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Topic: Anyone familiar with Cancer Moon?
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 765
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 21, 2010 05:53 AM
 
Yes, Gypsee, once that did happen to me and I knew it ,immediately.
The part I hate is my sensitivity to criticism and disapproval.
I am HOPING it will change as I get more self esteem.
I am thinking it will cuz when I was younger, I did not have it.When my Gemini (Sun, Merc and Venus) were more dominant than my moon which they SHOULD be, I was healthy (body and mind)
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4017
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2010 02:11 PM
Thanks for your reply, Ami.I wanted to ask some more about Cancer Mooners, but I have to go make my kids a meatloaf. I'll be back later, hopefully the topic won't be gone.  IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen
Knowflake Posts: 343
From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin
Registered: May 2010
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posted September 28, 2010 02:35 AM
Vertiver:
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That's why you are so chill, FrozenQueen
That was some pun!!!Gypsee:
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Cancer Mooners???
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4017
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2010 12:40 PM
Yes, lol, I'm glad you appreciate word play Miss Queen!!!  I've been saying Cancer Mooners forever and you are the first to comment on that. LOL. I have now unfortunately forgotten what I wanted to ask Ami, or any Cancer MoonER, but, I know it had something to do with ... errr..
Whether or not people think that a male Cancer Mooner would seek validation for self esteem through another woman.
Like.. my husband always would beam like a child if another woman complimented him, or showed him any attention.
Even though I did it for years.
Which eventually led to his unfaithfullness.I guess I was wondering how much validation does a Cancer Moon person need, and from how many sources.
Sorry if this is disjointed. I am home sick.
Hard to think and type with a spike in your head.
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 765
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 28, 2010 01:38 PM
I LOVE compliments from the opposite sex particularly about my appearance 
A female Cancer moon, IME, is very faithful in love.
For a female Cancer moon to stray, it would take more than compliments. It takes Cancer moon long time to cut their heart off from someone but once it is cut off, you live in a fortress divorced from that person no matter how close they are to you, in physical proximity.
Gypsee, I think that for him to be unfaithful, HE would have had to feel betrayed at a deep level. Did he? ------------------
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GypseeWind
Moderator Posts: 4017
From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 28, 2010 01:57 PM
If he did, it wasn't from me Ami.He had a very cold and unfeeling mother though. Honestly, he cheated through five years of dating, and why I ever married him, and thought THAT would change, IDK. But, it was a horrid awakening when I finally found out about all the cheating DURING the marriage.. *shudder* horrible. He always told me that I was 'too good' for him, and one day I'de leave him.
I think maybe his low self esteem combined with this belief led him astray. IDK. He's tried to be back together with me for about a year or so now. I'm not interested. Too much water under the bridge, and too much pain.
I could never trust him again. He says he sees the picture clearly now, and blames firstly youth, and then, a midlife crisis. Like I said, .. not interested. But, I find it strange that the three men I've loved have Cancer in their big 3.
I have Cancer IC, so, I guess maybe that is part of the draw.
Sigh.
IDK, I just know that I cannot be responsible for anyone's self esteem but my own.
Sorry if this is TMI. Cold Medicine. ETA: I think yes, about cutting the heart off. I don't think he ever did, nor has my first love (The Pisces sun/cancer moon, which was what drew me to this thread) but, nevertheless, THIS particular Cancer Moon has the ability to separate his emotions from his actions, if you know what I mean. IP: Logged | |
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