posted August 17, 2010 01:29 PM
Ok ya'll here's the story. I did not know this guy initially. He went to highschool with me, but I did not know him at all. Some ppl from our class got together about a year a so ago and he was at the gathering. I was sitting at the table chatting with another friend and I caught him staring at me and I thought why is this guy staring at me. At the time I was back involved with the Aqua guy as many of you may know about he and I, so of course I wouldnt notice anything or anyone at that time..lol
About 5 months later I am sitting in church and when church was over and everyone is getting ready to leave out I stand up and I hear someone call my name real loud from about 3 rows above. And I say oh hey and we hug
When we leave chucrch its pouring down raining and I say dang I don't have a umbrella and he says I will walk you to your car. He walked me all the way to my car and we talked a lil and I could tell that he was interested in me. At this time the Aqua and I are over but I am still struggling to move on a bit so I just kind of ignore what I see.
He gets on FB and we become friends we chit chat off and on small talk sort of but uh I start to see somethings but still not thinking. Around in May of this year I am talking about Kareokee on FB and he responds and tells me all the places that have Kareokee and stuff.
Two days later he asked me did I go and I say no but I would like to and if he would mind showing me the ropes.( I had no idea why I did that) wasnt even sure I wanted that.
Anyway he responds with awwwwwww sweetie I would have loved to but I am seeing someone and I wish I would have known you were interested two months ago blah,blah. I was like well its not that serious just thought I asked since he knew so much about it.
I leave it alone but we do exchange numbers. The next day was Mothers day and first thing I woke up he was texting me wishing me a Happy Mothers Day and I thought HMMMMMMM..
We have chit chatted again off and on, on FB. He started to post old songs from when we were younger and I love music so I started to post old songs and well and we got to discussing them and somethings from our child hood came up we then started to chit chat privately. There was such a connection and I had not seen him in almost a year.
I say to him you are seeing someone and I respect that but I do think your cool and handsome and he says I am bad for flirting with you and think your pretty and nice as well. We leave it alone, but I am thinking about him for the next few days like mad, but I am like let that go..
He comes on FB and changes his status from in a relationship to single..OH BOY... I text him and say I am sorry things did not work out with them (secretly happy) Blah,Blah.. and he responds with your sweet. And then he says Mia do you want me baby?
At this point I am like UH!!! I told him it crossed my mind but I am nobodys rebound girl and I think he needs time to regroup. He says they were only together 5 months and that he would like to take sometime and I said fine, lets build the friendship lil by lil.
He told me that he was looking for a special woman to share the rest of his life with yada, yada. So we agreed on that chit chatted some more and thats it for now.The connection just came up from no where and I haven't seen him since Oct of last year.
It feels good in my soul so we shall see. WE have alot in common I do see that.