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posted September 28, 2010 02:41 AM         

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...thoughts??
I have this in a synastry with a man i'm getting to know..
we also have our nodes opposed by 2 degrees,

The karma opp pluto dw doesn't sit well with me, astrologically, but i am too close.
Plus he has Mars conj Saturn in Scorpio, direct.

Ok, I have mars conj saturn (an aspect of anger) but mine is in Libra, plus they're Rx so it's not full outer force, and my tendency is to turn the anger inwards, resulting in depressions (it's dispositor is Venus in Capricorn conj Moon square Mars/Saturn/Pluto).
I know someone with the conj in Cancer, v.passive agressive, no aggression outwards the way youd think. Dispositor is Moon in Pisces, oh mannn he cannot detach for anything, very woe-is-me type when down for the count.
Another with the conj in Aquarius, who as you'd think, places a lot of energy in ire of govt and distributes anti-govt material on a mass, weekly basis. Dispositor is Uranus in Leo, and yes, his regard for authority is practically nil and it's part of his "persona", or how he likes to shine i should say, since he takes a certain playful pride in it.
Another with the conj in Leo, this is my baby, and in short she is a "wild cat", they're not Rx so she's quite untamed. Dispositor is Sun in Gemini, so she's playful with it, but she still acts like a mad cat and *will bite* wayyy past the age that it's appropriate.

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posted September 28, 2010 03:39 AM         

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Your daughter has "astrologically inherited" the Mars-Saturn aspect from you.

Pluto-Karma double whammy with a guy where Nodes are opposed, well that is a lot of mutual past life hurts. You two could literally have slit each others throats as soldiers in some ancient lifelines.

It is best to release such karma mentally than to re-live the experiences in the modern sophisticated way.

Ask yourself why you are not attracting the guys with many trines in synastry. Why not a Pluto trine KARMA doubel whammy for instance?
The Law of Attraction can be used for your benefit by raising your own self esteem and self worth feelings. If you dont raise your vibration, the default Law of Attraction is attracting only the natal chart aspects felt emotionally by you, which in this case is Mars conj Saturn.

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posted September 28, 2010 03:49 AM         

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Thank you for that, IQ. It is very uplifting

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posted September 28, 2010 04:29 AM         

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thank you, iQ. something about the connection doesn't sit well with me, but i'm attracted to it..so i have 2 side battling it out right now. it's just 'getting to know you' at the moment, so i'm waiting to see what more my intuition tells me about the matter..

the throat slitting is an interesting angle, as i looked at it all and thought 'murder' esp since my mars saturn conj is square to both of our nodal axis.

and yes, i've seen the mars conj saturn
'law of attraction' at work....we bond by dismissing the incompetence of those surrounding us as we are very hard workers, lol. it's like a hobby, cos we can't understand other people who can't put their nose to the grindstone and get on with it.

and you're right, more trines in synastry would be lovely however my chart is quite adverse, and i tend to, attract/be attracted to, aspects that turn it into a grand cross.

ty again for responding,
you seem to be feeling better (?)

p.s. iQ, the number of 'easy' aspects in my chart is paltry,
-sun trine pluto /sextile neptune (out of sign)
-moon conj venus
-mercury sextile uranus
-neptune trine mc
-neptune sextile pluto
-uranus trine asc
...so it's not as if i have significant positive aspects to draw on, if i'm reading you correctly..not to say that i don't have positive traits, i'm just talking chart-wise re:attracting mars/saturn.

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posted September 28, 2010 08:48 AM         

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posted September 29, 2010 04:09 AM         

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<< you seem to be feeling better >>
A bit yes, but I have a few more days of "Auto Pilot" living before I get that inner zest to be explosive again.

Mars conj Saturn and Mars sq Saturn, two very difficult aspects. I have Mars sq Saturn and can relate to your life experiences.

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posted September 29, 2010 05:23 AM         

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iQ
It's funny you mention zest, I do see the Aries in you.

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posted September 29, 2010 05:50 AM         

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Exactly
The Aries Ascendant Genie is currently bottled up till the exact Transit Nodal T-Square and Transit Saturn conjunction attack on my Natal Moon resolves itself. In ancient times, I would have taken a vow of silence, then locked myself in a Temple ( Without a "Vesta" for comfort... )

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