posted August 17, 2010 03:49 PM         

Just from my point of view (someone that hasn't studied astrology very astrology) that if I'm going to be involved in a square aspect in synastry that I would want it to be Venus or Jupiter, since they are both benefics...

posted August 17, 2010 04:35 PM         

I experienced that aspect with somebody. My Venus in Scorpio square her Sun in Aquarius less than 1 degree,and so it was a strong square. I was very attracted to her, but it kinda rubbed her the wrong way.

My love nature and value system conflicted with her ego and self expression.

There was definitely attraction on her part with her Venus 5 minutes on my Mars. However, She was born with Venus-Saturn opposition, and so my Mars didn't just conjunct her Venus, it was in opposition to her Saturn. I was being too impatient,pushy which led to her being limiting,restricting and vice versa. Her trust issues from being hurt by her exhusband was the factor.

In some ways, it was like push,pull,push,pull.

She later on rejected me for another dude whose Neptune was square her Venus. He had a history of physical abusing women and alcoholism. After 3 years later, she woke and smelled the coffee. Then she got interested in me again. She and I had feelings for each other. I tried to make it work, but my lack of trust in her due to her past rejection of me was too much. I ended it with her. Now, she's with somebody else and married to him since 2005. Therefore, it was all for the best.

She and I are still friends and care about each other. She and I share Moon in Pisces in common as well as Dyslexia and ADHD. It was her being a preschool/daycare teacher of children with special education needs is what really attracted me to her in the first place. When she told me about her own Dyslexia and ADHD 3 years later, I was even more attracted to her.

I believe that Sun square Venus isn't necessarily a bad aspect. Like I said before, I don't believe in negative,positive aspects. I believe that any aspect can work if you put in the effort. I strongly believe that free will is the ultimate factor. She had the free will to be with me the first time,but she chose somebody else. I had the free will to be with her the 2nd time, but I chose to break it off.

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Raymond Andrews,
President,Executive Director of Developmental Neurodiversity Association
Supporting the Neurodiversity Movement

posted August 18, 2010 05:41 AM         

Sun and Venus in aspect are drawn to each other strongly, Yin and Yang, you know?
BUT the square and the resulting incompatible signs (if signbackground means anything at all) give a maybe too strong "rubbing", PUsh and Pull.
Or maybe it was other aspects interfering. In Glaucus`s case certainly. Which is why we have to take into consideration ALL aspects in a closed circuit.

With that I mean all aspects of planets on similiar degrees.

posted August 18, 2010 08:06 AM         

The Sun may come in and eat with the wrong fork cuz he was not interested in all that lol

Ami

posted August 18, 2010 11:12 AM         

I was thinking of the word "cold" as non emotional--more factual,take life as it is.
It is the wrong word .

Ami