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posted October 22, 2010 01:37 AM         

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posted October 22, 2010 01:48 AM         

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I make them wait 2-3 months for sex most of the time (if I want them for long term, that is). It's just my way of weeding out the crap.

i think it looks good for you guys
For some reason, I feel you might get bored of him though, or sidetracked. He's digging on you, and totally into you by the looks of it.

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posted October 22, 2010 03:14 AM         

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LOL MVM,

I think I get bored of everyone!!

But I talk to him about 50 times a day we are always calling each other even if its for a minute. I've never done that before.

Me and Ferdi would only talk once a day and that would be for 2 minutes and would be something like this..

Belgz: "Do you have anything important to say?"

Ferdi: "no."

Belgz: "OK .. goodbye" .... Dial tone

I really hope his Mars in Aquarius kicks in soon

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posted October 22, 2010 05:34 AM         

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Belgz, is this the guy with the prostate issue , the FB guy ?

Wow, you have an Eros/Mars conjunction.
His Chiron is on his ASC. I wonder how that manifests?

I would think he would be a deep person. I would think it would give him a deeper sense of who he was and who you were--the real, down deep you.

Let me know what you think of this placement?

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posted October 22, 2010 07:32 AM         

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Belgz,
Did you meet him in September? I seem to remember telling you that you would meet someone in September.

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posted October 22, 2010 07:38 AM         

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*I* remember VIG

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posted October 22, 2010 12:04 PM         

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My dad calls my mother throughout the day, as well. It frustrates her at times, but then she worries when he doesn't call (usually because he's out of range of a phone tower).

He's a Taurus Sun/Moon, and she's Sadge/Libra.

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posted October 22, 2010 12:19 PM         

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god if this is the case...I need me a taurus sun moon! I love that stuff, it helps me feel closer to that person

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posted October 22, 2010 04:27 PM         

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Hi Ami Anne,

Yes, this is the guy with the health issue.

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posted October 22, 2010 04:49 PM         

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Wow, Thank you ,Geo
This guy is wild enough to keep up with our Belgz

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posted October 22, 2010 05:08 PM         

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god if this is the case...I need me a taurus sun moon! I love that stuff, it helps me feel closer to that person

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I know what you mean, seeleah.

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posted October 22, 2010 06:04 PM         

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Yep it's him and yes we met 12th september..

He got his biopsy results and it wasn't cancer but there was a benign tumor that needs to be closely monitored all the time. That was a big sigh of relief yesterday

So gv you were right about the health issue. In his solar return chart for this year he has Saturn in 6th which shows the start of a long term pathological issue.

I am not sure if cancer moon is compatible with me at all but his other stuff is really good. He gets easily insulted and hurt but I do things to try and maintain some sort of detachment but he gets very insecure and he always likes to ask constantly whether I like him or not and I am almost sure this is his moon talking especially with it in the house of cancer. I kind of told him nicely to be less obvious about the way he feels and he got all stubborn and was then being a jerk (temporarily) I can't seem to work him out completely.

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posted October 22, 2010 06:25 PM         

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He gets easily insulted and hurt but I do things to try and maintain some sort of detachment but he gets very insecure and he always likes to ask constantly whether I like him or not and I am almost sure this is his moon talking especially with it in the house of cancer.

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posted October 22, 2010 06:30 PM         

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Belz...

As someone with a cancer moon...I can say this, if you think he is worth it, here are things you can do.

First off, your feelings are your feelings...granted maybe he can control how he acts on them but if you don't try to help him feel secure, as a cancer moon..the relationship will only get worse! it's annoying (hell it annoys me and I am a cancer moon) but at the beginning of a relationship, us cancer moons will need time and alot of reassurance that you DO dig us...once we get that and we feel solid..you couldn't ask for a more attentive and more loving person to be with..someone that will be with you through thick and thin...always there for you.

but we are oversensitive at times, and I realize with your gemini moon and leo venus, that might be a bit of a pain at times, hey..your sun and his moon don't conjunct do they? *will check chart again*

If you want someone that will deeply love you...try to see if you can meet him half way. it might be worth it

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posted October 22, 2010 11:02 PM         

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Oh I try but I feel irritable when constantly required to pay attention and attentive emotionally. I verbally tell him I like him and I'm not going to leave him but I need space. I think maybe of he can't tone down the emotions it won't work but he's off and on. His chart ruler in Aquarius doesn't show at all.

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posted October 23, 2010 02:35 AM         

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posted October 23, 2010 03:00 AM         

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It's conversations like this (about sleeping arrangements) that makes me feel glad to be old. After a certain amount of Saturn cycles and Pluto beating you up, you realize that people have different styles of being and sleeping and you start to not mind it at all. You just kind of let each other be and don't take things like that personally. Anyway, I'm just sleepily commenting.

I'm glad I was right about the health issue not having to be cancer. I have a similar with tumors but they aren't cancer, Thank God. They won't kill me, but they just might annoy me to death. It's my wounded healer issue. Life and relationships are complicated, but it's all good.

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posted October 24, 2010 11:11 AM         

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yeah i can understand that terribly. I can understand him, his feelings being a cancer moon myself, but my venus in gemini totally gets what you are saying too Well, I wish yu both the best of luck and whatever needs to work out between you two to work out

loves and all that great stuff

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