posted July 31, 2010 09:30 PM
My whole family and me are all right on the cusp. Let's examine them.Dad: Cap/Aqua Cusp(also a sociopath)
Cap traits:
Sees success as being doctor, lawyer, authority figure
Wants to "own" things and people -- materialistic. Money is very important.
Holds things over your head that he does for you
Loves Education/School
Loves old time black and white movies and photographs
Aqua traits:
Incredibly friendly/warm and then suddenly distant
Loves photography/video editing/abstract paintings - he stairs at them for hours in coffee shops
Likes concerts of weird/random almost hippy-like bands
On and off again relationships -- wants friendship more than romance
Wants stimulating social life
Wore a suit...with sandals...to my graduation.
Mom: Gemini/cancer cusp
Gemini traits:
Talks your head off for hours
Always on the phone or talking to someone
Impatient
Will switch the radio station if song does not catch her attention in the first 10-20 seconds
Cannot sit still through a movie no matter how involved or interested she is -- will get up several times
Cancer traits:
Sensitive!!!
MOODY!
Nurturer! "Adopted" most of my friends growing up. Cries very easily although mostly in front of me.
Sentimental -- I wish you could see her room. It's a typical cancer bedroom. She can make any place feel like home.
Creative and a great cook
Always wants to hug people -- can get two people's life's story while out running errands easily
Easily feels sympathy for others
My brother: Sag/Cap cusp
Sag traits:
Funny! Makes silly faces and noises, and would say things outloud in a public restaurant that would make everyone blush except him
Foot-in-mouth disease
Liked to skateboard and be outdoors especially when younger
Wanted independence more than me at an earlier age even though he was the younger brother
Tall forehead
Cap traits:
Depression/incredibly somber appearance most of the time
More conservative than meets the eye, believes in manners and severely dislikes rude people
Can really hold a grudge
HARD worker and very productive
Looked older than his age from the time he was 11
Me: Leo/Virgo Cusp
Leo traits:
Feel like I have a "special" calling in life I can't seem to ignore
Want to be seen as unique, different, or special -- MOSTLY by significant other. Will lose interest if he doesn't somehow see me as "different" from the rest.
I have a lot of pride and it can be injured and take a long time to recover -- but you'll probably never know
Idealized version of love(libra asc doesn't help)
Tender heart
Virgo traits:
If you've gotten this far, it should be evident I psychoanalyze the crap out of everything lol
Aware of all flaws -- especially within myself -- the voice in my head never shuts up. I end up punishing myself several times a day for not being "perfect" or reviewing my choices throughout the day cringing as I missed "perfection"
I look very young for my age. I have a very innocent look to me as well so I've been told.
Incredibly discriminating tastes especially when dating, if a guy cannot stimulate me intellectually than I will not date him. Having the key to my mind is having the key to my heart. Cannot be won over by flattery.
Writing, language, communication, and being detail-oriented is of extreme importance to me. Always carrying something to read when I was younger.
Teacher's pet when growing up
Run into the problem of not seeing the forest because of the trees
Pessimistic -- half glass full mentality a lot -- unfortunately
Researching subjects I am interested in until all the nitty gritty details are soaked up
Hate to waste anything
Will do what I should do rather than what I want to do because it's the "right" thing to do. If I don't, I can't really enjoy whatever I decided to do anyway.
Anxiety! Shy...nervous energy abound. Blush easily, especially when complimented. For some reason, it embarrasses me. Well, actually I embarrass easily period.
Have old fashioned views about sex for this modern era and have chosen to preserve my virginity until I find one of my soulmates Have had BFs and not started a sexual relationship with them holding onto my values.
I believe manners are of up-most importance
Brother accused me of being "mr. mom" growing up because I was so rigid when it came to following the rules and he hated my "logical" approach to all things -- especially when it came to feelings.
Very knowledgeable of herbs/supplements and take many of them. Happy when eating good things for diet(get an upset stomach with meat and sweets easily) and could be considered hypochondriac to some(although I do have some really serious health problems)
Systematic order when it comes to just about everything. I even know how I will eat my dinner(from least favorite to best item) and no, the food will not touch.
Wash my hands around ten times a day...some OCD tendencies when it comes to hygiene. Even if putting a soda can into recycles the tip of a finger barely touched the recycles bag and I just washed my hands, under the faucet they shall go! Family makes fun of me I am ridiculously thorough brushing my teeth.
Dry, sarcastic, witty(not me, others) sense of humor...
Will put off doing tasks because I know if I start I will exhaust myself until it's as "perfect" as it can be, and if it's not I will feel absolute torture until I make it 'right"
Constantly editing, "refining" things
Guess the only thing that isn't me when it comes to being a Virgo is I'm not on the floor scrubbing with a toothbrush or with a vacuum in my hand all the time. Or criticizing others for their flaws...
So, even though there are aspects in the charts probably adding to this kind of behavior, anyone think there's not anything to this "cusp" thing yet? Unless you don't believe in any form of Sun Sign astrology at all, I don't see how that could be.