posted September 10, 2010 01:40 AM         

Just wanted to say I think there must be something to that. A connection between the Moons in a love relationship could be more important than a connection between the Suns.

posted September 12, 2010 01:56 AM         

Anyways in that ten years he always felt like family. I don't think it's because we've been together so long I know it was like that when we met. The day I met him it felt like I knew him forever and he was so fun. Now he's old and grumpy and a big sook. Were out of sync now lol

posted September 12, 2010 04:10 AM         

My man's Sun (Aquarius) and my Sun (Virgo) don't aspect each other, but we have strong Moon contacts (his in Leo and mine in Libra).

I've never really completely understood him (Aqua-Virgo, I think he is strange ;-)), but the feeling between us is really warm, like being at home with one another (his Moon also conjuncts my ASC).

posted September 12, 2010 07:57 AM         

the natal aspects to the Moons (especially conjunctions, squares and oppositions) can cause a lot of modifications.
Also, you mentioning being "out of sync" now, makes me think of progressed Moons somehow.

I am curious.
In what signs did both your IC`s fall? As well, as the ruler of 4th house? Plus their aspects?

posted September 12, 2010 09:04 AM         

We have lots of good Sun,Mercury, Mars , Neptune and Pluto aspects but I can feel the`lack of moon.

We do not get what makes the other tick. For that reason, it could not be more than friends.

posted September 12, 2010 09:42 AM         

There is something about Moon-Moon aspects that gets too 'bogged down' in emotional issues.

The Moons I seem to like are Scorpio Moon and sometimes Pisces Moon. The sextiles work.

The trines - I haven't met a Virgo Moon so I can't comment. My bestie has Taurus Moon conjunct my Venus, but not *trine* my Moon by aspect. The only Taurus Mooner who is trine by aspect - is a person I can barely stand. He is very difficult.

The conjunction - is great! But in time we are both just too serious and depressive together.

The opposition - The only time I had this with a close friend was in highschool and we were "friends" for about six years. I can't stand her now - I have not spoken to her since and will never speak to her again in my life. Our Suns are trine - She's a Leo. But she has really betrayed my trust and started certain rumours I cannot forgive her for.

Funnily enough I found out a family member who I am very close to also has the Leo-Cancer Moon combo. This overthrew my initial perspective on Cancer Moon. Because this person is just golden.

posted September 12, 2010 11:56 AM         

My progressed moon is in Gemini and his is in Pisces.

Here is our charts so you can see the full picture.

posted September 12, 2010 01:06 PM         

Your IC is in Sagittarius with 4th house ruler in Sagittarius conjunct Uranus all on the 3rd house cusp. That explains the (restless) energy you have.
The constellations surrounding the 4th house are your "individual" Moon, so to speak.
Yours is coloured by a lot of Jupiter energy (IC in Sag, ruler of 4 in Sagittarius) and Uranus (ruler of IC conjunct Uranus), though there could be occasional some confusing Neptune influence, too (Neptune conjunct IC), though I personally have found the constellations of the ruler of the 4th house more fitting than the aspects to the cusp itself. Curiously though.

Ruler of your4th house is opposing Chiron in 12th - are you having mother problems or family problems, whose reasons are somehow "unclear", or were you getting ambiguous messages in your childhood, that you could not easily decipher, and thus it gave you the feeling you could not firmly rely on your mother / family?

(WEll, that does not have anythng to do with your sleeping pattern I guess, I just noticed it).

Ferdi`s IC is in Virgo, with its ruler in Gemini in 12th house, pretty unaspected I guess.
There seems to be an inner conflict between Mercury and Neptune in him (Gemini in 12th house), and since his pr Moon is in Pisces and TR Neptune has been on his natal Moon, the Pisces side may be more pronounced.

Of course both, Gemini and PIsces, are at odds with your Sagittarian traits in relation to 4th house matters.

posted September 12, 2010 01:12 PM         

DD, this is for you.

posted September 12, 2010 03:55 PM         

In a way I am more similiar to him than she is, and can easily understand why he does the things he does and why he reacts in a certain way at times.

There NEVER has been any kind of romantic attraction between us, just this personal similiarity; I actually met him before she did, and in the beginning, when she wasn`t all too enthusiastic about him, it was oftentimes me, who explained his behaviour to her.
Of course, though it was not HER way of emotional reaction, she has always been supportive of his (and my) emotional nature.
Her Moon is sextile his (and my) Moon. And her Moon is in 11th house which fits our Aquarius Moon.

posted September 13, 2010 03:23 AM         

My mother was a lunatic. What house is represented when I have my own family?

posted September 13, 2010 12:13 PM         

- Leo-Moon * I always attract them (as my Sun = Leo) but more than platonic was never im frage.

- Taurus-Moon * I always attract them, it seems they can technically kiss like no one else can - the tighter this opposition to my Moon the MORE feeling and the less focus on the technical glorification.
my longest love (as the only exception to the kiss-rule)

- Aquarius-Moon * my second longest love had this in square to my Moon.

- Scorp-Moon * my 2 sisters have this in conjunction to mine, I think this is enough.
@ edit; 4/5 years i was totally in love with one and almost became a stalker (how could I forget?)