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vertiver
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posted August 27, 2010 05:32 PM
 
I just got recently dumped and I realized that T. Saturn is exactly square natal Chiron in the 7th house. Does anyone have any experieces with this transit? And luckily now that Saturn is out of Virgo its no longer squaring my natal Venus, but my Venus is widely conjunct Chiron in the 7th. Venus also rules my 5th H. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted August 27, 2010 05:38 PM
T. Cere is also oposite natal Venus and T. Jupiter and Uranus are also square natal Venus as well... And T. Saturn quincunx Moon... IP: Logged |
Peri
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posted August 27, 2010 05:39 PM
my sympathy, vertiver  ughh I am having tr. Saturn opposition Venus/Mars in October 2010 and then again in July 2011, cannot say I am looking forward to it  IP: Logged |
electricmind
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posted August 27, 2010 05:39 PM
the 7th house is generally parts of our self that we reject.i have found that overcoming rejection or fear of rejection starts with self acceptance. meaning one must accept the qualities signified by the sign on the 7th house cusp as parts of oneself that you have rejected or accepting that you truly do desire those qualities in others and its not a bad thing. IP: Logged |
electricmind
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posted August 27, 2010 05:42 PM
T saturn is perfecting its square to my ascendent (just about 20 minutes or so away) and just 2 degrees from opposing my natal moon which is my 7th house ruler. i have very recently come to terms with accepting parts of myself that i have seen mirrored in my relationships with others. it is quite a humbling experience.blame goes out the window with transits like these. saturn is telling us to own all of us. there are no victims and no villains. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted August 27, 2010 06:04 PM
Awwh thanks guys! Electricmind, my 7th house is in Gemini and the person who just rejected me was heavily mercurian/ Gemini, in fact his N. Moon was conjunct my Desc. Either way I attract these types, but I don't see how I would reject these traits in myself, unless it could be - not clearly communcating myself in relationships? IP: Logged |
electricmind
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posted August 27, 2010 06:26 PM
there is a level of detachment that gemini's possess where sagittarius is very impassioned. sag can be fixated on a cause, thought or idea...hence that never ending search for truth. gemini flits from idea to idea, project to project with no attachment to any of themperhaps the gem part of you requires a bit of detachment OR you tend to attract that in the 'other'. OR the issue is your ability to communicate your thoughts or feelings without being attached to them accept for in the moment. where is mercury in your chart by sign and house? i hope this helps. just a guess or speculation. ETA: also, even though geminis are detached, they are very very sensitive and may not always let on how sensitive they are. they can have a kind of bravado and confidence about them that is countered with a fragile ego. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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From: Pluto/Mars/Anywhere where someone is fighting mad
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posted August 27, 2010 06:54 PM
Sorry you are hurting Vertiver!
x o Ami
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It is either a lesson or a blessing. IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
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posted August 27, 2010 08:36 PM
I have been dumped before.All I can say is :it sucks  The worst part is jealousy for me. Why did he dump me and now dating this other girl ? I can go on for hours just thinking about this.. But it's so useless. All a person can do when it comes to relationships, is to try to look after themselves well and try to improve their personality, IMO. When I was dumped for the first time in my life, it was so awful. I had always thought love was special and I was too romantic. But then I also dumped people, and realized it was not because they weren't good enough, just because they weren't what I was looking for. Don't be afraid to fall in love again  Noone is better, we are just different and there are people who would fall in love with your 'best' self... IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
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posted August 27, 2010 10:05 PM
Chiron in 7th indicates being a "Wounded Healer" in relationships,partnerships
It can indicate healing,teaching,wounded in those areas Transiting Saturn squaring that indicates that those issues are being triggered by restrictions,limitations
Magi Society says that Transiting Saturn in hard aspect to Chiron is "Heartbreak" transit which make a person appear unfavorable and they would be heartbroken in some way. This seemed to be true in your case with the Chiron being in your 7th.
according to Solar Fire:
Transiting Saturn square natal Chiron
It is time to let go of emotional patterns which have prevented you from expressing your true self. However, the process may be painful, emotionally or physically. As a result you are particularly sensitive during this time, and need to take good care of yourself. It is possible that an event or person could upset your equilibrium. You may be introspective, pondering on childhood memories and relationships, particularly with parent figures. Although this can be a painful process, there is light at the end of the tunnel. You have the opportunity to gain new understanding of past events and move forward in your life with wisdom and insight. ------------------
No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group.
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vertiver
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posted August 28, 2010 12:22 AM
Electricmind, the thing is my Mercury is in Leo in the 8th conjunct N. Leo Sun, that sounds a bit conflicting with such a detached Desc. such at Gemini. I've come to notice as well that Gemini influences can lend a hand on egotisim and the unsettling part is it is not the obvious kind that comes with Firey egotism, its almost intellectual superiority. And Glaucus, solar fires interpretation sounds pretty spot on, now I just need to move on! IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 28, 2010 12:44 AM
I've been dumped many times and I've dumped. For me it's more easy to be dumped becase I accept it more quickly than If I dump.I've a metod who works for me. I try to not think about him. When he comes into my brain I think about something else. I consciously works with my thoughts. The metod I use works out good for me because everything I think about growth. For me it's important about what I think. IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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posted August 28, 2010 10:12 AM
Vertiver - Get a mirror!
Look into it.Say: I'm a good person! I'm young! I'm intelligent! I'm flipping hot! NEXT!!!!!!!!! Ok.. *hugs*
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vertiver
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posted August 28, 2010 01:01 PM
In my case I just think about his shaved head, which doesn't look good on a skinny dude like him. So Popcorn, that's been helping. And Dyna, you're right, finding the next person, is what I'm trying to do, but no luck so far... IP: Logged |
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