posted September 28, 2010 09:33 PM            

tMars, tVenus, tEros and tSiva all in Scorpio. They are about to hit my very full 1st house which has nMars, nEros, nSiva. They have already hit my AC and Jupiter. This is the song I have on repeat due to this.

posted September 28, 2010 09:45 PM            

I was just listening to that song a few minutes ago.

posted September 28, 2010 11:27 PM            

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LEXX - yeah, it is kinda sad, but it's also liberating because it is admitting and embracing rejection/ or embracing desire.

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posted September 29, 2010 12:22 AM            

About the song- it's lovely but not my rejection song

My fav rejection/post break-up songs :

ace of base- don't turn around
no doubt- don't speak
bjork- hunter
bjork- bachelorette

lol

posted September 29, 2010 12:58 AM            

especially...

posted September 29, 2010 03:13 AM            

It is an unworkable situation to push a guy.
As I come out of numb, I am seeing that there are certain rules or laws of human nature.
When you are numb, you can't see anything right so I am just seeing this.

One is this one. He is what he is i.e a Pisces, off and on, etc ,etc.

You will not change any of that. Can you live with it as it is ?
Is he WORTH it to endure his "ways"?

That is the question you need to answer, IMO.
Other people on the Pisces thread were in a similar situation.
One person decided it was not worth it, at last count lol
(Forgive me for laughing but I laugh WITH you, not at you lol)

Racole, IF you could get him to move faster by asking him, "demanding",pushing, I would say "do it".
However, *I* think you should totally back off.
He has to make the moves cuz it is a law of human nature that the guy must make the moves.
If not, the relationship won't have the right foundation.
This is my opinion and experience.Others may feel differently and I don't wish to argue.
Anyway, I wanted to share it ,Racole, cuz I think you will push him away again if you go in the direction you are.
A guy is an "As is" person as we are. The "as is" for him includes major flakiness lol
Your only hope for the movement to the NEXT step which I know is what you want---is to pull away and let him chase you.
You emasculate him ,too, when you chase.
I know woman might get mad at my saying this.
I don't wish to argue the point with anyone,as I have said.
If someone cares to discuss it in a respectful way, I am game.
Ami

PS Where are each of your Venus's? A male's Venus in Aries violates the " no chase " rule a bit LOL

posted September 29, 2010 08:42 AM            

If you want to e mail me or go on msn, we can talk more.
I think you need someone to help you,guide you, who is objective.
It is a sticky situation with him being so Pisces like.
You have to use a lot of wisdom right now so it does not revert back to a LONG stretch without him.

Sorry for hijacking the thread, Unmoved.
I will talk by e mail to Racole if she wants to.

posted September 29, 2010 02:20 PM            

I'm glad I emailed him. I needed to get it off my chest AND I actually slept last night. Him and I made a commitment that we wouldn't hold back our feelings. Anyway, the reason why I was inspired to email him was b/c when we saw each other last week he express all these feelings and emotions about me. What did I do? Nothing... I was shocked and didn't respond. So, the email was responding to what he expressed... allowing him to know I felt the same.