posted October 26, 2010 01:41 PM            

I currently have the Trine with a Cap i'm obsessing over. Seriuosly I think about him ALL the time lol. Even one time I was thinking about him all day and then I go to walmart and I see him. It was the most awkward thing ever lol. Especially since the walmart he went to wasn't closer to his house. I'm sure he knows I'm super obsessed with him, and its hard because he doesn't feel the same way. As he doesn't do ANYTHING. Yet when I see him I act like I don't even know him lol. And then when we are downtown we will just look at each other. It's horrible.

posted October 26, 2010 02:03 PM            

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pluto with who has a girlfriend...and he gave me the tightest hug when we said goodbye...he ignores me but I'm sure it's because he has a girlfriend and wouldn't want to see me again. We had a lot of chemistry that day we met when my best friend took me to his house.

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posted October 26, 2010 02:59 PM            

The Composite only mathematically averaged the midpoints of our collective Venus' and Plutos. In the Synastry chart, they were SQUARE!

So, the Synastry chart was correct and produced UNREQUITED LOVE! So my opinion is that when you start with the Compostie chart you are getting ahead of yourself. You are discussing all of the behaviors and feelings of Venus-Pluto trine in Composite but it can be made up of Synastric squares.

But to be fair, you didn't ask about committment or whether the relationships last, just how they feel and it does feel profoundly loving.

posted October 26, 2010 09:38 PM            

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Just like any other time, you have to take the whole chart into consideration and live it out. Nothing is a guarantee. Saturn connections to personal planets is when you start getting into the subject of longevity. When considering "feelings only", it will probably feel good.

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posted October 27, 2010 01:25 AM            

Is it a relationship that you're trying to rescue from a grim reality or the opposite?

posted October 27, 2010 09:20 AM            

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With all of the tense Saturn aspects in the chart, especially Saturn to the Sun, Moon and Mercury, it feels to me like a lot of control issues and possible depression. BUT, I'm not in the relationship so I don't know how it feels. Are you living with this person? Are you married? Are you siblings? Parent and Child? I don't have enough information about you. I can only say that if it feels good to you, you don't need astrology to tell you that.
Is it a relationship that you're trying to rescue from a grim reality or the opposite?

You don't even have to answer those questions for me, just think about it.

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No. we are exes. He has contacted me to I guess restart something, or at least be closer friends. I did like the relationship alot, but it got really serious really fast and freaked both of us out. I wasn't depressed about it. But there were control issues, not outright but looking back you can deff see both sides holding out for a better position (pluto was also involved heavily in the realtionship and composite...including the Moon Conjunct Pluto). And the only reason I entangled was because I went away for a year to San Fran. Also there was a lot of inexpression on his part. He stayed VERY tight lipped especially emotionally, if I ever said I missed him or something he'd stay quitet.

I guess you could say I'm trying to save this relatioship and maintain it...I don't know if its worth saving. I care about him but I was hurt so much I just don't know if I can trust him the same way. But I will always be there for him, and maybe that's the Saturn talking lol.

posted August 25, 2012 10:42 PM            

Im scared to death...