posted October 21, 2010 07:45 PM         

This Venus in scorpio stuff is really affecting me. Can someone please look at my chart and tell me when things will get better. I'd really appreciate it.

Born 19/5/85
2:12pm
Brisbane, Australia

I fell in love with a girl in Late may knowing she was moving overseas for 2 years, i tried to back away and not get involved but the attraction was too great. Being a taurus with venus in aries in the 7th, i usually fall in love so quickly. Anyway, she flew away in mid september. I tried staying in contact and being friends, it didn’t work, i got suspicious, jealous and insecure as before she left to go overseas she told me not to push her away but not to hold her back either. She’s a libra sun. I eventually cut all contact on oct 10, as it was too painful to stay in contact with her. I still think of her everyday and can’t get her out of my head but i dare not contact her again as she has probably moved on etc, she left me a letter before she left saying she can’t wait for the future for us etc etc, which left it extremely hard for me to get closure so i had to cut contact. This venusian retrogade is bringing up all sorts os strange feelings and i have absolutely no intention of getting involved with anyone until i’m completely back to normal yet i wonder how this Venus R is affecting her?

posted October 21, 2010 09:00 PM         

one, you both are ruled by venus so yes, this will hit you both pretty hard.

Second, there was a ton of things going on in libra with the cardinal t going on, and saturn is still sitting in there, maybe even conjuncting her sun, either way with it in the same sign she is probably feeling like she is a bit limited in general (not necessarly by you)

Three, she is a libra....OF COURSE SHE IS FEELING THIS, IT HAS TO DO WITH RELATIONSHIPS AND SHE IS A LIBRA!!!!!!1 that's what they are mostly about

posted October 21, 2010 11:28 PM         

Venus Retrograde is a tricky thing, just don't fill it with re-gret (yes, that spelling is intentional)...take some time and space to deal with these "strange feelings" that are being brought up within, and then when she comes back around, and my guts says she will, you'll have something more to offer her, and your future together, than suspicion, jealousy, and insecurity.

Just my two cents.

posted October 25, 2010 08:18 AM         

I've also came to a realization this year that i'm a very emotionally in tune person and i see relationships, be it friends, business or personal, have the utmost importance to me. All i want to do and all i'm working towards is saving to travel and experience life, people and this planet for all it's worth. I just want to get away and stare at a beach somewhere far away for ages, i want to meet so many people and get lost somewhere. I know i have unfinished business to do where i am now and this has become my primary goal at the moment to finish. Once i save enough i just want to be set free, buy an open ended ticket to europe and have no plans to come back. I need to do this within the next year.