posted October 27, 2010 08:21 PM
I was thinking that maybe this is just a phase. Its not necessarily the totality of the relationship. i was also thinking about the fact that uranus in on ascendant of a house that is intercepted or hidden and the ascendant usually signifies how the relationship began. its did begin suddenly and completely unexpectedly on both parts. and we have created a relationship paradigm that is a bit unconventional. with the chart ruler in the 11th and co-ruler in the 3rd house -- we met amongst a gathering of mutual friends, at a house. i came out and there he was and he was in love right away. he was hanging off of my every word. and the next week we were and have been inseparable.
as time is passing i can see us falling more into the expression of our composite sun (capricorn in the 2nd house). both of have businesses/brands and we spend a lot of time planning and working towards growing them. (both of our natal charts are early cardinal signs on the angles so we have been going through pluto/saturn/jupiter transits to SEVERAL planets and angles.)
finally, a lot of the interpretations i've read about our many saturn aspects in the synastry and even our cappy composite moon talk about how both parties take the relationship seriously from the being and work hard to make it stable...this all true. there has been a clear sense of purpose from the very beginning. i'm just glad we have all of those saturn contacts in the synastry to offset that uranus conjunct ascendant in the composite.