posted August 01, 2010 04:54 PM         

will i meet someone else?
I can see that my relationship with misteri just broke up with is very obvious as he is a foreigner living in another country

here's my natal

and my solar return

posted August 01, 2010 05:22 PM         

i noticed you have cardinal planets being affected by this t-square of transiting lplanets, perhaps that is a factor?

i have natal venus in libra and moon in aries, /conjunct your mars/venus opposition, and pluto is squaring them, along with saturn/uranus/jupiter/mars opposing eachother ontop of these planets.

my dear love had venus in the same position as your venus but with a cancer ASC. seems these transits are taking their toll on people at the moment..

love is such a beautiful concept..

:'(

but so very heart breaking.. <3

posted August 01, 2010 06:26 PM         

thanks well i'll be honest i don't feel it sooo badly, or maybe? I'm of course devastated but i dunno i feel like we will be back together him and me
It's stupid but i feel we're connected (maybe i'm just going crazy like those old cat ladies).

I dunno it's just weird i see this coming from Uranus going retrograde (the guy is aqua rising).
Well here's our composite and synastry if anyone wants to shed some light?

posted August 01, 2010 06:30 PM         

Ami

posted August 01, 2010 06:40 PM         

These transits are super harsh on many people--this tough eclipse cycle, then the looming cardinal T-square. It is hitting most of us hard, and if not us directly, then our partners.

I don't know how to tell if you'll meet someone else. Hopefully one of the astrologers here who's great at reading transits will weigh in.

posted August 01, 2010 06:50 PM         

he left saying he had no self confidence and i loved him too much to an intensity he could never match

lucia, maybe you can post the composite ?

posted August 02, 2010 06:58 AM         

Pluto is in the area I would wait until Saturn comes to square the ascendant of the composite.

It's funny you're like me your relationship has a rising in the cardinal signs so you get the hit instantly.

Who wanted the break up him?

What's his natal?

Anyone else to look at my chart btw?

posted August 02, 2010 07:02 AM         

well it's funny cos your lad is like mine

an aries guy with mars and mercury in aries and venus in taurus

Only his moon is in sagittarius (my guy's in scorpio).
Well i'd say your moon and saturn fall right on his descendant i'm pretty sure you're the lady for him.. now let's hope he realises this.

posted August 02, 2010 01:37 PM         

You too, Hanakin? LOL. These guys have Aries passion with Taurus sensuality. If he really leaves me, I will miss the physical aspect of our relationship for the rest of my life, I know.

What happened was that I had some insecurities about our relationship, which hurt him, and now he wants to split up, even though I really don't, agh.

It sounds like you and your Aries are in a similar boat: "he left saying he had no self confidence and i loved him too much to an intensity he could never match." I guess this cardinal T-square is pinching at Aries' self-confidence and making them question things, either from inside or outside, and they completely hate that.

We (you and me) both have moon in 7th, our relationships are so important to our emotional well-being.

Anne Ortelee says that in two and a half weeks, a lot of the situations that came to light in the June-July eclipses will come clear and get resolved. Hope so.

She also says if you figure out and clarify exactly what you want in a relationship, it will help bring it to you. And you have done that work: "I really want to build something trust worthy and strong as a century old tree it's the romantic in me"

You've stated your vision/dream for yourself romantically, so that is what Saturn in Libra will bring you over the next two years, something trustworthy and strong.

posted August 02, 2010 03:52 PM         

He says i'm not the one for him (although i was two hours prior).

I dunno i find it hard to imagine he will get back to me.
He told me he could never love me who loves him and that the only girls he fell in love with were the ones who left him (which sounds bad for me).

I still hope he'll get back to me

posted August 02, 2010 06:03 PM         

quote:

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"I really want to build something trust worthy and strong as a century old tree it's the romantic in me"

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posted August 03, 2010 06:19 AM         

Hanakin,

I guess his SAturn opposing your Venus *could* be the reason for your heartbreak, or at least a certain feeling of being rejected.
Your Pluto opposing his Aries-stellium, especially Mars, right?
Great attraction in the beginning, but overtime it detoriates into bickering and fighting about the little thing. You would need something to stabilize it.

But what jumps out at me from the synastry are the oppositions, which are great for chemistry (in homeopathic dosis), but you have so many oppositions, you are pulling into opposite directions.

EDIT: Puto and Saturn respectively opposing the relationship-planets is of course very significant. I think it is highly karmic, but probably too volatile to last.

posted August 03, 2010 04:40 PM         

yes the yod, people keep telling me about it but i don't know.
This year i have a solar return asc in libra... and of course i go after an aries.
I dunno i don't mind changing but i'd have to be sure he loves me otherwise no point.
It seems he doesn't so i'll just act libra this time and wait for someone more manly to come into the picture I don't think he'll ever come back anyway.
I've given up, i don't believe in my dreams anymore.

Thanks for the reading... i'll just send all my wishes to another star hoping to meet that right special person.

posted August 04, 2010 04:51 PM         

But first, I wanted to thank all of you for your great and thought-provoking insights. I am feeling A LOT better and clearer and more connected to my own feelings than I was a few days ago. It has helped so much to hear some other perspectives.

Hanakin: This series of transits have left all of us shaky, but I have a strong feeling you'll come out really happy on the other side. You know what you want and are being true to your own feelings, and that will draw the right thing to you.