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Topic: Parasitic placement/aspects?
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lechien
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From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 09, 2010 09:46 PM
 
i have a tendency to become parasitic when i have a close relationship to someone, whatever the relationship is. not necessarily financially, but could be spaces and activities. i loathe myself for it. being a Sagittarius, it head-butts with my independent, freedom loving nature. when i'm "alone", i'm super social, outgoing and active, but quickly find someone to latch onto so i can be a lazy Sagi. terrible cycle!what indicates that sort of nature in a person's chart? i have my AC ruler in the 7th house. its even in opposition to my DC ruler in the 1st house. i think that's one indicator of my issues with blurred boundaries. IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 200
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 09, 2010 11:15 PM
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popcorn
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posted August 10, 2010 07:11 AM
Maybe strong saturn. Saturn is an taker. Jupiter an giver.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: i live in a kitchen
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posted August 10, 2010 12:02 PM
any other ideas?i guess my Saturn is somewhat strong? it's in the Leo ruled 9th house, at the critical degree of Virgo (0.30). I'm a Sagittarius AC/Sun so 9th house is an important house. actually, if we can count in Chiron to form configurations, i have a Kite formation with Trining Saturn/Chiron, with opposing Mercury/Jupiter, with the Jupiter in the 7th as the pointer. my Saturn is trine my Sagittarius stellium in general. but in that case, the energy appears more soothing than problematic, no? i guess it also has to do with the synastry aspects to different individuals too, but i find it rather a burden than benefiting from the energy of Kite. how can i channel it to bring out the more positive side? sometimes i'm even feeling miserable with my habit. i do have another Kite so that makes 2 Kites in my chart. I'll just post my chart it's easier than reading in text to see.
 but in the meantime, does anyone else have experience with people like this, or have ideas? i'd like to know more! IP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 1953
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2010 12:04 PM
Blurring of boundaries = Neptune.
Socializing = Venus.
Venus conjunct or square Neptune perhaps.
Neptune on Descendant is another possibility for someone with a strong Venus in the chart.
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popcorn
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posted August 10, 2010 02:30 PM
lechien.Are you sure it's not only your own feelings that you are a parastic individual. I think people want to give you..Do you have luck in your life? For me it seems so. I like your chart. I think you have a fantastic chart. I wish you take care of your nice chart. For me it seems you have so strong possible to get a interesting and exciting life if you really want. It seems also you have so much to bring to other people. it's not often I like a chart so much like this. What kind of job do you have? IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted August 10, 2010 04:22 PM
Lovely chart~ X3 That Neptune/Venus/Sun/Juno stellium could indicate idealization and dreamy love when it comes to commitment. You should be very sensible and loving/charming/social.
Hmm BML is opposing Sun/Juno, so maybe relationships can arise some unknown insecurities inside of you, so that you might need your partner more than you've thought you'd need? BML has to do with unconscious insecurities and voids that we often don't know about.IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 10, 2010 07:45 PM
wow! thank you guys… i'm so flattered to be complimented on my chart! i like my own chart as well...  popcorn, i don't know, could it just be my own feeling? i think i am definitely lucky, although i also have my share of rocky life circumstances. it feels as if everything is saturated in my life. when i'm lucky i'm so fortunate, but bad things in my life are pretty dramatic too. i definitely have an interesting and exciting life too, but not always exactly what i want. i myself adore to "give", but at the moment my own life needs to be stabilized to give others as i would love to. my job, my official registered occupation is an "artist". i make zero money with it… i really have to do something about it and want to become independent. you think others want to "give" me? it might be how i become parasitic. i easily settle in situations where people can provide me what i lack. but i often find myself getting too comfortable with it. sometimes it's ok like that but i'm getting bored and frustrated. sometimes they are bothered and that makes me hate myself.
comica, i always wondered how to interpret that BML of mine! that sheds some light into the issue then. being in a "relationship" brings out my insecurity as a dependent person. but i also feel that i am NOT dependent. in fact i don't really know if i am dependent or independent. it's weird. i'm confused!
IQ, the epitome of parasite actually is my mother. she sucks money and life out of other people. she's a borderline, but everyone abandoned her, and finally me too, although she's the one who said she disowns me. anyway, she has a Cardinal Grand Cross involving a wide Venus and retrograde Neptune square. Venus is more tightly square the Saturn to which the Neptune is conjunct to. Chiron also conjuncts her Venus.
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comica23
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posted August 11, 2010 05:21 PM
lechien, I guess that I understand how you feel, as I've always thought that I'm independent as well, but then I've realized how insecure/dependent I could be when I finally have a relationship. I have Aries Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury in the 8th, with Moon/Mercury/Venus trine to Uranus. How come someone so Arian with an Aries stellium trine to Sag Uranus ever be dependent?? Oh well, my BML is actually conjunct Moon/Venus/Mercury.BML can be a bit tricky to understand, but well, it's important to accept this part of us in order to deal with it. Don't be hard to yourself about this side of you, and try to embrace it and understand it bit by bit. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: i live in a kitchen
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posted August 11, 2010 10:47 PM
comica, thank you for the advice. i think it's been one of my major conflicts actually, that i feel independent/dependent both at the same time. i always HATED the knowledge at the back of my head that i am very dependent. and my life circumstances have been putting me in situations where this aspect of me was brought up o the foreground often. it's actually a relief that you are telling me not to be hard on myself about it. so it's just one aspect of how i am. and i AM independent when i am, too. that makes me feel easy. you sound pretty fiery, by the way! IP: Logged |
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