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Topic: iQ question for you, synastry with my mom
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NickiG Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Newport, NC, US Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 23, 2010 04:55 PM
i have a lot of issues with my mom and it makes it hard for me to live with her but i cant leave for financial and emotional reasons, it drives me crazy. iQ, i was recommended to ask you advice to handle my issues with my mom, but anyone can give their input. so, i need advice on how to handle my issues with my mom and how to broach sketchy subjects with her. this is my moms and my synastry chart: my moms chart: my chart: thanks!!IP: Logged |
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Newport, NC, US Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 25, 2010 01:13 PM
anyone? it would be very helpful. please and thank youIP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 2038 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 26, 2010 02:21 AM
Hi Nicki, There is a superb advantage, both of you are Gemini Risers. The disadvantage is the 6th House Moon for Mom and 6th House Sun for you. Both of you will feel that the other is emotionally draining. It is a case of vibrational match, and the frequency is getting lower into resentment/frustration. Your Moon conjunct her Uranus is another potential problem, especially of sudden flare ups of temper.Have you ever spoken to her about her life? Have you asked her about her challenges, stating that you wish to learn from her life experiences? This is a great way to build positive bonds, knowing the Gemini Rising advantage.
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NickiG Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Newport, NC, US Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 26, 2010 11:42 AM
I have but the "bonding" sessions are short lived and few in between. whenever we do start to try to talk something happens, whether one of us says something that ticks the other off and such, it gets stormy really fast and i'm not really sure how or why. i would even talk in a calm and even manner and somehow i would say something she would take as me getting an additude. we have sat down a couple of times and talked about her past and it has helped me to understand her a little better, for example why she has such poor relationships. but overall our "bonding" sessions just dont work out too well and she also seems to have issues with seeing me past age 12 because she constantly calls me "irrisponsible" and "immature" and always say how i stress her out and whenever i ask her to take me somewhere or something she stresses about how "i always ask her to do something for me but i'm never grateful and never do anything for her." which isnt true because i dont ask her to take me somewhere or somthing for months at a time but whenever her current so called boyfriend asks her to take him two cities away she jumps to his needs. she wants me to get a job but wont take me to the place i applied for or take me to a place to apply (for the ones that dont have online applications). she drives me crazy and i dont know what she wants from me other than simply cleaning the house------------------ We have eyes yet we do not see IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 2038 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 27, 2010 02:02 AM
Looks like the 6th House Principle has deteriorated here, and the Uranus-Moon negative side overshadows meaningful dialogue.I suspect she "needs" you for menial work at home and as company inside the home. She has fears of losing you and being alone or without help at home. The negative talk is to ensure you do not have the self-esteem and confidence to grow and become successful in life. I wont waste time in thinking she would change, most people who allow negative mindsets to dominate even after Uranus opposition at age 42-44, they cannot change their thinking till perhaps a second saturn Return at age 59. It is you who must change now. You have to bolster your talents, boost your self-esteem, become more and more employable in any area and move out. You must equip your Mind to be focused and ready to work even in a foreign country like Taiwan, UK, Brazil, Germany, Dubai etc. You have the greatest gift in the world, a US Passport, which means no Visa problems. If you give me your natal chart details, we can find out more of your core strengths. Staying back with mom just because of difficult situations will stunt and cripple you as a person. ------------------ http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html Readings IP: Logged |
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Newport, NC, US Registered: Jul 2010
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posted August 27, 2010 11:10 AM
my natal chart info is: 11-19-1989 6:08 am Cherry Point, North Carolina i have the chart itsself posted this info is very helpful to me, thanks bunches------------------ We have eyes yet we do not see IP: Logged | |