posted July 31, 2010 03:30 AM         

I talked to my childhood best friend tonight and this weekend her family is having a reunion and she is not invited or welcome to go.

We were born 2 days apart from each other - it seems like we're going through similuar stuff right at the same time. If she has a crappy week, I also have one too though we live 1200 KM apart from each other.

So what is it that we are not invited to the family stuff?

I think I may have an illusion in my mind about what family and relatives are but the reality is it all doesn't match.....actually my vision of family and what I have seen out side of my own doesn't match the reality of my root family.

Would it be Saturn and Mars entering libra?

posted July 31, 2010 03:42 AM         

I can't help astrologically but I feel for you and your friend.

posted July 31, 2010 03:57 AM         

I still wonder what is happening in the transits.....like I said I'm not the only one in this boat this weekend.my friend is too.....

Family in my mind I think would come across as close knit and happy to see each other - making time to see the other person. Not in my family. They come to town and I don';t get the phone call.....

Why does it SEEM like family is ever so important to a Moon in cancer? Or somebody with a strong cancer influence? The cardinal T square has not touched my planets YET....

posted July 31, 2010 04:16 AM         

In mythology, Eris wasn't invited to the wedding. Eris could be about marginalization and exclusion.

also where is your natal Eris,and is it being aspected

secondary progression or solar arc involving Eris might be involved too

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posted July 31, 2010 08:59 AM         

Natally Eris is conj my sun and chiron in Aries. Square to mars and opposite uranus.

I have moon in Cancer at 24.50 but the orb is way too wide to have any effect on it.

posted July 31, 2010 09:09 AM         

I'm not trying to be funny - BUT - if you are not sure that you are "unwelcome", and it's just a matter of not receiving a formal invite.. perhaps it slipped their mind.

I think I'd give them a call just saying "how are you" etc... I have a feeling they'd feel horrible they forgot and they'd invite you.

posted July 31, 2010 10:16 AM         

This is an challenge with having Venus in Pisces - I unconditionally LOVE everything and everyone around me believing to me they count when I should behave more like a Venus in Virgo and be choosy with my love.