posted August 24, 2010 02:31 PM
I am very sorry about you being dumped.I also want to add that a good synastry doesn't guarantee a lifelong relationship.
I had a good synastry with my exgf Meghann,and she dumped me April 2, 2008. That was the last time I heard from her.
Free will is the ultimate factor.
your Solar Return has a t-square which suggest emotional,intimacy issues which could reflect your breakup. Your Venus trine Ascendant and Juno conjunct the Imum Coeli suggest the possibility of a new relationship.
A lot of people think that they have good synastry, but they tend to overlook certain aspects...even a t-square.
take for instance in my own synastry with Meghann
My Ceres forms a t-square her Venus square Ceres.
I didn't think that it was important. Mainstream astrologers wouldn't think it was important. Ceres is very highly underrated in Astrology.
Now, Ceres is Pluto's equal in Astronomy now. They are both classed as dwarf planets. Ceres is 950 km in diameter. No asteroid comes close to that size. Technically, Ceres may not even be an asteroid. It's now being theorized to come from the kuiper belt that Pluto is part of and even may have been one object with Pluto. Ceres has a very similar composition as Pluto.
as you see, Ceres is no mere asteroid even though mainstream astrologers treat it like that. Ceres gets a lot less respect than Chiron which is almost 3 times smaller than Ceres.
any ways...now I realized how much of a challenge that Venus,Ceres,Ceres t-square was with Meghann. Her attachment to her man-disliking mother was a big factor in the problems in our relationship. That fits right in with that t-square.
A lot of men are jerks and treat women like crap any way. It is said males aren't even naturally suitable for monogamy because of their high levels of testosterone. The higher the testosterone levels, the less likely that males will be monogamous - that's what science says. Most women are drawn to men with big penises. There is nothing wrong with that. That's just human nature. Scientists say that men that are more feminine actually settle down and more monogamous and viewed as more of suitable parent by women. The problem is that these feminine men aren't often viewed as romantic partners. There is a natural attraction of females being attracted to "bad boys" and reject the nice guys that seem to finish last. In mythology, Aphrodite/Venus loved Ares/Mars instead of Hephaestus/Vulcan. What goes on in society seems mirror that mythology. That's just my view.
I really don't think that it's all about Astrology. I think that there other factors like genetics and socioeconomics.
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