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Topic: sun conjunct moon in synastry
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scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 409
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 01:29 AM
 
I have my moon conj my new man's sun in cappy 0 deg. I have never felt felt such an instant and intense connection nor have i ever felt submissive to any man before, but i do a bit now, i'm confused. His saturn is also conj my asc and his venus conj my uranus 0 deg, it's like he is the other half of me. Has anyone experienced this in synastry with another?IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2372
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 01:48 AM
I hate someones sun on my moon. Stay away from my moon!!  Saturn conjunct my ascendant I actually like and have shared the longest bonds with these people. IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 592
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 02:38 AM
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I hate someones sun on my moon. Stay away from my moon!!
But that's our bond, and we get on great.  I have mixed emotions about this aspect. I have Sun oppose Moon in the natal chart, so an aspect to either will switch me on high alert. As the moon person I get on flawlessly with the Sun sign. As the Sun person, I bump heads with the moon because, I'm touchy, and they're opposing my moon sign. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 02:48 AM
I want to ask a question,if I can. In my synastry, there is not a lot of personal planet attachment.
I am trying to find it.
I just realized we have My Mercury Sextile his moon(1 degree)
My Sun sextiles his moon(8 degree).
Would 8 degree count?I can't answer for synastry with sun conjunct moon cuz I have never had it.
Are you saying that OTHER Sun/moon aspects would be different but the conjunction is just too close, Belgz, like someone crowding you on an elevator ?
Your synastry sounds awesome, Scrappy. it sounds solid.
I am glad you feel that way with him 
You have shared about your past. When our past is painful , a solid sense with someone is needed!
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Benedict Moon*
Knowflake Posts: 1321
From: Avendesora
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 06:25 AM
Its got to be better than someone's sun squaring your moon....that aspect drives me crazy and I've been the moon in that configuration three times already. Sun expects a bond and 100% emotional support from you but gives SQUAT in return. Nothing more one sided than that. IP: Logged |
mir
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Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 06:42 AM
Yes I experienced it lots of times.. but.. with the clear difference that when *I* was the Moon I could see the Sun as my partner.
But when *I* was the Sun I definitely couldn't because I felt myself too much 'man/masculine' then - but well, they are/were the very best platonic friends!I never forget this short affair I had with a guy I shared a DW Sun/Moon with
His Sun conj my Moon (2)
My Sun square his Moon (0) The second most noticable aspect between us was a Venus/Uranus conjunction (0) - my Uranus. I began to hate him within a few weeks.. terrible! IP: Logged |
soulful122
Knowflake Posts: 137
From: Heaven & Hell
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 07:23 AM
I had my Moon conjunct my recent ex's Sun, by 3°. Another ex I had a tighter conj with but felt nothing near how strongly I felt towards the 3° ex. Ruler of my 7th, conj his ASC, and ruler of his 5th, conj my ASC, maybe that's why. We had lots of the traditional 'good' aspects in synastry too.In composite, my natal Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts composite Sun, while his natal Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts composite Moon. It explains why I always felt like I was the guy in the relationship and he was my man-lady LOL. Most of the time, I was the one leading. IP: Logged |
Shankara
Knowflake Posts: 254
From: Buffalo, NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 08:29 AM
I love it! My Sun conjunct my bf's Moon by 1.5' and I've never felt such a strong bond with anyone. Actually, it just grows and grows. He just told me that he's never been himself around anyone (well, at least any gf) until me. We have other aspects too, but that is the major one. It's a deep soul friendship and to me that is very important. It is so 'easy' with him; we never argue and just laugh and laugh (that could be the close Jupiter-Sun/Moon, and Uranus - Sun/Moon trines and sextiles we have too though). I can honestly say I have a knowing that this man is my twin soul. I will say though with it being my Sun, I am the 'leader.' Not when we are together, then he is definitely the more masculine/dominate one, but just in terms of me being the one to lead the relationship from one stage to the next. Haven't experienced my Moon conjunct someone else's Sun though.IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1632
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 09:01 AM
I have this with one of my male roommates (we also have my Venus conjunct his Mars... jeez classic romance aspects!). We immediately got a long, but I'm not sure if it's because of my Moon conjunct his Sun or our Venus/Mars conjunction. I actually feel closer to him than to my other roommates.IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 592
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 10:28 AM
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We immediately got a long, but I'm not sure if it's because of my Moon conjunct his Sun or our Venus/Mars conjunction.
It's the Sun/Moon conjunction. Venus/Mars would've made a non-sexual roommate relationship complicated. IP: Logged |
meta_4
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 12:22 PM
Nine, quote:
I have mixed emotions about this aspect. I have Sun oppose Moon in the natal chart, so an aspect to either will switch me on high alert.As the moon person I get on flawlessly with the Sun sign. As the Sun person, I bump heads with the moon because, I'm touchy, and they're opposing my moon sign.
I have the same problem. My Sun in Leo opposes my Moon in Aqua. I've always been the Sun though-- i've never had a Leo Moon friendship, i don't think... odd... Anywho, I always find clashes with egos. Sun conjunct Moon brings us together, and fascinates us, allows room for forgiveness, etc. A general getting along... at first, then unspoken tensions build up and it just zaps you like a tazer. I find, as the Sun person, I instinctively take on the leadership role. The Moon almost becomes dependent-- what clothes should I wear, should I date this person, what do you think of this pretty picture i made???? They just need your approval on some level. I've also experienced Sun square Moon and Moon square Moon. I think I'm actually more comfortable with squares, strangely. There's a fascination and a hypersensitivity to one another. You're aware of how fragile the interaction is emotionally, and so it becomes an enthralling, but tender, thing. Both in romance and friendship. In fact, not to sound too wacky, but when i've shared these aspects with women there almost becomes an undercurrent of sexuality. Sun takes the more male role, obviously. There is a flirtation and hint of desire... ...or maybe I'm just gay, and don't know it, lol! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1576
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 12:42 PM
Meta
I confer to you a honorary doctorate from the Eigth House School of Intrepid Studies 
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Nine
Knowflake Posts: 592
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 14, 2010 12:52 AM
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I have the same problem. My Sun in Leo opposes my Moon in Aqua. I've always been the Sun though-- i've never had a Leo Moon friendship, i don't think... odd...
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Anywho, I always find clashes with egos. Sun conjunct Moon brings us together, and fascinates us, allows room for forgiveness, etc.
Yes, re: the forgiveness bit. Usually someone gets me mad and I cut them out forever. This never happens with the Sun/Moon. quote:
a general getting along... at first, then unspoken tensions build up and it just zaps you like a tazer. I find, as the Sun person, I instinctively take on the leadership role.
So you clash with Leo's or Aquas? quote:
The Moon almost becomes dependent-- what clothes should I wear, should I date this person, what do you think of this pretty picture i made???? They just need your approval on some level.
Have you paid any attention to the Progressed Moon? Is this true with your pMoon through the signs conjunct others nSun and with pMoon in Leo people?? IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 199
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 14, 2010 03:18 AM
I have this aspect with a guy and its at 1 degree...he's the sun and I'm the moon. Plus we have my Venus in Taurus conjunct his Jupiter in Taurus at 1 degree as well...so there are some nice placements overall. I'm drawn to this guy in a very strange way...I think about him ALL the time and very much so want him in my life, but he's deff not initiating ANYTHING with me, other than the other occasional "when am I going downtown to our universities bars." But I am SOOOO drawn to him its crazy. I originally thought he was sorta into me, but I told him I was into him as more than just a friend and he did nothing. And since then he hasn't actually done anything. And it doesn't help we have Pluto stuff going on lol. But it also doesn't help that I have told him multiple times I wouldn't date him. So I don't know if that changes anything AND we have an icky Saturn/Mars aspect so that probably doesn't help things. IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20
Knowflake Posts: 199
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 16, 2010 11:45 PM
I do wonder though if this aspect is felt both ways. Like I feel really drawn towards him...and I react to what he does....does he in turn react to what I do. For instance I've said to him that he was ignoring me, and he's said that I was the one ignoring him. But again this could be saturn stuff...so who knows.IP: Logged |
DD
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 17, 2010 03:36 AM
I`ve recently experienced that.
His Moon (and Sun) conjunct my Sun (and Mercury).
Fascinating aspect. Never had that before. I am fascinated by the way he seems to "see" me.
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DD
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posted October 17, 2010 03:37 AM
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GypseeWind
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From: Dayton,Ohio USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 17, 2010 03:54 AM
I love this aspect.
I am the sun, he's the moon.
And I am the dominate person, but I usually am anyway, so that doesn't bother me.What I love about it is, the 'getting you' thing. He gets me, I get him. We laugh and like the same things. We sometimes don't even have to articulate whatever is amusing to the two of us, it just takes a look and we are cracking up. I've read this is better for friendship?
But, when I've been away from him, I missed this very thing about him sooooo much.
I hated the explaining of why I thought something was funny, ironic, etc.. when with him it was just understood.
We also have Venus/Venus, and some Neptune stuff, so I guess that helps. IP: Logged |
Intensity
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 17, 2010 08:29 AM
Hi ScrappydogYep I have that aspect as well .. in scorpio at 1 degree ... I am the moon though and yes I have never been the submissive one .. this is the first time .. iam definately not leading here .. but i like it like that .. i dont think i would like it if I was the one leading .. it would feel too masculine as someone else said here! how about moon conjunct pluto? anyone else have mars/saturn conjunct pluto? IP: Logged |
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