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Topic: Past Lovers
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FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:25 AM
Three days since Venus went stat at 13Sco13 and three lovers have called up to the point of obsession. In each case, things didn't end up good, being downright messy at times, so it is pretty weird when they want to reconnect. I've said no to all three while feeling like a major bad*ss for the abrupt call drops.Here's my transits. Would love to get this analysed ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 1358 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:31 AM
You and that beautiful Diablo complaining about such things ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:31 AM
I've used the following asteroids, all related to attraction in one way or other.Eros Psyche Amor Valentine Isis Osiris I initially didn't want to include Isis/Osiris but eventually gave in to my rational mind to weigh all options ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 1358 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:32 AM
JUST kidding, Frozen Queen ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:34 AM
What's with the eye-roll, Ami?? Past should be past or it won't be past ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 1358 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 11:37 AM
Just getting some comic relief in the game of life, Frozen Queen ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1652 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 02:29 PM
Ceres is also sometimes connected with the return of someone from the past, you have tr.Ceres conj Uranus/Saturn right now, also I think Chiron/Neptune on your Vertex also have something to do with it.IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 15 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 03:08 PM
Hey, you guys, I couldn't help but notice that I posted my question at about the same time about 4 other people posted their questions, and they have gotten up to 11 responses individually, while I am still at zero. Is it a click thing? Do you only respond to "regulars" on this message board? Would I be better off taking my question somewhere else?Not trying to be sassy. Just genuinely wondering. I posted here before and also received zero responses at that time as well. Just seeing a pattern and wonder if I should go elsewhere. Thank you! IP: Logged |
venus in gemini Knowflake Posts: 778 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 03:13 PM
Venus Retrograde can typically bring back past loves. But the South Node is sitting right on your Chiron, so they are asking you to look at your experiences with these men, and heal the wound. Either around men, or relationships in general. The universe didn't just send you one man back, they sent you three men!This is from "Lunar Nodes" by Celeste Teal: The South Node cleans house. The energy of this node is like an evacuation tube, where we work through things and come clean, easing the load. The South Node acts like a drain, relieving you of old burdens and residue that are casting a shadow over your soul. Once the South Node has transited a planet or a house, you have a new clean slate in those matters. It is quite normal for your to experience some losses. There is always some karmic balancing going on with the South Node transit, and the best way to handle it is to make willing sacrifices and remain low-key. If in any situation there is a debt still owed on debts that must be paid in this lifetime, the universe will hook you up with the right circumstances, experiences, or people to ensure you get the chance to wash away the old karmic residue. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1652 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 03:20 PM
hey britterfly and welcome to LL It is not about whether you are a newbie or a regular, it is more about your question, sometimes people just don't know how to answer your question or don't have any insights at the moment etc it is not 'personal' so please stay IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 04:18 PM
It felt more like the Universe was playing 'Deal or No Deal' with me I didn't feel any specific emotions for them except for generalised confusion and the 'what are you calling me up for?' thing. At other times, it felt as if the Universe is giving me a chance to go back and get a relationship, more like tempting me to fall into my old ways because all of a sudden, I'm popular and wanted, so I can just go back and be happy. Transit AMOR is conjunct my natal EROS and transit EROS/Mars conjuncts natal Sun/Moon so attracting people is not difficult for me now. Only thing is, I don't want a thousand relationships that go nowhere. Just being my sentimental self here ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 08:08 PM
quote: It felt more like the Universe was playing 'Deal or No Deal' with meI didn't feel any specific emotions for them except for generalised confusion and the 'what are you calling me up for?' thing.
I UNDERSTAND. It never fails... Venus retrograde occurs, and someone tries to contact me. The text du jour is: "Oh, not much. I did get married which I don't think I should have done, but oh well." This was from a guy that I went knew very briefly and who hasn't talked to me in about a year. First, I had the best belly laugh that I've had in a long time and then I responded to his text. I didn't say it like this, but I was thinking: "Why THE HELL are you contacting me?" quote: Only thing is, I don't want a thousand relationships that go nowhere.
DITTO. I think that Venus retrograde usually brings that fact into a harsh light for me. quote: Just getting some comic relief in the game of life, Frozen Queen
I know I definitely am getting some comic relief. Most of the time when Venus goes retro, I feel like getting the popcorn bowl out and finding a good spot on the couch to watch the chaos. Anyway, sorry I don't really have any insights for you as to the transits right at this moment, Frozenqueen, but I can commiserate. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine Knowflake Posts: 940 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 08:26 PM
Holy Moly!! Is that what's going on?A past lover texted me yesterday asking what he could have done to harm our friendship. It's a long story, but I don't hate him. I just had to cease communication with him for a while. I sent him an email telling him so. I'm still not ready to communicate with him, but I hope he feels better knowing that I don't dislike him, I just had to set a boundary for myself. Wow! Venus is stationary and already the old lovers are coming out of the woodwork. Very interesting... I know one or two I'd like to see again. I hope they show themselves... IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 631 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 09, 2010 09:50 PM
I've had now 3 ex's contact me in the last week... (Venus in Retro) IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2130 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 09, 2010 10:03 PM
I haven't had any come back. THANK GOD!!! For everyone that has: Is it hitting planets in your chart like the OP? It's actually within orb of my DC, so you'd expect....shh! That SN excerpt was cool. IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 10, 2010 02:53 AM
Enchantress: quote: Most of the time when Venus goes retro, I feel like getting the popcorn bowl out and finding a good spot on the couch to watch the chaos.
Had I not known the transits, I would have laughed my head off at what was happening but I did it anyway quote: Anyway, sorry I don't really have any insights for you as to the transits right at this moment, Frozenqueen, but I can commiserate.
Commiseration is good like I always say: all opinions are welcome! Geo: quote: Holy Moly!! Is that what's going on?
This had me clutching my stomach racole: Join the club Diana: All I can say is fingers crossed ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 729 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 10, 2010 12:14 PM
This too shall pass FrozenQueen and the moon may be singing this song... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aX1PwkgwsG0&feature=related IP: Logged |
mermaid26 Knowflake Posts: 729 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 10, 2010 12:30 PM
FrozenQueen, I have a hypnotherapist acquaintance w/ Sun/Moon in Capricorn exact degree within seconds. She was asking me if I was moon sensitive and I said he** yes as I'm highly HSP. Anyway, she's trying to develop a personal remedy with Bach flower essences and such to ease these shifts.IP: Logged |
FrozenQueen Knowflake Posts: 392 From: The boundary where 'reality' ends and Dreams begin Registered: May 2010
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posted October 11, 2010 03:29 PM
One has to find their own medicine but good advice nonetheless ------------------ Kill me once, kill me twice, For all I care, kill me thrice No matter what you do, I will survive, Oh Baby, the cat has nine lives ♥ IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 631 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted October 11, 2010 03:42 PM
What it is hitting in my chart....Conj to my own Venus (ruler of my 5th AND 12th) Square Jupiter (in 2nd, ruler of my 7th) Conj Uranus (in 5th, ruler of 9th) Opposite Moon (in 11th/12th, ruler of 2nd) Square my Juno (in 9th) and it's roaming in my 5th... my 5th/11th houses are the biggest of all my houses, and will be in my 5th the whole time. Plus, also Venus rules my 12th... IP: Logged |