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Lioness
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posted October 20, 2010 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
Since Venus has been in Rx I have been hearing stories from several people, about an ex contacting them out of the blue.. Since its not every ex.. I wonder how these people came up with I want that to talk to this specific person.

Possible scenerio's
1. Some one you never really got over?
2. You still have unfinished business?
3. Regrets, wanting to make amends?
4. Transits, a specific transit is going on that was going on during that relationship.. Maybe a main "theme" transit of that relationship, that originally got you together.

So what is it about Venus Rx that makes a person contact a specific person.. Obviously they are not contacting every ex. There's something about the specific ex, that makes u want to contact this person during this time...

What are you thoughts...

I will be honest here.. I did contact an ex.. I always thought about him over the years.. Wondering about him... When I checked the transits from when we met to now.. There are similarities.... So I was wondering about this..

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Tamarella
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posted October 20, 2010 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tamarella     Edit/Delete Message
oh, very interessting topic, at least for me...none of the exs contacted me yet, don`t know if they will, but contacted one of them..at the moment retro venus conj my natal moon and his moon too..this conjunction happens in my first house, so maybe that made me more proactive..honestly, i regret i did it as he didn`t contact me back...

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Spanky Butler
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posted October 20, 2010 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spanky Butler     Edit/Delete Message
Mine called me within a few hours of it going rx.

I'm Scorpio Venus & he's Scorpio Mars, lol.


I laughed my butt off when I saw the caller ID

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mir
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posted October 20, 2010 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
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I will be honest here.. I did contact an ex.. I always thought about him over the years..

Yes, the same here, regarding my tantric Libra; the most intimate intensity I ever experienced (a few times at the end of 2008/no sex).
Over the years I contacted him with a certain regularity and then we talked on the phone. A few appointments were even blown off. I always asked him the same question;
"How is your love-life?"/ "Do you have a girlfriend?"
He always answered; "No, nothing.."
So, my hope to meet him again or/and to HAVE him never totally disappeared in those two years.

I called him last Saturday (6 weeks ago I also did and then he told me he went to Poland for a few weeks, ALONE!)

Well, back to last Saturday... I called him, he had not much time and he promised to call me back that evening..
Believe it or not but within one hour after our call I was confronted with his GIRLFRIEND in a chatroom on the net! - totally 'coincidental'!
She said; "I've a relationship for 2 years with someone you probably know because he told me he once dated you."
Me(not the least presumption); "Ok, tell me.."
She; " ..."
Me; "Aaaaghhhhh I'm dying, you really mean it?? Do we talk about the SAME guy?? That bald head?? Did he go to Poland?"
She; "Yes, he did.. with me"
Me; "With you? he said he would go alone!"
She; "I feel in shock.."
Me; "He NEVER told me he HAD a g-f (well, woman, she's 15 years older than him, me 9 years) otherwise my *hope* was already gone 2 years ago!!"
She; "We practically live together.."
etc.
..
She(emotionally driven); "You may have him."

I'm Totally DONE with my tantric LIBRA!
FOREVER!
A lie is the absolute last thing I can take (and this is NO lie) and.. see what it caused! all that *hope*...)

So, an interesting effect of Venus RX!

For now I only know that T. Mars was close to our Mars/Moon-Scorp conjunction.. (he had his Mars-Return).
I will look in more detail if I have the courage


Edit @ Unbelievable, I see that MERCURY was at 22 Libra last Saturday (our definite END!), the EXACT same as it was on the day we MET (22 libra! - retro then).
(his natal Mercury = 26 libra, his Pluto = 21 libra)

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StarrofVenusGirl
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posted October 20, 2010 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarrofVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
Mine called me within a few hours of it going rx.

I'm Scorpio Venus & he's Scorpio Mars, lol.


Ditto!

He is going to be my date for a Halloween party...and Venus Rx will be back conjuncting my Venus exact again LOL. Oh boy!

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T
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posted October 20, 2010 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
i reconnected with an old flame while visiting a mutual friend the other day. It was nice to talk to him and see him and hug him again. I love him as a person still, even though I'd never get back together with him and it was a short lived romance....it's nice to be in certain people's energy field when there's a love-bond present. We are happy to be around each other and hear about the good things going on in each other's lives. Not often you find this with people, so it's nice.

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Cynnared
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posted October 20, 2010 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message
Back on Oct 8th, we went away for Thanksgiving and spent it at my Grandma's place. A friend from home is now living in the same city as my grandma.

I met this guy back in June of 1992 and I think back then I fell head over heels for him only to learn that he was not interested and I felt extremely rejected. He helped color/influence paer of who I am today - I just became one of the guys and started not caring about the man-woman relationship and what ever guy came across me I would reject him.

Back to this man. The attraction was that he had Uranus/Pluto/Mars all opposite my venus. I could feel the attraction and sexual tension there. I looked at the composite chart and there is a T square of Venus, Saturn and the Moon.....there ya go...unrequited love. (I never thought I had one of those in my life.

Anyhow back to the visit - while it was nice to see an old face again, it was also a horror for me cause these feelings of heartbreak that I had back in 1992 came rushing up and that night after the visit I felt sad. Somewhere within me when we said Goodnight....I felt sad and the reject part was there......so in a way it felt like visiting an ex and seeing his new life. (But we never went out as a couple.....no instead we just hung out like a broher and sister.

During those years back then he had a bad drinking problem and would get into fights. I knew about the fighting but the drinking I never knew about.

So I am left to process these unearthed feelings and let them go.

Last year, when I reconnected with him on Facebook - the only thing that came back for me was just how much of a big support he was to me, after my grandpa died and I was devastated. He helped me through the worst times of my life.....but the rejection feelings still remained unearthed until now.

I glad it was short visit as he drives me up the wall....a little to whiny and very emotional person.....

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belgz
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posted October 20, 2010 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
I did have the urge to call my ex for about 2 days then that urge quickly subsided when my period was over.

I'm back to being happy with my new Taurus.

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Spanky Butler
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posted October 20, 2010 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spanky Butler     Edit/Delete Message
lol

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Lioness
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posted October 20, 2010 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
Well for my ex.. He hurt me badly.. Even though I was over the hurt back then, I felt I never fully had closure... I always wondered what if... Being in contact with him again, and being near him, and hugging him again, has changed my perspective about the situation.

I know I am a much stronger person now, and there's no way I would allow him to hurt me again that way.. I have lived the last 12 years with this "no one will do that to me again" attitude.
So what have I done in the past 12 years.. When in relationships I never fully (mentally) committed, never giving myself totally out of fear... (cancer venus..lol)

Even though I was married for many years.. I never gave myself like I did with this ex...

I am glad I contacted him.. I see that it's best to leave the past in the past.. To start new beginnings, with each new person.. To not fear someone. (yeah right)
This ex he's not going anywhere.. I know he's going to be around for a while.. I know he's not going to stop contacting me... BUT I dont want to "be" with him anymore.. I'm ready to move past him and the hurt..
I can be his friend.. Which at least for now is a good idea (maybe) Its just something that needs to be done.. Cant really explain it...
(maybe its the SN contacts) So yes its time to pull away from him... But at the same time, I know he will still remain in my life, at least until the universe steps in and says nope no more...
We are still talking on the phone everyday.. but my feelings about him, have totally changed...
Who knows what will happen... All I can say is Im not sitting here wondering about him anymore What is an A+ in my book!

But dont think Im done posting about him

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Aya_and_baby
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posted October 20, 2010 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message
Well, I have recieved this thingie on Facebook a day or two ago, this application which lets your facebook friends answer questions about you, and it said that an ex of mine answered "Yes" on whether he ever had a crush on me.

Since we'd been together for almost a year I'd be more surprised if the answer would have been "No" to be honest, so I didn't think much more of it


Same day I also received a text on my phone from an unknown phone number, which did look a bit familiar to me but is not in my list anymore. Some chain-text that you have to send on to people, this one was something about sex - I must've opened it while I was half asleep because I hardly even remembered it was there... If I'm right about the phone number, it's the same ex. Still though, I don't really think much of it.


Funnily enough those two things came after I set my facebook status to single...


He's not someone I never really got over. It was pretty clear-cut. He was posessive and I wanted out as quickly as possible. He has told me since, that he'd learned his lesson, but still. It wasn't really out of the blue either that he'd contacted me, since he'd been a facebook friend for a long time now.


So I think it's all coincidence to be honest. Still striking though, those two things


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lechien
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posted October 21, 2010 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lechien     Edit/Delete Message
i see the pattern with this one person. we became casually involved when Venus was retro. every time Venus goes retro, we become involved again. last time interestingly, it was during Mars retro (in his 7th house and my 8th). i'm wondering what's gonna happen this time...

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mir
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posted October 24, 2010 06:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
Guess what..

This night I got an email from this guy, exactly at the time I had an almost excessive emotional outburst *for hours* regarding my Pisces (again it feels/seems the end of *US* - altough I know nothing for sure anymore)...

this guy.. at that time wrote me a long email that he wants to come back into my life. Unbelievable!! He wants to share so much with me .. etc. etc.
I've had a very hard time to let him go 1,5/2 years ago, and we sort of never really got over this both (I felt).

And... the most striking thing,
Natally he has (besides the fact he has Sun/Merc. in Scorp);

RETRO-Venus in Scorpio at 9'22 - Pluto at 7'44 Scorp.

(RETRO-Venus in Scorpio at the moment he wrote me; 8'27)

pfffffffft.


ps; and yes, this is the Scorp-guy/Moon-Pisces whose Nessus is exactly conj. my Ascendant/Mercury and NO, I'm not afraid.. / (my Moon is conj his Sun within 2*)

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Lioness
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posted October 24, 2010 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message
You guys try comparing your first meeting chart with the reunion chart (if u remember) see whats changed.. Whats the same.. I think the transits are similar from the then to the now.. (very interesting)
Which combined with the venus rx makes one person contact another..

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