posted August 23, 2010 11:42 AM         

I think it has to be a conjunction and very close(1-2 degrees)

In this case, it was bad for me cuz I was a child and could not heal my mother, of course.

However, my theory is that it can be good in some relationships where one person helps another person.

My theory is also that THAT particular planet (of the planet person) will get healed.
In other words, if a Sun hits a Chiron, the ego will get healed. If Mars hits a Chiron , the drive will get healed.
If Venus hits a Chiron, one's sense of one's beauty and worth will get healed.

Please write any Chiron stories.
Thanks so much,

Ami

posted August 23, 2010 11:53 AM         

I have Venus (me) conjunct Chiron (him) exact and his Chiron is badly aspected so he hurts me but I think it's because he still hasn't learned how to be a healer. However as time goes by and he gets older I'm sure the pain he is causing me now will be healed by him and will only be able to be healed by him.

Venus/Chiron in synastry is really quite beautiful. It's deep and there are no boundaries between the people and thats not easy for everyone to take.

posted August 23, 2010 12:25 PM         

Or let`s put it differently. I was in a very vulnearable place. Just through being himself (Sun) he confronted me with my basically unhealable wound, which I experienced as severe wounding for many years.
BUT once I had accepted that this wound IS unhealable, the healing started.
I realized that healing came through accepting this wound.
It also means that I am very aware of other people`s wounds, if they are similiar to my own (retro Chiron in Aries in 4th house), and often people come to me for healing or to show them a way how to heal themselves concerning selfassertiveness and emotions.
Nearly all of my friends have severe problems with their parents, especially their mothers.
I have a loving family background, maybe that is the reason why they think I can show them a way to handle their own background family relationships.
My mum`s mum died when my mum was 17, and this feeling of loss and the fear of losing loved ones was transferred from her to me. Though I did not DIRECTLY experienced the premature loss of my parents, I did it through my empathy (or maybe even genetics), which probably is one of the explanations for why my family and me are so closely knitted. We just KNOW how it feels to lose a loved one, when you need them the most.

But as it is I experienced my Chiron as my wound and my healing, which makes sense to me, as Chiron signifies a wound, and since it is my Chiron, it has to be my wound.
But of course once projection comes into play, noone can be certain anymore who wounds and heals whom.

posted August 23, 2010 12:36 PM         

here's the list of synastry aspects between me and someone who had a profound healing effect on me emotionally:

his Chiron trine my Moon (orb=1°)
his Chiron trine my Neptune (2)
his Chiron square my ASC (1)

my Chiron opposite his Sun (orb=1°)
my Chiron conj his Mars (1)
my Chiron square his Jupiter (1)
my Chiron sextile his Saturn (2)
my Chiron trine his NN (sextile SN) (2)
my Chiron square his ASC (1)

As you can see his Chiron makes supportive aspects to my planets (except ASC) so I got more healed by him than he by me (his own words btw)

I did have some healing effect on him too but only a tiny bit compared to what what he did for me; also our relationship was very painful for him because it made him face and acknowledge some deeply hidden fears that he used as a protection from knowing something about himself that he did not want to know ...he was also going through tr. Pluto conj n. SN (eliminating old stuff) and sextile n. Sun transits so eventually he became a totally new person, he had literally shed his old Self like a snake sheds its skin.

As you can see we have Chiron square ASC/DSC double whammy so our relationship and communication ended due to some factors that I think are partially beyond our control but I will always think about him with LOVE and gratitude.

btw he has Chiron conj MC natally, a wounded healer indeed!

posted August 23, 2010 12:57 PM         

*just my 2 cents

ETA:

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Healing only happens when the Chiron person has the strength to be a healer.

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posted August 23, 2010 01:43 PM         

It seems as if all of a sudden people seek me out for some sort of advice, or just understanding and support...This is done secretly and privately as a never discuss these matters with anyone.. Some of these issue's has been so deep ,that other people just wouldn't understand. These are people from all walks of life..I just seem to understand what they are going through,and what they need.. The words sometimes just flow through, sometimes I dont even know where the words come from.. ITs kinda strange.. Then one day they go away and I never see or hear from them again.. These are both men and women, but for the most part its men.. Usually these are not romantic interests.

I have also been witness to accidents, and have jumped into action, staying with the person until an ambulance has arrived just holding there hand and giving comfort... I always just seem to be right there when It happens..

posted August 23, 2010 02:04 PM         

I wanted to get the sense across that it is an energy and not that someone is a jerk if their planet goes to the Chiron person

The interchange may or may not work, depending on the people, but it is an energy which is there between the two people and I wanted to discuss that.

I will be back to read,later

x o x Ami
PS I think the Chiron person has to be strong enough to heal the planet person, for sure.
I think that is a key to a successful Chiron/planet relationship

posted August 23, 2010 05:22 PM         

My son who died had his Chiron conjunct my Mercury,exactly.

He was a very "with it" person. He was young but he always seemed to have an understanding of people and was popular in whatever setting he was in.
He was academically smart ,too.

I say that to say that His Chiron, perhaps, fed my Mercury even though I NEVER wanted it that way.
I never wanted to take from my children,just to give.

However, the charts ARE the charts.
I wonder if I relied on his street smarts cuz I was going down in to a hole.

You know, I think I did.
I remember one incident where the dog was sick.
I let it go and thought she would get over it.
He said,"Mom, take her to the vet"
I did and she would have died that night if I had not.

He was very "with it" as I said. I bring this up to say maybe I DID feed my Mercury from him.
I think I did.

I bring it up to show Chiron. I am reluctant to even leave this post here cuz I feel so exposed and really ,horrible , about myself.
I will leave it for now.

Ami
PS I just looked at my other son's chart. My Venus is on his Chiron.
What is the lesson in all this?
Do we have to make sure we don't go to the wrong people for healing?
I mean, you obviously cannot control your chart.
I wonder what IQ thinks if he is reading.