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Topic: Is there something in your chart that brings out aggression in men?
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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 12, 2010 04:31 PM
 
Okay, I have always had situations where I somehow manage to bring out the agression or forwardness in guys. Ex. I went to the car dealership to get my car fixed, and they said there might be a inspection fee that my warrenty won't cover, and I said, I honestly can't afford that right now. The guy said, "ah, that's alright...I'll take care of it and you can take me out to dinner.." or when I picked up my phone today...answering a call from a guy that wanted to date me, but I told him I'm too much of a hot mess to be messing with me, he starts gushing at me about how much he has a crush on me..very forcefully to the point where I was speechless. There are other examples but yeah. NO, I DON'T THINK I AM ALL THAT AND MORE!!!!!!!!!! I really don't. Anyways, I read somewhere that an unaspected mars can do that. but it looks like my asendant does...just curious if there is something in my chart that does that.
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1518
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 12, 2010 04:50 PM
Look up your Dejaneria, Seelah.IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 12, 2010 04:58 PM
okay!!!!!! hang tight...do you want to repost my chart totally too?
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
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posted October 12, 2010 05:06 PM
it's at 27 degree sag in my 5th house...opposing moon and jupiter by 4 degrees...does that help?IP: Logged |
LadyAries*
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From: Saturn
Registered: Jul 2010
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posted October 12, 2010 05:12 PM
Venus in Gemini can make one very, very charming and most of the time you're not trying to be. I have that placement and a lot of men are forward with me. That could be a part of it..IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 12, 2010 05:17 PM
You have Pluto trine Venus. Watch out  ------------------
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Diana
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posted October 12, 2010 05:26 PM
You have mars conjunct algol. I wonder if it's that. It seriously could be. Is your p. mars conjunct n.venus? Or opposite n. neptune or conjunct n. jupiter? That could do it too.
You're also probably all that. 
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 12, 2010 05:52 PM
What does Mars conjunct Algol do, Diana  ------------------
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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
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posted October 12, 2010 05:54 PM
well here it is..the progressed chart with transits...  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 12, 2010 08:13 PM
You have moon in Cancer at 0 degree which is the strongest degree.
Moon in Cancer is known as a very feminine woman who appears (or is) fragile.
I have it so I can say from authority that it is right You and I have Gemini Venus's in exact conjunction .
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Diana
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posted October 12, 2010 08:15 PM
You have p. mars conjunct n. jup. So that could be making men notice you more. I didn't really look at the charts, because I am sick, sorry. Ami- It would emphasize mars for good or bad. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 12, 2010 08:23 PM
Hope you feel better, Diana. I want to send you healing energy  ------------------
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 12, 2010 08:59 PM
Diana, thanks for taking a peek period! maybe if or when you feel better...hum...cancer moon at 0 huh? the most femine moon..the most girlie of all feelings  Ami, awh...our venus conjunct IP: Logged |
scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 406
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 01:31 AM
I bring out aggression in men. I have sun conj pluto and scorpio desc with mars uranus conj in 7th. Also venus parallel pluto..IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 02:33 AM
How does the Cancer moon feel to you, Seelah,if you can say?
Yes, we have an exact Venus conjunction.I wonder how it would feel to be friends with someone with an exact Venus conjunction lol
You feel "soft" to me. By that, I mean ,not a harsh person ,like a soft blanket lol.
Did you say you teach special ed?
If so, that would fit  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted October 13, 2010 02:44 AM
Wow Scrappy
Do those placements bring out anger in men? How do they work in that way?------------------
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Lonake
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posted October 13, 2010 02:49 AM
Nope. I don't think it's your Mars.
It looks like it's your Dsc ruler, Uranus, in the 4th (it's like Moon/Uranus, but not quite) in a square to your Merc conj the Asc.
Yikes, get used to it.
They're playing out that part of you that has strange sudden reactions that lead to you saying things you later regret. So...if they sound a bit over the top, at least you can know that later they're second guessing their admissions And at least it's Uranus, cos that means they're honest. Betcha you're glad now it's not Neptune! haha
Ooh but you have Neptune in 5th opp Venus..looks like you lead yourself into disillusionment here, especially regarding your charms/attractiveness. So be more aware of this for future. Scratch what I said before about not attracting 'creative thinkers' because you could polarize yourself against them..you're easily seduced so..I dunno.... lean hard on the Merc conj Saturn to see through their bs.
But anyway, I don't see aggressive men in your chart, I see maybe foot in mouth disease, radical honesty advocates, recluses, sensual tyrants, and serial seducers, oh and stubborn mfr's.IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 13, 2010 03:27 AM
Seeleah. Your merk conj AC in square to uranus brings crushing and hard reply and not everyone can take it.I got a malicious tongue sometimes. I've merk conj uranus conj pluto in square to moon which bring out aggression in both men and women. Men almost always be good friend to me after a while and when people know me they can take it. Women not so easy take my reply when I show them. For me it's easy to bring the feelings of aggression out of people if I want.
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 10:14 PM
yeah my venus opp neptune is a real ***** to be honest with you. However, I do notice that it is one of the things that helps me with my creativity. how does it feel to have a cancer moon 0 degrees? well it doesn't help that jupiter conjuncts it! *laughs* highly very emotional. emotionally high maintance! it's something I am discovering in myself, that I have to have a release for all these feelings or I will go crazy. I used to use friends and lovers to help me with this, but lately this year I realized that is just not healthy for them or for me or for my relationships..too much. So I have been using my artwork, the problem is...I never have as much time to do artwork as I need to keep up with all the feelings! lol. as for attracting weirdos...yeap.
I tend to do that.
but the strange thing is..I never have ever been in a relationship with ANY aquarius..tho it rules my 7th..not sure why...just never have. IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 10:18 PM
oh and I did have a synastry similar to what one of you posted...they had their pluto square my sun...
and his mars conjunct my uranus... there were some other things...like his venus tightly conjunct my ascendant.. that whole things went down badly..
he was extremely aggressive with me. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1518
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 14, 2010 02:53 AM
Can I ask you a question, Seelah?
It is unrelated to this topic.I am reading a book on empty houses. I have an empty 11th.
It says if you have a full 11th you NEED group activities and a social life which is like an 11th house social life.
For example, you need people with more of a friendship than a deeper intimacy--only talking 11th here--now. Is that true? I have nothing in 3rd(relatives ) and 11th(social friends) but Venus in 7th. It said the relationships I will seek and need will be a few people who are intensely close to me.
I, always.have this. I try,sometimes ,to be a more group oriented person or even to foster relationships which are more superficial cuz I feel I "should' but I let them go cuz I am not interested. I would rather do an activity such as learn a language or get better at music than talk about things that seem "superficial" to me. I don't enjoy it.It is not a "value" judgment. It does not hold much interest for me.
I have a packed 8th house.Maybe ,that is part of my liking intensity.
Yes, it is lol
I am gonna do a thread on empty houses after I read the book a little more.
It is fascinating.
I noticed the 11th house and wanted to ask.
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 295
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 14, 2010 04:18 PM
Okay, yeah...I'm a bit 11th house heavy.Yes, friends are VERY important to me. If I didn't have some of those cancer placements, I think I would be very very very superficial, but with them, I'm not. I love my friends very much and would do anything for them if possible. They very much take care of me as I try to take care of them. Example, one of my girlfriends had to have emergency surgery and she is going through a horrible divorce...so her soon to be ex husband won't help her out with grocery shopping for her and the kids, help her run errands and she can't drive. So I spent my entire saturday with her doing errands and moving furniture...with my ex boyfriend that wanted to see me sooooo bad (venus retrograde) and we are together, not sure if it is gonna last, not sure if he really cheated on me or not...but time will tell won't it? I do have pluto in the 3rd and ceres. So family is extremely important for me. I think those are the ONLY houses that have several planets in them. My ex boyfriend is very 10th house heavy and yes, work rules his life....so idk. Oh and I forgot to answer what I teach..I teach ARt, and I love my special education students, art for them is usually a place of solitidue IP: Logged |
scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 406
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 14, 2010 04:28 PM
I think they work by attracting dark, aggressive types of men to me in the first place Ami, not sure if they actually bring out the anger or if the men just have a propensity to act like that in the first place.IP: Logged |
alanabelle86
Knowflake Posts: 27
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 15, 2010 08:07 AM
Do you have any Mars squares/oppositions? According to Celeste Teal, and I've found this to be true for myself, women with Mars squares can manifest the energy in a number of ways one of which includes projection. This projection can by bringing out the "worst" of even the best men. I have Mars square Pluto, and I know this type of energy-response far too well.------------------
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1518
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 15, 2010 08:11 AM
I was thinking that the principle of 'If YOU don't own your Pluto, you will meet him from the outside" might be at play.
What do you think? I have only easy Pluto aspects(`sextiles trine, conjunct the MC).
However, I met him from the outside,too.
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