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Topic: Okay, when dating someone..what are astro warning signs in compositve and synastry???
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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 01:57 PM
 
Okay guys, I know some of them, but I want to know more and why! help me out here!looking for warning signs in synastry and composition....of course someone should always go on their gut, and what not, but hey...this could help too  IP: Logged |
raspberri
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From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted September 03, 2010 02:16 PM
Venus exact square Pluto isn't pretty. I was Venus he was Pluto and he was crazy. Too much to handle he was way too obsessive and just made me feel uncomfortable. Like he was going to snap or something...IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 02:37 PM
Lucifer doing anything bad to you 
x o Ami
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angel100
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From: Ireland
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posted September 03, 2010 03:48 PM
Im gonna say...and I speak with personal experience on this one....any hard venus/saturn aspects....RUN AWAY NOW......In my last relationship my saturn sat on his venus and his saturn squared my venus exactly....it was a total nightmare...I would upset him and he upset me unintentionally of course but It was just so messy and DRAINING....don't go there....IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 03:55 PM
Any hard aspect is an astrology warning sign composite and synastry because it indicates potential challenges that the couple and the relationship have with each other.How the challenges are dealt with depend on the individuals in the relationship. Things like one's evolutionary stage, maturity,and the choices that the individuals make are factors. Socieconomic factors and the environment definitely factor in.
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 03:59 PM
If you had only easy aspects, maybe it would be brother/sister
X Ami
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DD
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posted September 03, 2010 04:00 PM
This might not be a popular opinion, but I think everyone has different "turn offs", depending on their natals.I for example CRAVE Venus-Pluto, ESPECIALLY in a square. Jeez, that insane chemistry!
Next I am defenseless towards Mars-Pluto (square or conjunction), though Iknow probably I should be running away.
What makes me run away is not the presence of a certain aspect (though Mercury square Neptune would be top of my list of candidates to run away from, or Uranus square Venus does not sound like a good idea for my poor Saturnian / Plutonian idea), but the lack of certain aspects.
No aspects to my Venus is really like a dooming factor.
But that is just me, personally, it does not have to be the same for everyone else.
But Venus is in my 1st house and rules my 5th house of romance, it`s a rather intense and serious Venus with its placement in Cappy and its square to Pluto and MC. It needs to be triggered. If that doesn`t happen in synastry, it feels very unsatisfying to me. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted September 03, 2010 04:05 PM
Moon/Pluto,in synastry, is the deepest aspect I ever experienced, I think.
Moon is so vulnerable, sensitive, integral to who you are at the deepest level.
Well, we all know Pluto 
X Ami
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comica23
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posted September 03, 2010 04:09 PM
Synastry can show compatibility, but compatibility only means compatibility, not necessarily success. It just simply means compatible flow of energies, whether the energies are positive or negative. In other words, compatibility for better or worse.Composite can show how the energies flows in a relationship. Actually, it's hard not to find hard aspects in a composite, just like it's hard to find a perfect relationship in the real life. The key, I think, is to not to idealize the good aspects and dramatize the bad aspects in a chart, and acknowledge their existence. Generally speaking, in a composite, hard aspects (conjunction/opposition/square with square being the hardest) with Saturn can show coldness and hesitation, with Uranus can show instability or independence issues, with Neptune can show deception/confusion/hidden things/idealization, and with Pluto can show selfishness/unconscious issues blocking certain parts of the relationship/sex overshadowing emotional bonds or being the main interest/control.
But then the whole chart should be analyzed before taking any conclusion anyways. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 04:39 PM
I am in 100 percent agreement with both DD and Comica.Raymond ------------------
No..I am not a Virgo. Developmental Neurodiversity Association facebook group.
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Diana
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posted September 03, 2010 04:49 PM
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Any hard aspect is an astrology warning sign composite and synastry because it indicates potential challenges that the couple and the relationship have with each other.How the challenges are dealt with depend on the individuals in the relationship. Things like one's evolutionary stage, maturity,and the choices that the individuals make are factors. Socieconomic factors and the environment definitely factor in.
Couldn't have said it better myself. I totally agree. There are no absolutes. I think we would all like a list of aspects to avoid, so we could feel safe with someone, but there aren't any. Like G said, hard aspects can point to problems, but sometimes they can be handled in a healthy manner. You really just need to watch their actions. You also need to go with your gut. I agree with dd and comica as well. IP: Logged |
mcmlxix
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: Jupiter
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 03, 2010 05:34 PM
I was in a relationship once where my Mars was opposite their Venus & Mars, and my Pluto was square their Venus & Mars. And they were all pretty tight orbs.It was was intense, sex was off the charts, and it burned hot. But it also was draining and it burned out. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted September 03, 2010 08:17 PM
Venus opposite Neptune, especially when its your Venus being hit, you get all disillusioned and believe they are the one and end up with a broken heart, it definitely doesn't help if you're already quite neptunian to begin with... IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 08:34 PM
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I was in a relationship once where my Mars was opposite their Venus & Mars, and my Pluto was square their Venus & Mars. And they were all pretty tight orbs.It was was intense, sex was off the charts, and it burned hot. But it also was draining and it burned out.
How long did it last
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted September 03, 2010 08:34 PM
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 10:08 PM
If you're turned off by mysterious/secretive types, be on-guard against persons born on the 7th or 16th. They're bad breaker-uppers.
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amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1478
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 03, 2010 11:00 PM
Personally, I never look to astrology to determine whether I should or should not be in a relationship with someone. It all depends on how one handles that energy. For instance, my Pluto was square my ex's Venus and opposite his Mars. Our relationship was intense and he was slightly cray-cray to say the least. My current boyf's Venus/Mars square my Pluto and we're fine. He's a kitty cat. I'm okay with Venus square Saturn/Uranus because I have it natally and if I date anyone my age, their Saturn/Uranus squares my Venus ALWAYS. Challenging aspects make it more exciting for me, anyhow. IP: Logged |
mcmlxix
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: Jupiter
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 03, 2010 11:23 PM
Ami...about 4 months, so I use the term relationship loosely. It didn't develop very far past the sexual dimension and got exhausting quickly.The two things we each brought to the relationship was their natal Venus conjunct Mars, and my natal Mars square Pluto...both of which can be powerful aspects in them self. I think our synastric square and oppositions to these planets pushed it over the edge. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 12:37 AM
For me it's Mercury square Mars.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 02:31 AM
Mcmixix
Can I pick your brain for informational purposes
If you don't care to answer,of course,I understand.
How long did you know each other before you had sex?
Did you THINK it was a true/real/long lasting/love until it blew up lol?
When it blew up ,did you think,"I didn't really know this person. This person was not who I thought."
During the relationship was sex the focal point so that when sex wore off, there was little else?
Did you think you had met 'The One" at the beginning? Did you feel this way until the passion wore off? Ami PS I am eagerly awaiting the answers to your questions 
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 09:15 AM
well I had venus oppose neptune in my ex's and I's chart and it was truly heart breaking, what really got me through that aspect was realizing, I don't think I really loved him anyways, but the illusion of who I THOUGHT he was...for some reason that helped. Mars square venus I can handle, just know that its there... Moon oppose saturn was hard, real hard..probably led me to finding out he was cheating.... and in our relationship chart mars oppose moon really didn't help either.
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Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 3875
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 09:18 AM
I am Venus in the Venus/Neptune opposition.
I am a Neptune girl, anyway, from my chart
Ami
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iQ
Knowflake Posts: 2082
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 11:07 AM
Unless there are exact Sun-Moon trines or Sun-Sun trines and additional Mars-Venus trines or Moon-Moon trines, avoid all men for relationships when the synastry shows within 2 degree orb:1. His Nessus conj/square your Ascendant/Sun
2. His Saturn conjunct/sq your Moon or Venus
3. His Saturn conj/square your Pluto [1 degree]
4. His Nessus conj/square your DEJANIRA or Venus
5. His Nodes or Saturn square your Saturn or Nodes Very strong VALENTINE, AMOR, Pluto-Persephone or ISIS-OSIRIS aspects, especially positive double whammies can also
mitigate the dangerous 5 aspects. There are many more adverse aspects but they can be managed. Nessus conj/sq Moon or Mars, Pluto sq Venus, Neptune opp Venus, Mercury sq Mars or Sun sq Mars for instance. If you have Pisces Moon, and have any of the 5 dangerous aspects, then even the good aspects may not adequately stave off problems. Plenty of hard work will be needed. ------------------
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 04, 2010 01:09 PM
I'm intrigued by the Venus/Neptune aspect. Can't a "relationship" with this aspect work if it were a secret liaison?IP: Logged |
letram
Knowflake Posts: 648
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posted September 04, 2010 01:49 PM
why only trines iQ?according to you then i should end my relationship.
anyway, we have venus-moon trine, and venus-moon conjunction, if you ask me, thats stronger than venus-mars, and sun-sun trines, possibly others, and with their nature to nurture and show plenty affection and pretty much 'love' in its pure form, i think they are much stronger salvagers than the aspects you listed.
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