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Topic: Can this be done? Whats Changed?
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 15, 2010 11:42 PM
I met Gem in 1998.. On the inside is the first meeting chart... We reunited face to face last week ..Yeah I know Venus in Rx.. This meeting chart is on the outside... I did a synastry with both "first meeting" So has anything changed? Whats changed?? From the first meeting to the second meeting years later... IP: Logged |
seeleah Knowflake Posts: 307 From: kokomo, IN, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 15, 2010 11:45 PM
far from an expert, but I noticed right away the saturn conjunct juno and the juno conjunct true node...that to me means committment buddy! just saying IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 15, 2010 11:49 PM
It seems you always meet when something is rx. Merc was rx last time. How long did it last the last time?IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 15, 2010 11:52 PM
We were seeing each other for about 6 months... Wanna guess why we stopped seeing each other?? What about how the meeting charts hit our natals, does that matter?? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 15, 2010 11:55 PM
I wonder since the Asc then conjuncts the Dsc now, would that mean it would be the totally opposite.. Or the same but in a different way... Hard to figure out... Im trying to get a feel for his intentions... I really dont want to put myself out there like that again with him.... Im really leary... IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 16, 2010 12:02 AM
I am not good at thinking today, because I am still recuperating. If I had to guess, just based on merc being rx, I'd say it could have to do with communication, a lie, an argument. Merc was in leo, opposite moon, so maybe he lied about being single or maybe an ego based lie, which fits with leo. Idk... IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 16, 2010 12:11 AM
Diana.... Impressive yes... He LIED big time!! Yes he did lie about being single... So I have severe trust issues with him.. He swears up and down its different now... But IDK... Im really suspicious of him.. Now since venus is in Rx he's been coming clean about other lies from back then.. I feel like he wants to aleast make amends.. Maybe guilt? IDK.... Im going to see him again tomorrow.. but I really have my doubts about him... I just dont know if I can believe in him... He told me he wants for us to put the past in the past, and take things slow, and just see what happens...
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 16, 2010 12:57 AM
Here's what I find interesting.. then= 1998 first meeting chart (this was also within 2 mins of my solar return)now= current day reunion chart Coincidences??? Or it was just fated this way then venus conjunt mars in cancer now venus conjunct mars in scorpio then and now jupiter in rx in pisces Then IC conjuncts my natal Moon/sun/merc Now IC conjuncts his natal moon then asc conjuncts now dc Then mercy conjunt NN, it was meant that he was going to lie to me... Now NN conjuncts Pluto/Ceres.. Transformation/nurturing?? I the then 8th house
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cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 227 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 16, 2010 12:58 AM
Remember venus is rx in scorpio so even if you tried to put the past in the past, suspicion is still going to nag at you deep inside and its gonna be hard to trust his sincerity. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 16, 2010 01:07 AM
Cappy.. yeah thats true> humm something to think about... Is it the transits that are makking me suspicious or is it him/me that makes me feel that way with him.. Im going to keep this in the back of my head... I am trying to give him the benefit of the doubt... but true its very very hard... IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 16, 2010 10:53 AM
The Jupiter Return is the best clue. What he is showing you is that you still could have some unlearnt lessons over these 12 years. Just pause and think, why have you attracted the same known liar after 12 years? What is the "lie" or false belief about you that you are refusing to let go after 12 years? The charts show a need for very introspective soul searching on your part.Venus Rx is guaranteeing you misery if you give him the benefit of doubt without completing the unlearnt lessons. If you feel perfectly fine, that you have wisened up this decade and have no false beliefs or assumptions about yourself, then it just might be that he has dramatically altered his nature and that he is indeed good news for you at the moment.
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 16, 2010 11:38 AM
IQ thanks for your input.. ========================================= Just pause and think, why have you attracted the same known liar after 12 years? What is the "lie" or false belief about you that you are refusing to let go after 12 years? The charts show a need for very introspective soul searching on your part. =========================================== Im wondering how do u now its on my part since its a meeting chart? Wld it possibly be its on both our charts... I have learned things.. But I doubt I've learned everything... I am leary of the situation. So I am extremely cautious. Wondering what his true intentions are.. But I do want to find out.. sighhhhh.. IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 16, 2010 02:32 PM
Well, we cannot clap with one hand, so its a 50-50. Both have an unlearnt lesson and he is unlikely to do the soul searching as he is astrologically uninitiated. Being cautious is very good. Simplest way to know the unlearnt lesson is to make a transit chart of the given dates of 1998 and 2010 to your Natal. Check for exact conjunctions or squares and you will get the idea of what you missed. ------------------ http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html Readings IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 16, 2010 05:20 PM
At the time we met, the closes conjunct was to my sun my My natal sun is 16leo35 the sun was at 16leo33.. So it was right on my solar return at the hour we met.. hummmm Transit sun also conjunct my moon 15leo and mercury 14leo. Mostly what I see is contacts to my Leo Mars My Natal mars is 26leo13 NN was at 1virgo (too far??) eros was at 25scorp psyche 14Scorp Chiron 13Scorp Now.. Eros is at 16Scop Venus at 13Scop Mars at 15Scop Chiron at 26Aqua Jupiter at 26Pis
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iQ Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 17, 2010 01:56 PM
Well, with all that Scorpio and Leo Mars, the theme is all about sex. Maybe the Universe wants you to make happier sexual choices, or aim, plan and strive for a much better man? IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2152 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 17, 2010 02:40 PM
I'm glad I interpreted that right. I will be sure to pay attention to aspects rx planets make next time around moreso than I do now. IQ- Good one with the Jupiter rx!
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 17, 2010 08:07 PM
IQThat makes sense... Thanks... We havent done anything... So Im on track there (high five) Last night he did ask me if he could come and get me after he took his friends home... I said no.. IP: Logged |
seeleah Knowflake Posts: 307 From: kokomo, IN, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 17, 2010 08:17 PM
go girl!IP: Logged |