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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 08, 2010 03:26 PM
 
I really would like to get married in early spring, but im not sure if we will be able to . Im thinking the end of november would be better astrologically, but i dont want to get married in the cold.
the date i have is november 27, 2010.we would be in between the retros in venus and mercury.
Would it be best to have moon in leo, or moon in cancer. i think we have enough cancer (asc)in our composite. i dont think i can take any extra cancer! heres the chart:
 also i was looking at april 30, 2010 or may 7, 2011. its packed with aries though! is that good or bad? also i can change the times, if need be.
also, is it best to marry while sun is in pisces, as long as there is no retrograde action in mercury and venus? im at my very beginning stages, and im feeling a little overwhelmed with all this info!
i did an horary not too long ago with "will i get married this year, and the answer was positive. he gave me an approximate of around october/november, but i would really like to avoid it. i could even do march. i will check the epheremis. IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 08, 2010 03:57 PM
for the one dated nov 27, i believe it will be in a full moon phase and under the sign of taurus.
is a full moon THAT detrimental to a wedding? and since it is in taurus, does that have a positive effect at all?IP: Logged |
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posted August 08, 2010 04:07 PM
The day in november. I don't like the t-square in the other chart. Saturn square pluto get me to be cold.Venus sextil pluto. I love the dynamic to venus in the first chart and the YOD. Much love and exciting here. Dynamic.
Saturn in house 5 are also for me a stable good one. For me I only see one possible day. IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted August 08, 2010 04:17 PM
Both charts have venus in a bad place. First one it's anaretic and second one it's in detriment.
In the first one, after the first year or in it, the venus will progress into scorp into its fall for the rest of your marriage -- 30 years. Not good at all.
The second one has that t-square and ALL that aries....makes me think you'll battle all the time.
I would try to get venus in a good place (and the moon) in a good sign with good aspects. It's really hard to get a good chart, but you can get one that is passable. Angles should be in fixed signs. IP: Logged |
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posted August 08, 2010 04:27 PM
How does the wedding date suit your natal chart?Where are valentine amor on the day and to your natal chart? IP: Logged |
DD
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posted August 08, 2010 05:03 PM
This is my parent`s marriage chart. They have been married for 36 years this year!
A stable marriage; they have always been discussing and talking much with each other; and they are still affectionate with each other.
This morning my Dad made a cup of coffee and brought it upstairs to wake her up and say goodmorning, after he had made breakfast (well, actually I have made breakfast, cause I was sooner awake than him, which is rare enough). I found that pretty cute.But if you look at that marriage chart you wouldn`t quite expect that, would you?
Just look at how delibilated Venus is. In Aries (is it the detriment of fall sign?) conjunct Chiron, opposing Uranus (not really a friend of stable relationships) and both squaring Mars in Cancer, which is in the sign of its detriment (or fall?).
Fittingly though, a strong Mercury in its own sign helps to channel the tension of the Venus/Chiron-Uranus-opposition through communication and mental occupation.
Moon is also not really that well placed. It is in her home in Cancer, alright, but conjunct Saturn and square Pluto.
The Saturn-Pluto-square is practically exact. I do like the Ceres-Juno-conjunction a lot, probably because my Ceres is at exactly the same location in my chart (9°37 Pisces) and my Jupiter is on 11°13 conjunct it. 
Anyway I think any astrologer would have told them that that is a really bad day for getting married.
Yet it worked for them.
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popcorn
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posted August 08, 2010 05:11 PM
DD. How suits your parents wedding date with there natal charts.I'm surprised about saturn square pluto . But I think it's good to see it works good in the reality. I like that. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 08, 2010 05:13 PM
I also like the T-square between venus/mars/uranus. Love and dynamic. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 08, 2010 05:18 PM
Wow they have valentine conj p fortuna.IP: Logged |
DD
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posted August 08, 2010 05:20 PM
Popcorn,the difficulty is that you already KNOW that it worked out between my parents. But would you have advised anyone to pick such a date for a marriage?
Dynamic, yes, but the tension could have been too high and also the instability (which it never was between them).
Maybe the housplacements helped a bit: Venus in 9th house, stellium in 11th house, Sun in 10th house and even Uranus in 3rd house - all of this seems to highlight the importance of communication and friendship, and the Sun in 10 might make it pretty public / stable, as long as there is communication.
I think if they ever stopped talking to each other, their marriage would be over in an instant.
Synastrically their Sun`s are square, Mom is a Scorpio, Dad is an Aquarius. Dad``s Taurus-Moon opposes my Mum`s Sun (which explains some of the magnetism I think.)
Saturn conjunct Dad`s uranus
Jupiter conjunct his DESC
ASC conjunct his Pluto Ic conjunct Mum`s Sun
ASC conjunct her Pluto
Ceres and Juno conjunct her NN
Moon conjunct her ASC that is all. IP: Logged |
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posted August 08, 2010 05:22 PM
I wish I have wedding date like your parents. pluto trine sun and as you say about the communication which are excellent and exciting and about everything. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted August 08, 2010 05:25 PM
Yes I think there are stabilizing factors there, which were NEEDED with the T-square involving Venus and the challenging aspect to Moon.
These aspects like a strong Mercury or Valentine-PoF-conjunction or Sun-Pluto-trine, or Venus-Ascendant-trine or Moon/Saturn-IC-trine served as a formidable cushion.IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted August 08, 2010 05:31 PM
All their angles being fixed helps. It's supposed to give more stability. Moon in its home sign helps too. Merc is also in its home sign. Jupiter is exalted too. All of these planets in good places helps balance out the venus in detriment. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted August 08, 2010 05:33 PM
Yes, exactly. That was why I put up the chart here. We have to take into consideration the whole chart, not just one or two placements.IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted August 08, 2010 05:35 PM
Yes, you will never find the "perfect chart" but you can find one that is doable.IP: Logged |
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posted August 08, 2010 05:36 PM
DD. Compare with your parents and the day I not like. What do you say about the T-square? Look what kind of planet it includes. I not say a t-square always are bad. All the planets and the whole picture are important. How do you think the communication will be. strong and intense but how should they find a good way out. I see much conflict with so strong tension. How should they find a way out when it puts in problem in the life. Can you see they could resolve it? The only positive way out are from pluto trine to sun. Is it enough? Not for me.But of course everyone must take there own decision. only the feeling show my own way and I wish that do also in everyone else life here on L.L
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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 08, 2010 06:15 PM
this is my chart with amor and valetine on 11/27/10, popcorn. 
i thought maybe i should change the time a bit bc of the moon.
 what do you think about the full moon in taurus on that day?
diana quote:
I would try to get venus in a good place (and the moon) in a good sign with good aspects. It's really hard to get a good chart, but you can get one that is passable. Angles should be in fixed signs.
can you give any suggestions? IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted August 08, 2010 06:26 PM
we have a pretty good relationship, so could a "wrong date" really be that bad? i already know the relationship is blessed beforehand, so why should i worry. i just wanted to make sure venus and mercury were not in retrograde. its getting complicated. i dunno, i guess im having this questioning astrology issue like alot of people do!
neverthleless, im still pushing forward astrology wise. i dont know why...so how do i know if its doable? IP: Logged |
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posted August 09, 2010 12:53 AM
"we have a pretty good relationship, so could a "wrong date" really be that bad?"Absolutly not. Astrology have not enough conclusive material as an secure method. DD also describe it here before when she talk about her parents wedding date chart. The total amont are the same. If I going to marry me in the future again I know I must do as you, check it out. In the end my soul always know what I want. The wedding date check brings that I will think more than two times before I marry me and I want feel me more secure if... We marry us because we believe on it and we want to stay togheter in the whole life. IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted August 09, 2010 02:35 PM
The first chart looks best to me. Pluto is accidentally dignified, satuen is exalted, venus is at home, but anaretic.Merc is in fall...and it's the chart ruler. It would be best if you could have a taurus or other fixed ac, but not conjunct algol. I don't love sat in the 5th, either, so maybe a different time will move it out of there. You'll still have p. venus in scorpio forever. The other chart will have really bad transits for a long time....t.ura in 7th and will hit that whole aries stellium. Not good. I don't know what you mean about the taurus FM....I don't see any taurus FM on these charts. IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted September 24, 2010 06:27 PM
we now officially have a wedding date. It worked out so well that i feel it was meant to be on this date. at first we were struggling with a location, and i was given an idea, and it all worked out. im especially liking that it will be in a church.im just trying to decide on the time. if anyone could help that would be great.
it will be either 3 pm or 4pm.
im liking the taurus asc...but im not sure. also like the sun in the 7th house.   IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted September 24, 2010 11:04 PM
It would be lovely if Moon was making nice with Venus.
It's an aspect of devotion and care.IP: Logged |
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