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Topic: Now what... more misery?
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lechien
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From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 01:36 PM
 
3-4 months ago i posted here and asked how my partner would pull through the disaster of his life. now his Saturn passed over his Stellium, and the imminent sense of doom and misery has lessened slightly… i am moving out to give us some space (we stopped being couply months ago due to the stress of life), and we FINALLY managed to make this parasite flat mate *understand* that we want him to move out. so from tomorrow, a new life starts. i would wanted to say so. we tried to find a new flat mate to replace the parasite one, but we are not happy with any of the people who came to look at the place and don't know which one to pick. it's very important, for anyone, to have a comfortable living place. it's my partner's own flat so he should deserve to have peace, but he only got terrible people who invaded his space and took advantage of his generosity since 2 1/2 years… ANYWAY my question is… do you see any indication that he can finally have peace at home? comfortable, friendly and relaxed flat environment… which will help him concentrate on his work and get his life straightened out? i just see the retro Uranus/Jupiter opposing his IC ruler Venus, which doesn't give me a good feeling. and as for me, these transit planets are cj. my IC. so i cannot help feeling that the whole disaster with the living situation isn't over yet… both transit and progressed Sun is around his 10th house, so maybe he can pull through career-wise? but comfort at home?? we need a break from the disaster-ridden life that has consumed us...! is there any sign of things looking up?? thank you so much again for helping me interpret! Natal w/ transit
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 503
From: i live in a kitchen
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posted October 31, 2010 01:36 PM
and Natal with Progression!
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lechien
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posted October 31, 2010 01:42 PM
Uranus will finally go forward on the 6th of December. i wonder if it will not be as bad when it's not retro anymore.IP: Logged |
Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2010 06:47 PM
Lechien, he seems so particular on the home front. But there are contradictions, like as if he can put up with magazines, papers etc lying around on the coffee table and on top of things, but can not stand a hair on a glass table top - that kind of thing.Weirdly though, it is almost as if he would be less stressed in a commune where he doesn't feel responsible for other people's stuff and can just concentrate on keeping his toothbrush and comb clean and tidily placed on top of a handkerchief on top of his bhagavad gita or whatever. I think the pluto opposition to chiron is the culprit. Past life issues, or early life issues - religious in nature, like concerns over people corrupting his internal environment and making him estranged from his communion/relationship with a personal deity/religious observance/religious code of living. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 503
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2010 08:50 PM
 Chryseis, are you a psychic or are you reading that off the chart?!? and, LOL, the toothbrush bit… all i can do is to nod frantically. he was a hard-core punk in the 80s living in squats filled with addicts and ****** with his 8 dogs etc, despite with bizarre neurosis like not being able to sit on the toilette seat or something like that. and indeed, he would not mind as long as people leave him alone, but the last 2 1/2 years he could only live with the kind of people who would use his "gita" as toilette paper or, you get my meaning. and yes he has a grave early life issues, not necessarily religious but it has stigmatized him. it has huge influence on his everyday life and with relationships with others including with me. he is now at this crucial moment where he HAS TO work on his skills to establish himself. he is a talented musician and also working on his film script, which just needs to be finished and the TV station already made the offer to buy it (a few years ago…), and finish his PhD thesis, all of which have been interrupted from the total chaos in his home environment. it's now or never! i need him to have a peaceful flat where he can feel well…  IP: Logged |
Chryseis
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2010 10:19 PM
Lechien, no I wouldn't consider myself a psychic but I do feel I have some rapport with symbolic language and the unconscious.He sounds a really interesting person, and he is lucky to have you around to recognise his needs. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 503
From: i live in a kitchen
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 01, 2010 09:29 AM
 you have a special gift, Chryseis!do you get any impression of how things will be for him? will the environment finally let him do what he needs to? or anyone see anything in the charts? i know it's terrible to feel like this, but i've become so pessimistic. i just cannot believe that things get better at this point. things start looking up, but it's always the false alarm and more and more misfortunes and set backs break our optimism. is it finally changing? IP: Logged |
Chryseis
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 01, 2010 11:00 PM
Thank you, lechien! I don't really know what to say. I would have to think though that generally this will be a difficult time for several years -however is it possible that he may like things to have an angst to them to some degree?. Is it also possible that it serves him well to blame others (Saturn in 1st sextile Jupiter in Aries in 3rd[Jupiter ruling hidden sag in 12th). To me it seems that he is incubating and by blaming others and pushing them away it gives him a bit of space to consider what he does want to do, who he does want to know, his material inclinations etc - he doesn't like to be anyone's puppet, but he also has an undefined stance when in comes to relating to others - like as if he doesn't know enough about himself or know how to make bonds with others. There is a high anxiety that fills a space between an underlying tendency to think everything will eventually turn out for the best - to another extreme that worries about things like capitalist, industrialised compartmentalisation of the world and stuff like retirement, insurance etc. He feels perhaps that this is a world he can't live in so he worries about finding a 'world' he can live in, maybe, is this what he tries to do creatively?. So this can make him a bit dizzy with stress, and possibly is it loud screamo music that he seeks to help him escape from what he thinks the world is becoming. Eventually, he will grow into a different perspective with age, even though he is in his 40s- and he will remodel a concept of home and then try to manifest it in his environment. Much of his high tensile stress will fall away but it will be slow. He, I think is severely hanging onto teenage youth - and doesn't like the idea of ageing or becoming what he thought older people become. There's probably not a lot he can do about it - he is missing something and it will dawn on him - he's forgotten there is value in a role that is associated with his age - and I think its along the lines of mature role model that can give strength to youth by listening to what they have to say - instead of trying to stay within the confines of youth. IP: Logged | |
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