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Topic: Jupiter overlooked for compatibility.
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letram Knowflake Posts: 1141 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 11:57 AM
i was recently thinking about Jupiter being the planet that is responsible for our principles and ethics. having compatible principles is very important in a relationship, particularly marriage, long term., they hold very closely to what creates a conscious, and is important when it comes to agreement.i don't think people here look at jupiter this way often if iat all. but iv began to see this show up. my partners Jupiter is in the 11th house, the same house my Jupiter is in, but they are in square signs (mines in Cancer, hers is in Aries) and i think this is a problem that is showing up sometimes. but even though it might not cause say, big fights, i think its very important for happyness in agreement. if some ones ethics and principles are way different than your own, that can be QUITE a problem in love when you think about it. i spoke with a good friend recently about relationship stuff, and were usually on the same page about many things regarding that, and it couldn't be a coincidence that our jupiters are both in cancer exactly conjunct down to the arc. whats your experiences with Juptier compatibiliy with your partners jupiter? and what about aspects it makes to other planets? in my case, my jupiter squares her venus, when i think of her venus as her values, in love and relationships, being in square to my "principles, ethics" and so forth, it makes alot of sense. because this has showed up in the relationship for me. whats your experience and thoughts?
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Quinnie Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 12:00 PM
Hi I agree with you. One of the best aspects in synastry I think is Moon trine, sextile or conjunct Jupiter. The jupiter genuinely cares for the Moon and it's such a lovely benevolent aspect to have. Throughout all the harsh aspects there will be loving light.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69552 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 02, 2010 12:07 PM
I know your situation, Letram. That is a BRILLIANT analysis !------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Quinnie Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 12:20 PM
Hey I don't think I read you right. Yes I agree, Jupiter trine Jupiter is probably one of the best assurances for a successful relationships, assuring goodwill and compatible values etc. I think it's like the affectionate and social aspect or at least extension of Venus in ways.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 69552 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 02, 2010 12:27 PM
You know, Jupiter IS really an important planet for assessing someone's quality of values. It is overlooked ,too.
------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
katatonic unregistered
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posted November 02, 2010 01:09 PM
i always look for jupiter contacts. mine is in 12th house so any contact to it lights up the deep for me! good post!IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 7072 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 01:37 PM
I never underestimate Jupiter-aspects. He`s my chartruler after all.  Personally I like Venus-Jupiter a lot. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 597 From: Registered: Jun 2016
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posted November 02, 2010 02:05 PM
I like Jupiter aspects the best!IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2791 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted November 02, 2010 07:49 PM
Steven Arroyo says that nice Jupiter aspects in synastry can trump over any harsh aspect elsewhere. I'm not sure I completely agree, but he may be onto something....its VERY nice to have someone's Jupiter conjuncting your Venus. IP: Logged |
amowls* Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted November 02, 2010 10:08 PM
I've had Jupiter conjunct Venus before (in 2 relationships?) and it was pretty great... not something that I would focus on though.IP: Logged |
woah cakes Knowflake Posts: 985 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 02, 2010 11:46 PM
yeah i had jupiter conj venus fling- soooo nice. very loving, fun and compatible. we laughed and smiled so much his moon also conj my sun but i know that jup/venus conjunction was so much of that good feeling we shared.currently with the guy i love, our jupes are conjunct, exactly. we DEFINITELY have the same ethics and values and even spiritual orientation at a very deep level. i wonder though if the conjunction is almost TOO much of a good thing? jupiter being the planet of expansion, it's almost like we're so IN our jupiters together we don't see how everything else folds into it. i had jupiter opposite jupiter in my second last relationship and we were really too different in our understanding of and ethical/spiritual thrust toward the world. interesting because it was an ongoing 'issue' between us; trying to recftify those differences! IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 1980 From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends Registered: May 2009
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posted November 03, 2010 12:00 AM
this really makes so much sense in my synastry with my partner.his Jupiter is cj. my Moon and tr. my Venus/Neptune. my Moon especially is the vulnerable point in my chart, for it is also my SN. we have MANY squares, like it's almost consisting only of squares! i always wondered what keeps us together no matter what, we've really had A LOT to overcome. despite all, he is supportive of me and there is trust between us. my Jupiter is cj. his DC, trine his Mars and square his Venus/Mercury... IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 597 From: Registered: Jun 2016
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posted November 03, 2010 12:58 AM
I like that book--I wish I could remember the name of it, I think it's Madeline Aslan's Jupiter Signs, something like that--where she says if we each just act out our Jupiters, we'll be happy!I think it applies to relationships. If someone's Jupiter is all over even a nasty section of your chart, they just beam jolliness and adventure and fun all over it. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 09, 2016 01:41 AM
I couldn't resist adding my results with this particular synastry find. Looking at my first loves composite with mine--- Jupiter/Moon it's a 30m conjunct in Scorpio. His 5th and my 11th house. Somewhere I even read the 5th&11th are about giving/receiving love. This might be a reason he never escapes my heart either. If anyone else gets this in synastry, it might very well be magic. You're probably blessed in a couple connection. (Another reason is we are each other's missing pieces. We both are intercepted with the opposite signs missing for us both. He has both Leo and Aquarius and I have his two missing signs.) IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 607 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted December 09, 2016 01:53 AM
From what I've read, Jupiter is husband for a woman. The longest relationship I've had his jupiter conjunct my moon and mine conjunct his sun. I think it's a big deal for lasting relationships. Also jupiter to venus I've seen as being very positive.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3648 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 09, 2016 01:55 AM
I often have much to agree upon when someone's Jupiter is in the masculine signs than when its in the feminine.I had a Venus(him)Jupiter(me) trine with an ex in Aries(them)and Sag(me)respectively.And I think it tends to create an atmosphere of easy forgiveness. Jupiter-Pluto may create a "lifetime" bond? Not necessarily meaning that you two will live in each other's pockets,but there is a sense that the person will be a part of your life for a long time coming. The same ex has Jupiter(his)conjunct my Pluto. My best friend has his Pluto sextile my Jupiter. Another one has his Jupiter conjunct my Pluto. When I see Pluto in another person's chart contacting my Sun/Jupiter/Neptune mix, I always think that there are fine things coming on our way... IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 8591 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 09, 2016 02:19 AM
I would think house placement would be more important than sign. An astro-twin born hours after me in the same hospital was so different from me, and she hated me over issues regarding some trivial matters and sexual morality (at least what she believed), though I suspect it's because my 5H stellium was her 12H and this is what really bothered her. In any case, I went to school with peers born the same year, and given how slow Jupiter moves, it strikes me as too silly to think Jupiter has that much of an affect to make people compatible just because they align. At the very least, houses must make a difference as well, combined with the other aspects, of course. That, and background. Indoctrination and such would not be pursued so much if we were born "hardwired" with a complex ethical philosophy. My ethical philosophy has shifted significantly over the years. It's hard to explain, but the end result is that if my 20-year-old self met me, she'd probably resolve to never become me (though I know she'd/I'd be curious). I was in a deep, passionate love relationship for many years with someone, but it ended badly. Her BFF ended up dropping her and becoming my BFF instead. I have a 4H Scorpio Jupiter (15 degrees). My ex has a 7H Libra Jupiter (04 degrees) and her former BFF now mine has a 5H Libra Jupiter (10 degrees). 'Course, there's a lot more than Jupiter going on, I'm just saying that comes to mind when considering this thread. Oh, and btw, I seem to be one of the few who is NOT attracted to Scorpio. I get along with some very well, but it's a sign that makes me nervous when it comes to romantic dealings, and I've had to endure more than one Scorpio who became too obsessive for me that way. When I was younger, having prominent Scorpio placements was a deal breaker for me when it came to romance (but love being friends with them), though I've lightened up on that. IP: Logged |