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Topic: Mars in Scorpio Hates it When..
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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2010 08:02 PM
..it's too easy to succeed at something ?It could be love, sex or work, but what I've realized is that these people enjoy WORKING HARD in order to attain what they want. Is this true for you ? At least about certain things in your life ? IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2010 08:03 PM
I'm a scopio sun with mars in virgo and although I also believe in working hard, I guess I'm more of a 'little prizes along the rocky road' type of person.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2836 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 07, 2010 08:11 PM
I guess we need some Mars in Scorpio to answer. It should be interesting  Ami
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electricmind Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 07, 2010 08:21 PM
interesting... i'm mars in scorpio but mine is conjunct saturn.i could see your statement being true but its more of a subconscious thing. more aptly, i would say: mars in scorpio hates it when something is superficial. i like for things to be intense, deep and purposeful. work, love, sex...everything. i like it to go hard and go straight the bottom of it. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 426 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 07, 2010 08:42 PM
my BF has it. it's in his Libra ruled 9th house but in Scorpio. it's also in 4 degree sextile to his Uranus.principally, he is a hard worker at things he loves to do. he is very wise and incredibly talented in doing anything creative/artistic, be it music, writing, drawing/painting etc, um, sex too! but because he has so many talents, he's achieved nothing out of any of them. i'm kind of convinced that he's been sabotaging his life of potential success. he's got ideas (including becoming a live sex show performer lol). for him it's so easy to do these things, he cannot decide which one to take. he's definitely sabotaging our relationship as soon as we "settle". it's like he has to have "it" perfect (whatever it may be) before he feels that we have a real relationship. thanks to that we've come a rocky way. maybe suits my Sagittarius love for adventures… he's got a big Virgo stellium too. so he's a perfectionist. he's trying to do something with his life right now. i hope he succeeds. preferably in areas away from live sex shows. IP: Logged |
kitkat18 Knowflake Posts: 19 From: canada Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 08, 2010 12:49 AM
I have mars in scorpio and I can say for myself, yes that is true.A challenge can be sexy as long as it doesn't drag on for too long. I guess the word would be "stimulation". Stimulate the senses, whether it is work or love, and the desire to possess kicks into high gear. IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland Registered: Jun 2010
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posted August 08, 2010 12:58 AM
lechien, quote: i'm kind of convinced that he's been sabotaging his life of potential success. he's got ideas (including becoming a live sex show performer lol). for him it's so easy to do these things, he cannot decide which one to take.
Does he have a lack of fire in his chart? swirlkit -- quote: ..it's too easy to succeed at something ?
I'm not sure. That sounds more like Aries or possibly other fire signs. I don't think Scorpio Mars would "hate" this. It's not something they would think about. electric - quote: mars in scorpio hates it when something is superficial. i like for things to be intense, deep and purposeful.
That sounds more like the Scorpio Mars people I know. The distinction is drawn between superficial and intense.. not between 'easy' and 'difficult'. But if a person has 6 planets in Aries or Sag (or possibly Leo) and a Scorpio Mars - they will still be fiery overall, so everything may revert back to "easy" "difficult" - challenging" or "not challenging enough". You can't really judge by one placement only. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 3492 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 01:51 AM
I have Mars in Scorpio. quote: it's in his Libra ruled 9th house but in Scorpio
I'm guessing that Libra's on the cusp. The 9th house correlates to Sagittarius. Your guy sounds just like me. As to the original question: Mars in Scorpio hates it when it's too easy to succeed at something? For me, yes. I recognize that some people have a really easy time with success. I also recognize that some people are really successful with just a small bit of talent (or more precisely...with a very average product). I've got a Virgo Moon. Makes me self-critical and doubtful about ever having an easy success. I find it difficult to be comfortable with an average product. If I feel that my creation is average, then I'm sure it's not very good. Surely there are better. I'm a wannabe virtuoso. I am quite proud at the moment that I will have zero debt by the new year without bankrupcy or anything. That's pretty awesome. EDIT: Come to think of it, my Mars is in the 6th, which may also contribute to that critical air. IP: Logged |
starkiss1 Knowflake Posts: 1278 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 02:39 AM
I am Mars/Moon Scorpio. I have to agree with Electric. Nothing superficial. Mars in Scorpio is hard. If I LOVE, I love obsessively, passionately and get to the very core of the person I chose to love( I always choose, not get chosen). If somebody chooses me, I don't like it. I feel uncomfortable and cut thim off.If I hate, I hate. To the end. I will never change my mind again about the person who provoked me. It usually means I have already given them a couple of chances not to be hated. If they failed, then they are not to be in my life, and if they want war, I will give them war. If success comes too easily, it's not a real success for me. I won't enjoy it. Success comes with a process of winning it through hard work or a fair battle.  IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 1297 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 02:51 AM
My son have mars conj saturn in scorpio. My believe is that you will in no other sign find so strong driving force. My son was always the best in his school in every subject. He is an real einstein. When he was 2 he build things who was meant to be for 5 years olds children. He finance his studie on university through build a computer program which spreads on the world. I think it's now on 30 language.
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Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2836 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 07:54 AM
Starkiss That was some definition. I could feel the sense of it. Thank you, Ami ------------------ Look Your Pluto In the Eye. Thank Him For Being The One Who Will Keep You Safe When The World Descends To Madness. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1730 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 08:18 AM
I'd love to have things come easily to me, but they seldom do. When they do, I'm usually in shock, and usually when things come easily, it is usually too good to be true, unfortunately. For example, money comes easily to me, but not in huge amounts. I usually have enough for NOW. That's the only type of money that comes easily to me. Also, love comes easily to me, but it seldom lasts. I'm lucky, and I'm grateful for this, but what would make me happier is if the long term, sustainable stuff also came easily because these mean more to me than the fickle everyday stuff. So, the meaningful things that I really desire don't come easily and I'll suffer greatly to get them. I'd pretty much do all that I can do to get them. The things that come easily to me don't matter to me. So, it's not that we hate easily attainable things, it's that we desire things that aren't easy to attain. We desire things which turn out to be hard to get, we don't desire them just because they are hard to get. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 1297 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 08:24 AM
I think we must se where we have our saturn to see when things in our life will come to stay. I think that's because I destroy every new relationship because the men always want to stay..I've venus/NN/mars trine saturnIP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2836 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 08:27 AM
Dear Unmoved Do you have squares in any of the areas where things do not come easily to you? x o x Ami
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Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1730 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 09:05 AM
Ami, My Saturn in Libra (12)is square my Moon in Cancer(10). My Virgo Venus(11) is square my Sag Uranus(1). Libra = Where I do my Saturn as Anne Ortelee says. It's where most of my lessons reside, and the lessons are in Venus' area. My Cancer Moon is conjunct MC which debilitates it since it is in Saturns arena, even though it does make my Moon potent. Saturn represents long-term things, areas where I require discipline, areas I need to act like Saturn and my Saturn is in 12th so my Saturn tendencies are lost in space somewhere. My 7th house ruler, Venus is square Uranus and, my 7th house ruler is in Uranus' house, House 11. Libra is in the 12th house of my chart and my Libra house is intercepted. That means, yes, to your question. Saturnine and Venusian things mean most to me and they are the things I find difficult to attain long term. I wish I had Saturn in 1st or a Venusian ascendant. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2836 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 09:11 AM
WOW Unmoved I am getting pushed beyond my Astrological knowledge with that. I am gonna study it and be back  x o x Ami------------------ Look Your Pluto In the Eye. Thank Him For Being The One Who Will Keep You Safe When The World Descends To Madness(which it does on a REGULAR basis) IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 426 From: i live in a kitchen Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 09:49 AM
Dy-na-mi-tee, indeed he only has Jupiter in Aries and the rest is all in Virgo, plus a few in Water and Air. he has to kick butt of the Jupiter to get things going i guess.AcousticGod, lol you do sound like my BF too. he's not yet at the point of reaching zero debt though, hope he follows your path! IP: Logged |
JChristine Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Brooklyn, NY Registered: Jul 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 09:51 AM
My Mars-Pluto Conjunction in Scorpio dislikes...Superficiality & Lightweights: People who lack depth, or pretend to lack depth. People who are wrapped up in foolishness (gossip, designer fashion etc) There is nothing inherently wrong with these things like fashion, but if you're only doing to keep up with the Joneses or because you think it will make you cool and not because you have a genuine love for it, then I do not understand you. Taking things at face value: Like when you are raised with a particular doctrine or belief and never once question it, or delve deeper or even explore other options before settling into that belief. That may be the Sagittarius in me, but the Scorpio also understands the layers. Passive Aggressiveness: If you're going to be angry be angry, if you want to talk about it, do it directly...none of this masking hitting below the belt with a sweet smile nonsense or slamming cabinets and grumbling to yourself (Yea mom, I'm talking to you!). I tend to close my mouth when extremely angry or walk away because I have a fear of thrashing the person with words. I come back later a little calmer and then talk about it. Or I may not speak at all, and put it down in my memory as something to keep note of. Abuse of Power: Those who abuse power because they can, or those who are power hungry and seek to belittle, abuse and stomp on others and then run away scared/ feign innocence when they are confronted. Those who believe that when "bad" things happen that they are out of favor with God/There is no God, or being punished: I think Scorpio understands that there is darkness to all lightness, and balance between the two. "Bad" things happen to push us along, to further us and to get us to recognize the light. Those who are easily squicked by the darker, more raw side of love & sexuality. Who generally label these things as sinful or perverted. Lol...to each their own. ::steps off her Scorpio soapbox::
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Unmoved Moderator Posts: 1730 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 10:03 AM
Oh, Ami. I didn't mean to push you too far. I hoped you'd get it. Let me know what I can explain. JChristine.  IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 2836 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 10:12 AM
Love you ,Unmoved  I am just going at my own pace. Knowledge can only get in so fast lol Your post is good study material. x o x Ami ------------------ Let Your Pluto Show You the Dance Of Your Soul. IP: Logged |
electricmind Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 08, 2010 10:59 AM
@JChristine!could u please share whet u wrote with everyone i know. u have just described my feelings and thoughts on those things perfectly! please just say it...no passive aggressive digs. upfront and honestly blunt is how i like. even though my aries moon square neptune is more sensitive then a stubbed pinky toe. kudos! thanks for sharing! IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland Registered: Jun 2010
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posted August 09, 2010 12:18 AM
JChristine - you should post more often. I really liked reading that. I feel the same way - I don't have Scorpio Mars but I like all the Scorp Mars people I know (My Mars is Cap). electric - quote: please just say it...no passive aggressive digs. upfront and honestly
I agree. I don't mind people who keep it to themselves and resolve the issue on their own - and I also like people who sort things out with me in an upfront manner. But passive aggressive comments make my skin crawl. IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire Knowflake Posts: 297 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 09, 2010 02:47 AM
I wouldn't say it was a case of if something's too easy. I would say it's more a case of wanting to do something to the most extreme possible. Not being able to finish something is a frustration to Mars in Scorpio. Being thwarted. Or working with people who don't have the same determination and persistence is frustrating to Mars in Scorpio.They like to do things 'totally'. ------------------ Lack of Earth - Lack of bu11shit. IP: Logged |
Ada_Lovelace Knowflake Posts: 30 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 09, 2010 06:25 AM
I am also Moon/Mars in Scorpio... I hate game playing, having just re-entered the dating world after 20 years of being locked down in a marriage, my oh my, it's almost all game out here, is it not? I just want people to be straight forward and upfront and honest. But that seems to be too much to ask.IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 5411 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 09, 2010 06:35 AM
A friend of mine has Mars conjunct Pluto (not in Scorpio though), and whenever success comes to her WITHOUT her having had to work for it hard, she won`t consider it a success, but sheer luck which is to be comtempted.IP: Logged |