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Topic: Unexpected Love/ Synastry
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 627
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 31, 2010 02:47 PM
 
So here's the deal. This person and I met at work about a month and a half ago. We didn't really notice each other at first, but when he wasn't going to be at that job anymore, he gave me his number out of the blue and I contacted him. We got together that night and immediately moved in together because we were both going through a crisis. Well now, after so many fights later, we finally broke up. But something tells me maybe we are suppose to be together. After all, he's the first guy to be so open and honest with me, and we do love each other very much. I just never thought it would lead to marriage, but now that we aren't together I don't really want to lose him. We have four out of five soul mate aspects according to IQ's calculator, and not to mention that intense cardinal grand cross! Can anyone give me some advice about this connection? I'm feeling really down and out... I would love some interaction  Thanks guy's.
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iQ
Knowflake Posts: 1860
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 31, 2010 03:23 PM
Its an extremely karmic connection, Rasp.
Karmic Soulmates, I must add. You met to heal each other after mutual crisis, thats cool but the boy will be going through Saturn Return this year end. If you both are in touch and feeling positive even after that, then it could well turn out to be a very long term relationship. The fights and arguments are all part of the Cardinal Grand Cross, don't sweat on it. Try to keep expressing love and support to break the hold of gloom.
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 627
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 31, 2010 03:34 PM
Thank you iQ!! Karmic Soul Mates isn't really the jack pot though I guess... Is it? This man was so in love with me, he said things like he would kill me if I left him or cheated on him...but it was laced with love for sure.. I think it's his Proserpina on my Sun aspecting my Moon/Neptune/Pluto. Definitely true love.. Now he wants to get his life in order. I guess that's Saturn. But I thought I was the one Saturn brought to him, since my ASC is on his Jupiter/Saturn conjunction. Saturn ruling his seventh house.. IP: Logged |
DD
Knowflake Posts: 5265
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 31, 2010 03:40 PM
"This man was so in love with me, he said things like he would kill me if I left him or cheated on him"
Quite honestly, this would creep me out and make me run as fast as I could.
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 627
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 31, 2010 03:42 PM
He didn't mean it. Besides you put up with things like this when you're in love.IP: Logged |
NickiG
Knowflake Posts: 48
From: Newport, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 31, 2010 03:48 PM
i think its nice that he loves you that much, my man tells me he would die (probably of heart break) if i ever left or cheated on himIP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 1860
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 31, 2010 03:52 PM
Hmmm...... karmic soulmates are a necessary step before true love relationship soulmates enter your life. You are very young, he is lucky to have you in his life. In a way, this temporary break will do good, time for introspection etc. Both of you have Mars in water signs, so very expressive emotions.
Leo and Cancer Suns are mate signs. I like the pairing, the Leo guy will love to spoil the Cancer lady. He has the confidence to make up for any lack of confidence on her part. Plus he is Italian, natural flair and fiestiness. Me thinks a clear picture will emerge after the brunt of this Grand Cross gets over.Edit:
That ZEUS-HERA looks very very positive, adding to Sun conjunct PROSERPINE. IP: Logged |
DD
Knowflake Posts: 5265
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 31, 2010 03:58 PM
"rasperri,"He didn't mean it."
That is something I like to hear. "Besides you put up with things like this when you're in love."
dangerous thing to say or think. Paves the ground for abuse and manipulation, at least emotionally, IF one of them is serious about it. But if it was just to express how deep and intense his love for you is,
I hope you will be happy.
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 627
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted July 31, 2010 04:08 PM
Thanks everyone!IP: Logged |
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