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Topic: Without getting graphic, what's it like to sleep with a Virgo?
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3221 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 02:16 PM
Amowls, isn't your 4th house Virgo? It sounds like you've had a lot of Virgo influence in your life, and maybe you're comfortable with them somehow?PS - I LOVE boy shorts - they're adorable! - but they ride up on me I might also attribute my constant focus on the other because of my Libra stellium and my Venus conj the 7th house, but I dont know. I think in some ways our perception of each sun sign is very tweaked by which house they fall into in our own chart. For me, Virgo falls in my 6th and end of my 5th where sun is, and I seem to meet them on the job of all places most of them time. I've never really had much intimate experience with them, save for one or two isolated experiences a long time ago. IP: Logged |
Chryseis Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 30, 2010 07:06 PM
ok, I'll admit it, I like comfortable underwear, and hey if they have a slight resemblance to granny knickers then more fool the person that has a problem with it because i am curmftibool! Don't G-strings feel like you have a permanent wedgy, MVM? Must be your scorpio Venus can deal with that kind of incessant stimulation. I don't have any of this other type at present, but I think my ideal undies are like that style in 1950's bikini bottoms like Grace Kelly maybe wore. The snug fitting ones that sort of have a band across the abdomen and the gusset sort of triangled away under that,. I don't mind the idea of suspenders, though I don't wear them, or haven't in quite awhile. They seem very functional and I don't like the all in one type of stockings in general unless they are particularly well made and sort of tailored. I do like thicker tights though because they are sort of like leggings. I like boy leg types of undies as well but only if they are sort of higher at the sides and they don't ride up because I sure don't like to think that my ar*se is saying to everyone all day - talk to me. In general, as a Virgo myself, I think that we are a particular mob that can be put off by things that people would never think of, in oh, a million years or so. So, I guess that gives a pretty clear picture of our interest for endurance and longevity. Having said that, I in particular do not like routinely marathon sex, or hours/days of fondling, or having to dress up to fulfill someone's fantasies, or having to fulfill their fantasies in general, or having to provide them with entertainment. Well, that is, not never, to any of the above, but routinely, then forget it. I like men's shirts, not on me so much but on them, I also like cleanly shaved jawlines, or if they wear a beard then a cool beard. I don't like moustaches on their own, and I like sinewy functional hands with nice skin that looks like they can make shoes or something. Now, if I supposed on what the opinion on me has generally been....lets see now. Let's go for the three most prominent opinions. 1. Wastes too much time mucking about with stuff till late at night. 2. Talks too much about, not exactly boring, but things that she doesn't need to go into in so much detail - though interesting in its time and place. 3. Wouldn't be able to barter her shoes for a scr** ....and I can't quite make sense of the rest of it or its connotations...sounds like an insult to me, haha. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3221 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 07:15 PM
Dunno if it's a Scorp Venus thing. I've met way too many Virgo chicks that like gstrings and Im sure not all have Scorp Venus.What I do love are men's clothes and suits while I wear gstrings and sexy lace underneath IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 515 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 07:28 PM
i forgot, all his Virgo Stellium planets are in the Leo-ruled 8th house!! and i guess his analytical ability goes into how and where to make knots without causing purple limbs, i guess.IP: Logged |
Chryseis Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 30, 2010 07:31 PM
Maybe it's a generational thing - you're a lot younger than me, I might be just showing my age, after all until I went to school, my mother made my underwear and they were bloomers - those sort of play pants that they used to put little kids in. I thought I had really grown up when she bought me some white cottontails when I went to school - cottontails were the sort of traditional sensible underwear for girls.So yeah, can't teach an old dog new tricks I guess, haha.
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1473 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 07:54 PM
d/p--->> what is with this connection?IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1473 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 07:55 PM
I'm a Virgo Moon and the only time I wear thongs or G-strings is when I'm trying to hide my pantylines or I'm wearing a nice party outfit. Its a sad waste since I own too many. But that's my Taurean Jupiter/5th....just acquiring stuff for the sake of it. My bff has a Virgo Moon too and she often loves going commando or in a thong and boasts about it. *SMH* She has a Sag Sun, Aries Mars, and Scorpio Venus too. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3221 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 07:57 PM
Chrys, is it? I'm 37... But I do see the generational astro stuff a lot too. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 2995 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 08:12 PM
one of the best lovers i ever had was a virgo. sexy sexyIP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 2995 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 08:14 PM
virgo was one of the best lovers i ever had. fer sure. hot stuff.IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 1766 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 08:55 PM
Yes MVM I have Virgo on my 4th Its also the sign of my SN and opposite my Venus so I get annoyed with them when they're judgmental lol.IP: Logged |
GrlyGirl20 Knowflake Posts: 269 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2010 10:13 PM
Mmm I can't say I've slept with a Virgo Sun...but I have slept with a two Virgo Risings, and 2 Virgo Moons (that I can remember...ok ok I went through a wild period in my early 20's lol)As far as what they were like, they were ok. I wouldn't say the Virgo makes them more or less better or worse in bed. I'd actually say the Venus is big on what they will try and won't. I have an Aqua ex who has a Virgo Moon and Cap Venus he was fairly generic in bed and pretty passionate and ok. I dated a Double Sag with Cap Rising and Venus in Scorpio and seriously he was VERY kinky lol, and he had a water Mars (Pisces) and was very very quick but when he did last VERY good lol. I also had a brief fling with an older Libra Sun, Virgo Moon Mars in Libra Conjunct Pluto (with Taurus Rising) who was very kinky as well, and the only man I've ever met who's voice just turned me on so much lol. I also had a thing with a Pisces Sun/Sag Mars, and Virgo Rising and I just found him boring in bed. In fact I didn't feel anything for him. Which was strange...we had an exact conjunction from his Moon in Cancer to my Mars in Cancer, plus it was also Conjunct my Asc and Sun. Not to mention we had Trined Suns, Sextile Venuses (his in Pisces and Mine in Taurus) and he just bored me to pieces. Way way too touchy and sensitive. So I'm thinking its not really the Mars only or Virgo placement only that make one really enjoy someone sexually or not. IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Down the Rabbit Hole Registered: Jun 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 01:00 PM
The underwear discussion is cracking me up!Virgo Sun, Scorpio Venus here like MVM...I hate underwear! I will wear them to be ladylike but if I can get away without them, I prefer commando. When I do wear them I love boy shorts. There's something about being masculine but still pretty that I like. I have a big butt, thongs are disastrous. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 515 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 01:50 PM
i know! it's all about undies and not about sex now. thanks Lara! btw i LOVE granny knickers. i got Saturn in Virgo =old fashioned, literally.IP: Logged |
seeleah Knowflake Posts: 375 From: kokomo, IN, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 02:00 PM
I had a virgo mars...and yes I agree with amowls...extremely tender, didn't like doing ANYTHING that I didn't enjoy, even if he would like it...He didn't understand that with my pysche virgo..I was into pleasing too, even if it wasn't a huge turn on for me...I was into pleasing as well.... so it was happy with us IP: Logged |
SagGirl Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Canada Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 31, 2010 04:05 PM
My ex of almost a decade was a Virgo Sun. I never had any complaints about that aspect of our relationship (pretty much the only thing he did good, lol).I don't think he used any "analytical" abilities but he did pay great attention to detail. I never had to use words to say what I liked or didn't like. He listened and watched my expressions and reactions instead, which I appreciated because I'm not a "talker" in the bedroom They're also pretty versatile and up for experimenting but at the same time, have no problem enjoying the more traditional, tried and true methods if that's what you want. Very giving and unselfish in bed which is always a good thing I think Hope that wasn't too graphic, lol IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 515 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 05:13 PM
that's right about what someone said, that they do it with pleasure if it pleases the partner. this aforementioned Virgo stellium friend had a hard-core masochist GF in the past and although he hates blood and all the violent stuff and super tender-hearted, he was happily with this girl 7+ years. good for him!IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Plymouth, Devon, United Kingdom Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 03, 2010 09:02 PM
Virgo Sun Venus Scorpio Male here. I also prefer going Commando only really wearing boxers for Sports. It typically has more negative connotations being Male and going Commando than being Female and going Commando. Double standards eh... All of this dicussion is insightful. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Mars Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 12:01 AM
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Purple Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Planet Love Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 12:45 AM
I've been with a Virgo...He's Gemini rising, moon in Aries, Venus in Leo and mars in Scorpio. It is always pretty crap. Were almost the whole time worrying about the condom. He gets frustrated a bit and isn't very sensual. Most times we plan to "do it" but we end up talking and sleeping instead. I don't know why it's always such a hassle. I think were just good friends. Virgo doesn't have a high sex drive either. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 772 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 12:49 AM
I was married to a Virgo, hummmm for the life of me I just cant remember... lololololololololololololololol...... I really have no clue what it was like... I think I blocked it! IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 01:05 AM
rawr, i've been with two virgos. BOTH were incredible. same deg of virgo too, trining my chiron exactly. maybe that's why? one's moon was exactly on my SN, the other's moon was on my sun. one was extraordinarily technically proficient and actually told me he spent a good deal of his early adulthood studying 'technique'. he was from down under- in both senses. he knew what he was doing, let me tell you! the other one shared a more intuitive link with me. his mars in aries made him a bit rushed but also nicely agressive in a way i hadn't experienced. he was insecure though, about his performance and body, which can probably be linked to virgo.IP: Logged |
Dionysian Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Earth Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 01:21 AM
Pleasing.IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 04, 2010 05:54 AM
ah, mvm, yes house overlay! virgo falls in my 8th. hence, the rawr.probably explains why i've had my share of virgo moons too. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9 Knowflake Posts: 38 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 04, 2010 03:09 PM
plutosquared that picture of the grannypanties made me cringe !!! ewww kill me if i ever wear anything like that!okay virgo merc, venus, mars in the 8th venus and mars are sextile pluto, uranus and neptune first off, if you cant tell i HATE granny panties or any form of underwear/ bras that are "functional". g strings, booty shorts - red, black or pink is all i wear second. the comment about marathon sex- i am a marathoner. all day all night, ten times a day im down and i cant say how i am as a lover cause its someon else's opinion but i dont analyze, ever. i love to get lost in it, to get completely consumed in it till i cant see straight. i feel raw passion pumping through me like a force, my bf says he can def feel it. and im not gentle very often. claw, bite, rough sex, hand cuffs, i love it all ive never gotten any negative feedback other than sometimes i bite too hard or draw blood by accident. oceaneyes
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