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posted October 29, 2010 11:08 PM         

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my Scorpio Venus rules my 5th/12th and Venus Transit is in my 5th house as well.

Since this Rx has started I have had 5 of my ex's come into my life... I'm so ready for this to be over with!! But, at least I'm getting closure with all my past relationships....

Anybody else having this type of issue?

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posted October 30, 2010 12:22 AM         

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A couple of exes yeah but also just a lot of depression and reliving of painful experiences. My little arguments with my boyfriends have become overly intense as I've been more emotional and I think I have cried more this past month than I have in a couple of years actually. I'm always happy he's just patient with me since he knows my past in relationships was hellacious, ugly.
It's not just been damn Venus rx on my natal Venus Scorpio but also it's in my 7th along with Mars, which when it was in Scorpio was really bringing out some hell. Saturn in my 6th has given me health problems that are totally stress-related as it straddles my stellium and my dad had a stroke a few days ago (he's fine now).

So it's been all over the bloody place form me - I wish it was JUST closure from exes, I've already had the closure from all but my ex-husband, who's memory I worry like a sore tooth.
Ready for the next month, please.

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posted October 30, 2010 12:26 AM         

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A couple days ago, I stopped communicating completely with an old ex of mine. He was the married one I was talking about in an earlier thread, with a Venus in Scorpio.

I just told him that we could talk in a few months (because the venus in retrograde will be over, and he'll have time to clear his head). I didn't mention the Venus Retrograde, but I'm taking pre-emptive measures now.

I refuse to get sucked into this retrograde!

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posted October 30, 2010 12:27 AM         

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My ex has been very supportive during this time.

But I've had a horrible couple of months. Lots of family illnesses, none of them turned out to be serious but it was scary at the time.

I lost someone I love a lot. Not to death, he left me. And I've been sooooo sad about it. I don't know how he's feeling since I haven't seen him since he left me.

My Scorpio house is my 10th, but I've felt the Rx in Venus areas more than 10th house areas.

I don't know how the Venus direct will feel better, because I am pretty sure the person who left me will not come back, and if he doesn't, I feel like I'll be sad forever.

Three of my friends broke up with Bfs or Gfs during the Rx, so far. Two were the ones who did the leaving, and they seem pretty happy about it. And one got left.

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posted October 30, 2010 12:29 AM         

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Keep those trouble-making Venus Scorpio boyz away, PlutoSqarii! - when they're bad, they are very, verrryy bad (tho when they're good, they're awesome lol)!!

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posted October 30, 2010 12:30 AM         

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I had managed to avoid old flames for most of this retro so far, but that's probably going to change when I fly back to my homestate next weekend. Ugh.

Other than that, I'm done with my skin peeling, my hair looking like crap, and one of my instructors making it so unobvious he doesn't think I belong in his program even though I have the 2nd or 3rd highest average in the class. Do the nights of lost sleep mean NOTHING to people?

My own Venus is unaspected, and it rules my 5th and 10th house. This retro Venus is also going through my 10th house. *sigh*

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posted October 30, 2010 12:32 AM         

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YOU are not helping at all, MVM :P hahaha

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posted October 30, 2010 01:16 AM         

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It's funny I haven't had many old exes contact me. One did, and that was short lived. But I'd kill for closure. I have actually been missing the Aqua ex for some reason though. So I don't know where that has come from. I actually sent him a facebook message, which I'm sure he won't respond to. But I just had to say that we are both in our 20's and its ridiculous at this point when we broke up so long ago and haven't been back together that things soured as much as they did. I was orginally on the "I hate him rant." But I just decided that I do care for him and I did feel a deep connection with him regardless of if he felt it or not. And I don't want want us to be enemies if anything to just be cool with each other before I move away. And that I wanted to see him before I move in December to just clear stuff up.

I'm guessing he won't reply but who knows. I also contacted a guy I used to talk to, and a few old friends I had something for. Not to resolve anything but to just see how they are. I also started talking to a female friend of mine that we drifted apart. So perhaps this RX is doing more than just focusing on romantic relationships.

This Venus RX is opp my own natal Venus and is transiting through my 5th house. So I've been thinking about past people I had emotions for. And wanting to know how they are and such.

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posted October 30, 2010 05:09 AM         

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interessting..none of my exes contacted me during this retro period and i`d like to one of them to reappear as i feel there is some unresolved issues..

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posted October 30, 2010 05:14 AM         

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lol noone of my ex-girlfriend show up in this venus retro period so i have to think again of my poor loveability

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posted October 30, 2010 07:00 AM         

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*WE* broke up, my pisces and I.
This retro-period gave me the opportunity to discover he has a very negative mother complex!
I was just one of his victims and it took me almost 9 months to literally FEEL/SEE it.
I noticed the exact same pattern I've been through, with only a difference in variegation, regarding his EX.
I was shocked when I saw this, it felt like a THRILLER!! (I thought; I could write a thriller/drama/roman about it!)

Venus rx is running through my 3rd! My Scorp-Moon 16,5* is there square Mars.

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An ex-love came up and I'm also DONE with him.
From another ex (Sun/Merc/Pluto-Scorp with retro-venus in scorp natally) I got an e-mail so this is not yet DONE (but I can feel.... pffft).

(These 2 ex friends were the only ones I STILL felt for in a way..)

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posted October 30, 2010 07:01 AM         

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My ASC is 12 Scorpio so Venus is messing with me
This Venus Retro feels like Pluto but with a different twist.
It feels like Pluto with a more intense lasar beam.
I feel like my inner workings down to the cells are being exposed.
I feel like my cells have cool, clean water flowing on them.
The lies/distortions I believed about my self have this light shining on them.
Little by little and very slolwy, I see that these lies were not real.

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Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend.

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posted October 30, 2010 07:29 AM         

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Yep Scorp asc here as well and this Venus rx
is making them come out of the woodwork for sure.
It's not all bad though - I have been tracked down and engaged in communication by people I haven't spoken to since gradeschool!

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posted October 30, 2010 07:55 AM         

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Does anyone else find the Hiccup Girl going down for murder so creepily Retro Scorpio Venus? The whole thing is just straaaange.

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posted October 30, 2010 11:37 AM         

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OMG! I hate it! I thought I would love it but it has been painful and depressing.

I know it's all about resolving baggage blah blah but I've got a million exes floating around and things are ending that I don't want to end...but probably needed to

It's been crazy.

My Venus is in early Scorpio so will have gotten beat up 3x by the time this is all over and done with. And all the action is in my 8th house.

I'm pretty sure it's exact conjunct my natal Venus tonight actually and I'm going to a Halloween party with an ex...who is a fellow Venus in Scorpio LOL. He also has Mars in Scorpio conjunct my Venus so it should hit us both.

Fun times...or murder LOL. I guess we'll see

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posted October 30, 2010 11:42 AM         

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Visions, that doesn't mean you aren't loveable!

Venus Rx is bringing up feelings of "poor lovability" for lots of people I know. It depends on where it's hitting your chart.

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posted October 30, 2010 01:39 PM         

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What is happening to me is that I thought I was not lovable but I am seeing, little by little , that I am.
However, it is really, really painful.

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posted October 30, 2010 01:42 PM         

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^^^I wish I was in your shoes. =( This Retro Venus just seems to be exarcebating my Unaspected Venus issues. Though maybe the opposite scenario would be scary. =__=

*I also wish this had not coincided with Holloween. I usually enjoy it soooo much, but I won't be doing anything this weekend.

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posted October 30, 2010 02:47 PM         

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It DOES feel like a pluto transit. I knew venus in Scorpio for so long, and rx, would be a trying time. Venus doesn't like scorpio. It's ok for a regular transit but not 100 days and backwards.

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posted October 30, 2010 03:02 PM         

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Well, Benedict,I am so desperate to feel better, to feel whole, to love myself.
I would do anything.
I think I surrendered like you have to with Pluto.
ALL I want is to feel whole. Everything else is second.

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posted October 30, 2010 03:09 PM         

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Hey there,

Have Venus transiting my 7th. So far, no ex's coming forward. Except in my head. Thinking of several former bf's. Don't know if this has anything to do with the transit or not, but my current bf and I are actually going through a great new time. We've been rocky for awhile now, but lately, things have picked up. We've found some new ways to connect, and things are much better. Not perfect, but definitely better than before.

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posted October 30, 2010 03:13 PM         

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posted October 30, 2010 03:19 PM         

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Thank you Redstar
I have an unaspected Gemini Venus.

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posted October 30, 2010 03:20 PM         

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Well, Benedict,I am so desperate to feel better, to feel whole, to love myself.
I would do anything.
I think I surrendered like you have to with Pluto.
ALL I want is to feel whole. Everything else is second

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Perhaps its a positive lesson from Retro Scorp Venus, even if it comes so painfully (as only something Plutonian would). I think Venus in Detriment would work that way anyways, since it being dignified is about what's pleasing and pleasant...and not messy (well, mostly when its Libra..lol).

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posted October 30, 2010 03:20 PM         

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Yeah, the unlovable stuff comes up here as well while sifting thru past garbage. I just keep going WHEN WILL IT BE DONE, I THOUGHT I WAS DONE GRIEVING THIS ALREADY!
yuck.

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