posted August 24, 2010 07:21 AM
Just a few quick observations:His Saturn exactly conjunct your DESC: this is probably a very karmic connection; could make a relationship very binding (sometimes to the point of being stifling); since Saturn is the Lord of Karma, it may mean that you have come together for a purpose, for learning something, though it is not said that the lesson will be a pleasant one.
This conjunction looks pretty isolated though, unless for your Mercury sextile it, so it probably is up to you to keep communicative lines open.
Your Moon is pretty isolated, except for a wide square to his Mercury - makes me think of possible misunderstanding and you might sometimes feel hurt, when he reacts logical or through his mind, if you need a more emotional exchange
Your Venus opposes his Neptune - with this aspect I would be extrea careful to really hear and see what is REALLY going on. The Venus person often projects too much romanticism and hopes onto the Neptune person, thinking of him as her one true soulmate. But Neptune often cannot fulfill the expectations. Also, Venus usually wants a more personal romantic relationship, while Neptune, though compassionate and also emotionally involved, is more on the platonic, spiritual side.
In worst case scenario Neptune can dazzle, blind and mislead Venus completely.
Your Venus trines his Pluto exact, there is harmonious intensity and passion.
His Sun squares your Jupiter - too much enthusiasm? You are supportive, but maybe too much?
Seeing him in a too rosy light?
Or do your philosophical views clash with his sober Virgoanness?
His Sun trine your Mars seems to be a nice productive aspect; harmonious enthusiasm, probably also adding to your sensual (earth sign) attraction to him.
His Venus trine your Sun - looks harmonious and affective too. I think it is rather positive that both Sunīs are aspected by Venus and Mars-respectively. You could fit well into each other`s "ideal-man/woman".
Since it is a trine, it may not be experienced very strongly, but in a harmonious, balanced way. It might not be the reason for the attraction, but add to a basic compatibility.
Not sure if it is enough for a lasting attraction though.
Anyway, you could add the asteroids:
KARMA (3811), JUNO (3), CERES (1), AMOR (1221), PSYCHE (16), VALENTINE (447), EROS (433), APHRODITE (1388), LUST (4386) and NESSUS (7066) into your charts. SEe what aspects within 2 degrees come up.