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Topic: am i obsessing?
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chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 02:08 AM
 
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Glaucus
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posted August 13, 2010 02:20 AM
It seems like you're much better off with that guy. One of the challenges of Scorpio,Pluto is letting go. Elimination. You could do much better than him. Would it be ok for you to put up your chart to look at your transits? ------------------
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chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 02:27 AM
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Glaucus
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posted August 13, 2010 02:37 AM
I'd say that it has to do with your retrograde Venus conjunct Pluto in Scorpio less than one degree orb. Retrograde Venus could indicate introspection,reflecting over past lovers, and then you have Pluto so closely conjunct it that it can be obsession but can be letting goYou also have retrograde Mercury in 7th conjunct Sun (men) in your 7th house. Retrograde Mercury in 7th is introspection,reflective thoughts in relationships. I think that it's more about the natal. Fear,lack of trust,suspicion,and feeling betrayed are things associated with Scorpio,Pluto
You can just try to let him go. I am sure that people in this forum will even give you advice about some meditation,creative visualization technique that involves cutting the cord between you and your exboyfriend.
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chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 02:41 AM
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Glaucus
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posted August 13, 2010 02:48 AM
"so, you don't think it has anything to do with the pictures and the tapes but me not being able to let go?"It could be both.....like lingering trust issues in regards to if he did or didn't delete the pictures and tapes that makes it hard for you to forget about the past in regards to him. It's like the past has a hold of you. This can be a common thing with the retrograde Venus in Scorpio and retrograde Mercury in Scorpio. That Venus-Pluto conjunction less than 1 degree. You also have Moon in Taurus oppose Mercury in Scorpio which is mainly about heart vs. head matters. emotions at odds with thinking......irrational versus rational.....feelings vs logic. ------------------
Raymond Andrews,
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chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 02:56 AM
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Glaucus
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posted August 13, 2010 04:26 AM
I don't knowI was only going over your natal chart which reflects your nature. I didn't go over any transits. ------------------
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Diana
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posted August 13, 2010 02:42 PM
It occurs in the summer because you have leo planets squaring your stellium and also making a cross out of your chart. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted August 13, 2010 04:45 PM
i doubt he got rid of it.
i also doubt he would hurt you by posting it.IP: Logged |
chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 08:27 PM
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Dy-na-mi-tee
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posted August 13, 2010 09:37 PM
Choco - Can you post your synastry?I'm inclined to agree with CPN - but I would like to see his chart as well. IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted August 13, 2010 09:48 PM
Choco, You can ask him a million times and you'll never know for sure if he did erase it. You have to just let it go.
How old were you when you two made it? If you were under 18 and he shows it it's child porn. That's serious and you could tell him if he gets caught or even if it's stolen, he could go to jail. That may be enough for him to erase it. Barring that, you can't do anything at all except trust him that he erased it. Is he a trustworthy person? Would he do that to you?
I agree with Cpn too. I would think most men won't ever erase something like that.
I wouldn't mind seeing synastry or his chart. IP: Logged |
chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 10:25 PM
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Ami Ann
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posted August 13, 2010 10:27 PM
This is just an intuition. I think he either erased them or will hold them close to his heart lol.
My gut feeling is you do not need to worry .
Ami
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chocogold
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posted August 13, 2010 10:29 PM
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chocogold
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posted August 14, 2010 12:55 AM
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