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From: Betty Boop Land
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posted October 23, 2010 11:14 PM         

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I'm just curious.. Do you prefer Sun-Mars or Venus-Mars aspects in synastry?
If you've experienced both aspects - which of these led to more sexual attraction/compatibility?

I know the vibe is different and maybe difficult to compare but still - If you could bring one ex back into your life for one night of seriously steamy sex - would you pick the Sun-Mars ex or the Venus-Mars ex?

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From: richmond va
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posted October 24, 2010 12:35 AM         

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Prefer Venus/Mars, Sun/Mars has too much competition.

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From: kokomo, IN, USA
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posted October 24, 2010 01:18 AM         

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I agree..I have sun conjunct mars with a friend of mine..and it just makes me want to push him down. lol!!!!!

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posted October 24, 2010 01:26 AM         

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Sun conj Mars

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posted October 24, 2010 01:27 AM         

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From: redlands, ca,usa
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posted October 24, 2010 03:50 AM         

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We have, Mars conjunct Mars, Mars conjunct Venus, Sun conjunct Mars DW, Venus square Pluto, Mars trine Pluto and Sun trine Pluto is so hard to know wich of this aspects makes so hot also have the S/A of Mars/Venus on his Mars his Pluto/Venus on my
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posted October 24, 2010 04:31 AM         

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for sexual? in my experience definitely sun/mars.

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posted October 24, 2010 05:20 AM         

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No doubt! Venus opp. Mars! (my Mars)

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posted October 24, 2010 07:22 AM         

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I have a friend whose Mars conjuncts her guy`s Sun. She definitely wouldn´t want to change that for anything in this world.

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posted October 24, 2010 07:32 AM         

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They are different energies. For sexual expression I agree with Sun-Mars, but for romantic feelings Venus-Mars but only when the female is Venus and the man is Mars. Signs would have to be factored, I think. Elements, at least.

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posted October 24, 2010 07:38 AM         

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Sun-Mars is a very masculine form of sexual attraction I think.
Which now and then can be nice, but I think personally I prefer a little bit of a gentle addendum, too.

What do you think about her Mars conjunct his Venus then?

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posted October 24, 2010 07:46 AM         

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It depends on the man, DD. I think it gives the woman the masculine energy where she either just takes the lead or feels the need to and some men can find that threatening, particularly as they're carrying the Venus energy in this situation. Personally, I don't like it, even with all my Aries.

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posted October 24, 2010 08:48 AM         

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I think you are right, it depends very much on the people involved, how comfortable they are with a role reversal.

I was just thinking that I may be surprisingly comfortable with it as Mars conjuncts my ASC though.

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posted October 24, 2010 10:32 AM         

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It's a total different story for me if my Mars is in OPPOSITION to a guys Venus, compared to the CONJUNCTION.

With the conjunction (in Aqua) I appreciate the sweetness HE has, HIS passion, HIM taking care of ME in the bedroom, the kisses of HIS mouth/like a God etc. which let me think that he's the man every woman should fall for, but... I feel barely any sexual attraction

With the opposition (in Leo/Aqua) I don't feel this at all because there's simply no room to distinguish a HE from a ME. It's like all I feel with the conjunction is already there in a very natural way which causes a total meeting, melting and merging with each other.
Ofcourse; here's no lack of sexual attraction.

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posted October 24, 2010 10:49 AM         

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I'd say my Venus conjunct his Mars and his Sun SQAURE my Mars.

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posted October 24, 2010 12:31 PM         

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It depends on the man, DD. I think it gives the woman the masculine energy where she either just takes the lead or feels the need to and some men can find that threatening, particularly as they're carrying the Venus energy in this situation. Personally, I don't like it, even with all my Aries.

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I don't like it much (my Mars in the same sign as their Venus - no conjunction), I like to feel like the girl, and not chase, and I'm an Aries Sun.

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posted October 24, 2010 12:34 PM         

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wrong thread. Sorry.

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