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posted October 17, 2010 01:50 PM         

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Blah, blah, blah, why do I always seem to chase the unavailable? Am I truly that spiritually-stupid? Must be!

So, I just met him (no syn chart, but a first meeting chart), and he's uber cute and probably goo-goo-ga-ga for my flatmate. And rightly so because she's lovely! But my insides are twinging and I NEVER let my insides twinge (Aquarius Moon, don't ya know).

So here is the first meeting chart. I'm just wondering what you see, because if they do end up dating and he's going to be around... well, my insides are going to need to stop quivering. And even if they don't date, i shouldn't think about him, 'cause, well, that's not very loyal of me (to her). Transit and life-wise I don't think I should be even looking around for a fellow. But crushes always happen when you're AVOIDING them.

It's a packed 7th house. No Mars/Venus action though. Venus is retro, in Scorpio, so she's not having fun whatsoever. She's not aspecting anything either. A Sun/Moon trine. Platonic placement, i think, which can be backed up by Amor conjunct ASC. Karma and Saturn are on the MC/DC-- super karmic. A lesson is to be learned... dammit!

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posted October 17, 2010 02:44 PM         

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I see things changing: cardinal angles on all.

Sat on 7th.

Maybe sex, because mars in 8th. Pluto on mc -- someone's reputation or career may come between. Ruler of saturn on 7th is on 10th, so same obstacles, perhaps.

A lot of 12th house activity, so there is a lot hidden that will come to the surface.

Let me know how it turns out.

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posted October 17, 2010 02:52 PM         

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Diana,

What does it mean that all the angles are in Cardinal signs? You said changes occur? Hmm..

I also feel a bit guilty even starting this thread. Moral dilemma. I don't know what is going on between the two of them- all the 12th house activity maybe?- and so i hesitate to make any sudden movements. I feel like the Universe is almost testing me on my character... and i want to succeed, but oh, to fail!

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posted October 17, 2010 02:55 PM         

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You got to England , Meta!

"Oh, to fail"
Did you SEE I gave you an Honarary Doctoral Degree from my Eighth House Studies Institution ?
You did not respond

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posted October 17, 2010 02:59 PM         

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Yes indeedy I did!

I had my documents in hand this past Tuesday-- i think that the end of the two week period you mentioned would have been Wednesday. So your intuition didn't fail you.

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posted October 17, 2010 03:01 PM         

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Thank Goodness. I was having a crisis of confidence,Girlfriend

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posted October 17, 2010 03:02 PM         

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Your confidence is restored!

Now, wiggle your fingers and in a puff of smoke, produce me an Englishman.

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posted October 17, 2010 04:31 PM         

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Cardinal angles mean the event will change.

All the 12th house stuff could be you. Is this chart erected for when you met him?

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posted October 17, 2010 04:36 PM         

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Diana,

Yes, this is the chart from when I first met him. Which was today. A few hours ago. I'm such a loser, lol.

I just feel like I'm back in junior high with this sense of infatuation.

But events will change. That's cool. Probably for the best. I'm trying to be like Julia Roberts in Eat. Pray. Love.-- send him light and love and drop it.

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posted October 17, 2010 04:40 PM         

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Oh, I thought it was their event chart. Well, it still stands and it does explain the 12th house.

the pluto/mc is so you better be careful of your reputation. If you steal him, you'll suffer publicly.

Sat 7th, ruler of 10th, same. Sat 7th says to me that their relationship will probably progress or will prevent you from having a thing with him.

Be careful of that mars in the 8th...

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posted October 17, 2010 04:43 PM         

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OK, Just cuz you restored my confidence in my intuition, I am gonna try another .

I feel combustion

PS I only do this for fellow Doctor's in my School of Eighth House Studies

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posted October 17, 2010 04:59 PM         

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Ah, well, that's no good. I've already been through the home-wrecker-ringer, and I've closed that book.

If and when they get together, I will be respectful and deal with whatever agitation my emotions conjure up. I really like her, and want her to be happy.

Mars in the 8th is potential for disaster, but only if the individuals involved maneuver their free will in that direction. Maybe Mars in the 8th will just mean I find him desireable, and Moon in the 12th will mean that I keep that to myself. Which is a reflection of right now, anyways.

Ami,

I was kidding about pushing your good thoughts my way on this subject. You just focus on you, my sweet.

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posted October 17, 2010 09:17 PM         

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If you feel so inclined ,Meta. See if you can get his natal.
I don't do first meeting charts

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posted October 18, 2010 07:14 AM         

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Don't forget the basics Meta, this is Venus Rx time. Things will return to normal once Venus goes direct. Then you can hunt your own Robert Pattinson or Gerard Butler or Daniel Craig etc

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posted October 18, 2010 07:20 AM         

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posted October 18, 2010 09:01 AM         

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iQ,

In other words, I should keeping the Lion in her cage until Venus goes direct... then I can feel free to unleash the beast!

Sounds about right. No point in rushing these things. Don't want to venture into green, green pastures only to muck it up. My Daniel Craig won't know what hit him.

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posted October 18, 2010 09:31 AM         

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Wait! Venus doesn't go direct again until November 18th! A month! What crap is that!?!

...well played Universe... well played...!

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posted October 18, 2010 09:58 AM         

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At least the month lets you take it easy instead of rushing full steam ahead (which is what I would do in England mmmmmm).

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posted October 18, 2010 01:45 PM         

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Now, wiggle your fingers and in a puff of smoke, produce me an Englishman.

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trust me,... you don't want your average englishman lol

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posted October 18, 2010 01:58 PM         

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Lara,

I knowwww!!!! I was expecting to step off the plane and be greeted by a swarm of Ralph Fiennes-s and Daniel Craigs and Ewan McGregors... but was not... They must be hiding under a rock, because the majority of men I've greeted are not Victorian Gods waiting to sweep me off me feet! They're all... human! WHAT!!!!

But then again, they probably think all American girls should look like Pamela Anderson... and I'm lacking in *her* department! LOL!

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posted October 18, 2010 02:01 PM         

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Meta
Can I e mail you?

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posted October 18, 2010 02:02 PM         

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They're all super helpful though. Very eager to lend advice, or give directions or explain this or that. They like to be considered knowledgeable, I think. To be asked questions. Gives them a sense of importance.

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posted October 18, 2010 02:02 PM         

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Ami,

Of course! I'm going to a film soon, but will answer when I return.

EDIT: TRemoved.

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posted October 18, 2010 02:08 PM         

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Cool
Thank you, Meta. Don't erase it ,yet. Have not written it down .

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posted October 18, 2010 02:13 PM         

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Ok, I got it.

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