posted September 03, 2010 05:21 AM         

I was reading something in another thread that gave such an accurate description of my mother and for a split second it made me think we really don't have much control over our negative and positive qualities. Right? We are like an open book when someone has our natal chart.

What if she can't help but be like that?

It IS destined that we were going to be that way especially with the stong Moon-Neptune opposition in my chart. Her weak addictive character shows.

I think astrology makes us very aware of peoples faults due to certain aspects or planetary configurations in their chart.

What do you think?

If this shows in their natal chart then is it wrong to really hate or dislike them when they are born that way? Or to resent them for the way they act?

I really think it is very hard to overcome your chart especially when destiny is out of our hands.

posted September 03, 2010 05:42 AM         

I struggle with that with my mother ALL the time.
I go back and forth!

X O Ami
PS When you see the charts with the asteroids, that makes it worse, in a way, when Nessus etc gets in the picture

posted September 03, 2010 05:50 AM         

Remember Linda kept reminding us that “the starts incline, they do not compel”. When we know our strengths and weaknesses we can use that knowledge to improve ourselves and not just wait for ‘fate” to play out our lives.

We all have the potential to be the best we can.

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."
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posted September 03, 2010 05:57 AM         

That is area of Synastry:
people love each other or not; doesn't matter are they family, friends, lovers or any person.

I have seen when someone's planets fall in my 6th, 8th or 12th house:
there is not much love between us.
I look also aspects between me and other person.

B.

posted September 03, 2010 06:01 AM         

Ami

posted September 03, 2010 06:46 AM         

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies with in us."
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posted September 03, 2010 07:13 AM         

belgz, the icon is for something which I edited and had nothing to do with your thread in fact, that's why I edited it

sorry

posted September 03, 2010 07:16 AM         

Ami

posted September 03, 2010 07:24 AM         

You are very kind. To protect me from somebody here, has no sense.
Maybe I am troll for somebody, you never know? Maybe is somebody's Synastry with me very bad?

I do care about somebody I know, but I don't care about somebody, I don't know.

WL, B.

posted September 03, 2010 07:29 AM         

I've difficult to understand when people put up bad things on one another individual. People are so critical to there own so they often not need to puts down more. I like to see the possibilities in everyones chart and lifes.

posted September 03, 2010 08:03 AM         

I read what you wrote and I thought it was about me so I ignored it luckily. You said the poster so that was me right? Hehe.

Vig,

posted September 03, 2010 08:25 AM         

To be honest i do think there is such a thing as luck. Things have happened in my life for no obvious reason that i can determine.

Before people are born are we sit down in a room and asked where we would like to be born, to whom we would like to be born, when, what social status,wealth?

Honestly you can say its completely all by chance.

Its why i do not understand the value of patriotism, social class, rich and poor or when and where we are born.

Did we really choose to be that before hand?

In this sense life is really all you make it to be.

Its how i personally determine whats BS about humanity and what might be something real.

posted September 03, 2010 10:13 AM         

belgz, on the other hand, was the original poster so when I talked about the person and refered to him/her as "the poster", I understand that she could have been confused.

you however, I do not see how you can feel concerned?

my apologies to everyone who wrote on this thread for disrupting it

posted September 03, 2010 10:25 AM         

i will share again a quote LEXX posted in one of her threads just cos i like it.

posted September 03, 2010 11:13 AM         

So in this particular thread it mentioned how cancer combo with Aries moon would make someone who does nit like cooking or spending time with her children (something similar) and after I read that I thought maybe she can't help it, maybe that is just who she is... Just as the stars state.

There is so way I can be patient or attentive with my Gemini moon even when I'm blind drunk and sedated I am still all the characteristics of a Gemini moon. I can't just make it go away or I can't just use the positive traits without any planets in earth to stabilize me a bit. I am always restless and moving around till I get into bed.

Anyways it was just a thought but you guys are so caught up in free will and I'm not sure I believe in free will when astrology shows major events in our life very clearly. Accidents show, marriage and childbirth show, education, rewards and recognition, these are not a coincidence this was all planned out before we took our first breathe and we like zombies and robots are following through. Well that is how I feel