 PM         

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