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posted October 15, 2010 11:25 AM         

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Awhile back I posted about this guy at my job who has his moon conjunct my mars. I need advice on how to tell this person I am not interested in his advances. I know moon is sensitive and he is also a cancer sun. We have other placements that I guess this fuel his attraction to me. His Venus square my Pluto, my Venus and sun is in his 8th house. He literally tried to run over me to touch me. I don't want anyone else in the office to see his attraction to me. Any suggestions.

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posted October 15, 2010 11:49 AM         

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Preach about religion

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Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend.

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posted October 15, 2010 11:54 AM         

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Thanks Ami.

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posted October 15, 2010 12:28 PM         

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Sorry for my humor but on a serious note, I would try to make myself unattractive in SOME way so he will leave you alone.
The office will still be pleasant if he decides he does not want you.

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posted October 15, 2010 12:31 PM         

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Cancer is very tenacious. He wont give up but Chivalry is a weak point. It is best to communicate through email or chat and convey the feelings that you are feeling harassed by him even if his intentions are not such. He will understand even though he might be a 'moody baby' and try to display a sense of being emotionally upset by your "wrong notion" according to him.

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posted October 15, 2010 12:38 PM         

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Thanks IQ.

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